670 The person I want to marry (Part 2)

Jiang Zhihan said: "That's what I think, because the people around me give me that impression. (Niuwen Novel~ Read novels online) My parents are actually very good in the middle, but small frictions and conflicts are often constant. At that time, I thought that if I got married, I must not force it. If I force it, it is better to live alone."

Wu Siyi laughed at him, "You think about this early."

Jiang Zhihan continued: "Back to your problem, the times are different now and the concepts are different. Moreover, most people are in love freely, and the situation should have changed a lot. But I think, for many people, marriage is still a social norm first. That is to say, at a certain age, if you are not married, you are not the mainstream of this society. Because of this, people around you, parents, teachers, or friends, most of them will not sit idly by, but will try every means to help you solve this problem, introduce friends to you, and often urge you to get married, and instill in the benefits of marriage.

Rebirth is an instinct inherited by human animals and one of the biggest things in life. Marriage is also a prerequisite for having children. For most people, this social norm also contains many practical values. For example, for boys, it is always a good thing to have a boy to help with laundry and cooking at home. For women, having a companion can relieve loneliness and an arm to rely on. Two people are older and having a companion can take care of each other is better than having a person sick at home and no one knows about it. Therefore, marriage has many functions and functions, whether it is to pass on the family line or rely on each other.

Wu Siyi's eyes looked like water, "I heard from you that marriage is functional?"

Jiang Zhihan said: "It's not complete. Even if it's functional, you have to look at someone with big eyes and stare at them all your life. You will always find someone who likes them and gets the same temper. Otherwise, how big a torture would be? But isn't there a recent study? The so-called love also has a material basis, but it is the secretion of hormones. This is very consistent with our materialistic guiding ideology. And hormones are said to be able to be secreted for up to eighteen months. After that, they slowly fade away less and less and eventually disappear. So it's very

Many people say that marriage cannot be maintained by love. The relationship between two people will gradually change qualitatively, and finally become something like family affection, which can last long and the basis for life. Last time I heard someone say, introducing what is the relationship between knowing and what is the relationship between having no feelings before marriage. As long as people are good, they can be cultivated slowly after marriage. Since what we need in the end is nothing like family affection, after being together for a long time, we care for each other and help each other, maybe they can be cultivated."

Wu Siyi blinked, "Is this your boring empty talk, or is your plan for your marriage?"

Jiang Zhihan shrugged, "Am I me? I haven't had time to consider getting married yet."

Wu Siyi asked: "When will I consider it? Thirty, forty,... Sixty?" He smiled with a pursed smile.

Jiang Zhihan said: "Well, I think it's a bit like the so-called enlightenment in Buddhism. Or, you have seen Forrest Gump, he ran outside day after day, month after month, suddenly one day, one moment he stopped and said I was going home, so he went home. It should be that I would have been there for a day after day, and suddenly I was eager to stop, so..."

Wu Siyi asked: "Before today, you never thought of stopping?"

Jiang Zhihan frowned and thought for a long time, "I don't remember it very much. Maybe it happened, but later I gave up."

Wu Siyi was about to speak when the cell phone in Kun's bag rang. She took it out and looked at it. She seemed to hesitate for two seconds, but pressed the answer button, "Well... I'm outside... I'm fine... I'm sorry, it's not your business. Don't think so much, I really don't have anything... I'm afraid I haven't had time these two days... I'm not perfunctory, I really haven't had time these two days... Well, don't take it to your heart, it's just a trivial matter. Then, goodbye..."

Putting her phone in her bag, she looked up and Jiang Zhihan turned her eyes away and was looking at the street scene in the distance.

Wu Siyi sighed slightly, "Xiao Zhang's father left cancer when he was eight years old, and he raised it alone. He had said before that orphans and widows are often bullied, so he is very strong-willed. He is thirty-four this year, and it was almost the same last month. In their hometown, he was over the age of getting married and having children. Every time he called back, he urged him. Maybe he was forced to tell her later... "

Jiang Zhihan turned his head and looked into her eyes, "No matter what, why should she hit you today? She hit you."

Wu Siyi smiled bitterly, "I said I was a vixen... I couldn't tell where I grew up, so why did I tempt my son... I said... Forget it, there is nothing to repeat about these old ladies." Since childhood, today is the first time Wu Siyi was beaten. With her personality, whoever dares to touch her finger will definitely fight back from her fist to her teeth, but today she gently endured it.

The slap on the face will be painful even if it hurts a few hours later. But if the pain soaks into the skin and penetrates into the heart, it is not a trace that can be erased in a short while.

Jiang Zhihan lowered his head and pondered for a moment, looked up at her and said, "You did not do anything wrong, although many things cannot be distinguished by simple right or wrong." He seemed to have no idea how to continue, so he repeated it again, "You did not do anything wrong, believe this."

Wu Siyi looked at him and suddenly burst into a very faint smile, "Zhi Han, actually, my view on marriage is very different from yours. You said so many things, maybe it makes sense, maybe it is the choice of most people. But that is not what I want. If it comes to taking care of life, I can take good care of myself, cook and arrange my life, and I don't need anyone else to help me. I also don't need anyone to protect me, I can protect myself. I need someone to be my company, but it is not possible to relieve your loneliness by having someone around you. Everyone says that Xiao Zhang is good, has education, has a career, has a good temper, and is good to me. These are all right."

She raised her head with a little pride, "But... that's not what I want. As you said, everyone should have something different to want, it probably falls into the category of personal choice."

"I want to find," she looked into the distance, "it's just a person who can make me cry and laugh, that's that simple."

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