669 The person I want to marry (Part 1)

The mountain that Wu Siyi brought Jiang Zhihan to is probably more precise. It is less than ten miles away from the company and is considered a commanding height in the city. (Niuwen Novel~ Read novel online) In the middle of winter, the trees are a bit desolate. When you look up, you will feel a little like a scent of old vines, old trees and crows.

After parking the car, Wu Siyi took him and climbed all the way to the top. There was a small temple here. On winter afternoons, there were no people around.

Jiang Zhihan didn't speak, and accompanied her into the temple gate and walked through the open space in front. Unexpectedly, there was a different world inside, one after another, with three buildings.

When he walked to the innermost Buddhist temple, there was an old monk with white hair and beard standing. When he saw Wu Siyi, he smiled and closed his eyes, recited "Amitabha", and turned around and floated away.

Jiang Zhihan frowned. No matter how he looked at it, he felt that this old guy was making a fool of himself.

Wu Siyi bent respectfully towards his back and walked into the Buddhist temple without saying a word. Jiang Zhihan looked up and saw a gilded Buddha statue sitting upright in the middle, with a smile on his face with a flower-picked smile on his face, and a Buddhist lotus under him.

There were three cushions in front of the Buddha statue. Wu Siyi walked over, knelt down, buried her head, and seemed to be praying piously. Jiang Zhihan stood behind her, pursed her lips, and suddenly felt a little pain in her heart.

After a long time, Wu Siyi raised her head. She knelt there, opened her mouth and said a few words in a low voice before she stood up. Perhaps because she had been kneeling for a long time, she suddenly got up, with some blood supply inadequately, and she covered her head and shook it. Jiang Zhihan hurriedly reached out to help her.

Wu Siyi leaned gently in his arms, and for a while, looking up at him, "You go and worship too."

Jiang Zhihan showed a embarrassed expression, and the girl said, "It's very effective. I have come to worship when I bought Nanfeng and bought a garment company... Well, I have come to worship when Lin Xiao was kidnapped."

Jiang Zhihan was slightly moved, and he said gentlely: "Okay." He put her arm, walked over, knelt down respectfully, closed his eyes, cleared his mind, and muttered something in his mouth.

After a long time, he stood up, took out a few hundred-dollar bills from his pocket, stuffed them into the merit box in front, and murmured in his heart that the monks probably valued this more, and perhaps the Bodhisattvas also valued this. Without incense money, how could they have a clear idea?

Turning his head, the girl seemed very satisfied with his performance just now, giving him a soft and encouraging smile.

Sitting on the hillside west of the temple, you can overlook the surrounding streets. In winter, Yangcheng is much warmer than in Qingzhou Zhongzhou, but the mountain wind blows, it still feels a bit of a bit of chill.

Wu Siyi was wearing a red cashmere sweater, a light-colored brand-name windbreaker on the outside, and a pair of half-height deer leather boots on the soles of her feet.

Sitting there, she suddenly asked him, "Zhihan, why do you say...why are you getting married?"

Jiang Zhihan answered her, "I can't answer such a metaphysical question." She was glared fiercely.

He had a bitter face, "I really don't know what to say." Jian Siyi didn't mean to let him go. He thought hard for a long time before saying, "People are different, so the purpose of getting married may be strange."

Wu Siyi said: "Tell me all of them."

Jiang Zhihan complained secretly. After thinking for a while, he said, "You know, when I was a child, I lived in the factory area, and everyone in the neighborhood knew everything about the family. My mother is also an enthusiastic person, and she likes to mediate trivial disputes everywhere. Over time, there are many people, most of them women, and occasionally some men come to her to tell her about the unsatisfactory or grievances of marriage. I play near our unit building. In summer, everyone often enjoys the cool air outside, and often hears couples quarrels, and even scratches and pushes. My mother has a best friend. According to her, her husband drinks all day long, does nothing at home, and doesn't care about work.

, and there are bad habits of all kinds. Every time she was wronged, she would come to our house to cry. When I was in junior high school, one day, she just left our house and I asked my mother, why should we hold back together? My mother was surprised at that time. Adults thought we were young and would make such remarks. She said to me, why? It’s for little guys like you. There are so many unsatisfactory marriages, but if you divorce, it would be so sad that the children would be. They grew up in single-parent families since childhood and were ridiculed by their classmates at school. She said that so many people compromised and maintained a marriage for the sake of the children.”

Wu Siyi looked at him softly, as if he was reminded of his parents' marriage.

Jiang Zhihan continued, "I asked my mother, if it was all for the sake of children, then when they were together, there were no children at that time, it wouldn't be for them? Haha, it seems that since that conversation, my mother felt that I was very mature. She told me that at a certain age, you need to find a companion to be with me. Not everyone can find the perfect one in their mind, or most people can't find it, but you can't live alone, right? After getting married, oil, salt, rice, sauce, tea, vinegar, small things will grind out a lot of things, and keep everyone together, mainly responsibility. Marriage is a responsibility. Looking back, it was probably the first time that my mother treated me as an adult and talked about so many serious topics. Perhaps after her good friend came to her to cry that day, she also had a lot of feelings and wanted to talk to someone."

He said, "I'm not afraid of you laughing at me. I really thought about it for a while. Moreover, my opinion is quite pessimistic. In my parents' generation, couples rarely show their intimacy in front of others, but most of them complain about each other. I feel that it seems that none of the ten marriages is very happy. Most of them are just making do with their lives, and one or two couples are simply holding back each other. Later, when I went to the United States, I found that there is another extreme there. Everyone is very good when talking about their wife and husband. An American friend joked to me that if you ask about the situation of the marriage, they will only have two answers, one is very good, and the other is just divorced yesterday. Well, those who just divorced yesterday and even said that we were really good before yesterday."

Wu Siyi smiled with a pursed lips, "So, when you were young, you thought most marriages were just do-it-all?"

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