Chapter 1861 Technology and Magic VI
Temple of rocks.
For a higher gnome
Rhetoric can be said to be a course that must be practiced!
Because for most advanced goblins, part-time businessmen are a matter of course
As a businessman, speech is naturally absolutely necessary!
Language has powerful power
Good-willed language can make people encourage, satisfy, and joy
And vicious words can make people feel pain, frustration, loss, and even despair!
Just like the general's mobilization before the war begins, the soldiers can often be fearless and the counselor's sharp tongue can also take away the enemy's mind and even life!
Regarding this, I believe that the new era internet celebrity Wang Lang and Wang Situ have a very strong say in it.
This is the power of language!
The same purpose, expressed in different words, may result completely differently
The ancients always said that honest words are good for action
But from another perspective, it just means that it is better to say less of this kind of unpleasant advice.
The reason is very simple. Even if the purpose of any language is correct, it is better to say less if it is unpleasant.
Many times, some people always have this kind of perception
That is, no matter what you do, as long as your starting point is correct, no matter how you do it, you should not be criticized by others.
However, this perception, in a sense, is itself seriously wrong!
In this world, doing bad things with good intentions can be said to be very common
Sometimes, a person's starting point may be correct, but if he uses inappropriate methods, the final result may be contrary to his wishes.
Especially in terms of language expression, under the premise of the same content, wrong tone often has completely opposite effects.
This situation is especially likely to occur when parents educate their children
Sometimes, some parents always appear simple and crude in education.
They rarely care about the child’s real needs, but always use their own ideas to control their behavior
They always feel that as long as their starting point is good, no matter how they treat their children, they will inevitably be correct, they will inevitably not need to take responsibility, and they will inevitably have a good result in the end!
But, the reality is not the case
Even if the starting point is good, if the method is wrong, the possible results will be in the opposite direction of expectations!
In the name of love, doing non-love behavior is a mistake that many parents often make
What determines a person's position is actually not a person's idea, but a person's way of doing it!
After all, everyone can have ideas, and kind people can have evil thoughts, but if you don’t put them into practice, you will still be a kind person.
On the contrary, if you actually do something wrong and evil in order to do something good, then you will actually be no different from the evil ones.
Just like when you are online novels, you will always feel a certain sense of substitution. In this process, you will naturally feel that you have a sense of identity with some of the protagonist's behaviors. Even if these behaviors themselves are not correct, readers will feel empathy.
However, having a sense of substitution is one thing, and whether you will do this is a completely different thing!
Just like online games, there are also violent scenes, but in reality, people will really cut people and explode equipment. Except for a very small number of psychopaths, they may almost never exist.
On the contrary, many times, some kind-hearted people often do bad things for various reasons. In a sense, such good intentions do bad things are actually no different from bad people in essence, and even the harm will be greater
In a sense, having evil thoughts in a person's heart is not something that is particularly worthy of criticism. As long as you do not convert your evil thoughts into actual actions, it is not a big deal. However, even if a person's heart is full of good thoughts, if you lack the wisdom to transform good thoughts into good actions, it may lead to tragedy instead.
In this world, there are almost very few parents who don’t love their children.
In this world, there are almost few parents who do not want their children to make a name for themselves.
However, even so
But there are still many children who have gone astray for various reasons
In a sense, this is precisely a lack of parents’ education!
It is the same behavior of loving children, different parents often show their love in different ways.
Different educational methods often get different results.
Some parents have excessive superstitions to produce filial sons under the stick, allowing children's childhood to grow in the shadows, while some parents have excessive pampering children, making them unable to survive like normal people in society.
Some parents know what kind of education method is correct, but they cannot make up their minds to educate them.
Some parents understand what the method is correct and can make up their minds to execute it, but the final result is not satisfactory
What is the reason?
After all, it's just two words!
communicate!
Yes, communication!
Many times, most of the contradictions in this world often come from the lack of communication!
And in communication, the most important thing is naturally face-to-face language communication!
The stronger the voice communication ability, the stronger the communication ability, the more capable the person is, the more capable he has to convince others.
This is the so-called communication art!
To put it bluntly, the so-called art of communication is actually just a verbal technique!
How to better make others accept their suggestions and minimize the possible repulsions of goals in this process are all part of the speech!
In this regard, the most typical example is naturally the sales process of those salespeople.
For the same product, different salesmen will produce completely different sales performance. Even if it is a telemarketing that does not meet, the performance gap between salesmen will be very, very large.
After all, this is actually a gap in speech skills. People who know how to speak are always more likely to attract the attention of potential buyers. On the contrary, they will often be hung up by just saying a word.
The better the insurance company or marketing company, the more rigorous they think about the language. This is often very obvious, especially in the customer service of large companies. No matter what kind of people they are, they can often comfort the other party through language, and in this process, people naturally enter a relatively safe dialogue rhythm.
Of course, operators like 0 often have similar qualities. After all, only by having such qualities can we handle various possible emergencies in a calm manner in the face of danger.
Whatever you say and what tone to say, these are all very advanced skills
If you choose the right way of communication, you can often easily get the other person's favor.
Of course, the same
On the contrary of this kind of speech
The role of another type of speech is completely opposite!
If the former is a conversation technique used to make the other party feel good, pleasant, and satisfy.
Then this other kind of speech is exactly the opposite!
This type of speech is mainly aimed at bringing negative emotions to the other party!
Compared with the former, this type of speech often requires more sophisticated skills, and the results that can be achieved are often more severe than the former!
Simply put, it is actually ridicule!
Yes, mocking!
Compared to words of praise and encouragement, words of ridicule can easily stimulate negative emotions of the target!
The same thing, speaking in an encouraging tone or a sarcastic tone, are two completely different concepts!
The former gives people a warm feeling, while the latter can easily make people feel nameless!
Simply put, it is actually the so-called trash talk!
After all, trash talk is actually a kind of language art!
Especially on football fields, it is particularly common on basketball courts!
The fundamental purpose of saying trash is, after all, to anger your enemies and thus bring the target into anger!
No matter what kind of sports or competitive events, it is often difficult for an athlete in an angry state to perfectly perform his responsibilities!
That is, because, on the court, angering an opponent is actually a kind of weakening of the enemy in a sense!
Many violent incidents on football or basketball courts are actually derived from such seemingly inconspicuous trash words
Of course, there are a lot of trash talks, and there are also many players who can talk trash talks.
However, there are often very few people who can anger their opponents in the true sense. After all, most professional players, whether they are football or basketball, are extremely immune to trash talk. Many well-known players have long reached the stage of being calm in favor of contempt. No matter how ugly the other party's trash talk is, they can often accept it calmly. Although it may cause a little anger, this slight anger will not only not make them lose their minds, but will make them more excited.
However, even so, there are still people who can say trash words that are enough to make even famous stars angry. For example, Qi Zu's famous header in the World Cup is enough to show that even a small trash words can cause extremely terrible lethality as long as you speak at the right time!
As a higher gnome
Mastering the language is naturally an absolutely necessary thing!
For anyone who has mastered the language, it will not be so difficult to say something that makes your friend feel as warm as spring, or say something that makes your enemy feel as cold as winter!
And Gris's words showed such an effect!
(To be continued.)
Chapter completed!