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Chapter 72 Arrived at Wang Xue's house

"Mom, I won't go. Besides, Wang Yexue and I have no emotional foundation. Even if we force ourselves to be together, we won't be happy."

Yun Tao said a little against his will. After all, Wang Xue is very beautiful, and she also wants to have such a beautiful woman in her heart. Every man has a "love of beauty", otherwise there would be so many examples of "heroes are sad to pass the beauty" in history.

"What kind of emotional foundation do you need? Your dad and I have not even met each other before, so we gave us a kiss until we got married. Until you grow up, your dad and I have nothing unhappy." Wang Mei said.

Arranged marriages were very popular in Yuntao's parents' generation in rural areas. At that time, arranged marriages were not as free as they are now. They also let the children of both parties meet and meet each other, let the two talk alone and listen to their children's opinions. If both parties are not satisfied, the marriage will be ruined and the parents of both parties will no longer force them.

The arranged marriage at that time was really all-in-one. Many men and women had not even met each other, and their parents had already decided on the wedding day. Many men and women only knew what they looked like on the day of marriage. Regardless of whether the man and woman were satisfied or not, the marriage was already together, and the two were tied together for the rest of their lives. As for whether they were happy or not, the rural people at that time did not talk about this. As long as they had a "wife and children's warm bed", they could eat more than anything else.

Arranged marriages have a long historical reason in China. In the long feudal society in China, it is emphasized by the destiny of parents and the words of the matchmaker. There is a saying in "The Book of Songs·Qifeng·Nanshan": "What is the case for marrying a wife? You must sue your parents." If you have a slight violation of the rules and regulations, you will be criticized as a great rebellion.

In ancient China, the etiquette and law all regarded arranged children and humble marriages as the privilege of respecting the elders; "parents' orders" and "matchmaker's words" are the requirements for the establishment of marriage. The "six rituals" originated from the slave society, namely "Na Cai", "Ask for names", "Na Ji", "Na Zheng", "Ask for appointments", and "Honor welcome", providing a basis for arranged marriages.

The laws of feudal dynasties in all dynasties have stipulated the right to be married. "Tang Law Commentary" · Household marriage stipulates that parents and other legal elders are children, and those who are humble and young are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who

In fact, arranged marriages are not only in China, but also in Western countries that first advocated free marriage. In the Christian Bible, Deuteronomy 7:3, there is a passage in the sentence "You must not marry your daughter to their sons, nor can you let your son marry their daughters." This shows that the father has the power to arrange marriages for children. There is no description of pre-marital love in the Bible. In the Bible, God arranged for Adam to marry Eve, and God never criticized marriage arrangements.

The biggest drawback of arranged marriages is that they cannot respect the personal emotions of both parties, which seriously hurts the freedom of life of both parties. With the changes of the times, arranged marriages gradually move towards the end and are gradually acquired by blind dates with strong autonomy.

Especially in rural areas, basically 70% of young people at the age of 800 enter the marriage hall through blind dates, which is what is now called "flash marriage". When both men and women meet each other, only if they feel it can, the family will arrange marriages quickly. Especially for young people who work outside, they go home during the Chinese New Year and arrange blind dates at home. If both men and women have no objection, the wedding will be held at the beginning of the year, less than a month.

"Mom, the times are different now. It is important to be free love. You can't compare with you at that time. Besides, Tingting and I are already that way, so his family may not agree." Yun Tao said.

"What free love is, don't mess with me. How many men in our village are talking about by themselves? They are not introduced by their families? Besides, we have not opposed your marriage with Tingting. We have already made it clear. As long as Tingting's family agrees to your marriage, we will do it for you immediately. Before the end, you should go to Wang Xue's house with me and talk about your affairs with Wang Xue. Don't worry, we won't talk about your marriage with Wang Xue before Tingting's family's opinions. Let's talk about the marriage before Tingting's house is confirmed."

Wang Mei said, there is no way. Now that her son is grown up, she has his own opinion. She is becoming more and more unable to listen to her mother's words.

"Mom..." Yun Tao shouted impatiently.

"Baby, do you listen to your mother? If you don't listen, get out of this house and think that your mother and I don't have your son."

Yun Changda, who had been sitting in the chair without saying anything, stood up and shouted at Yun Tao, now that his son has grown up and turned against the sky. If he doesn't suppress it, he will be better in the future. It seems that his father has been so kind to him in recent years, and he dares to be so disobedient.

"Dad, this is really..."

"Don't call me dad, now tell us whether you are going to Wang Xue's house or not, and whether you agree to date Wang Xue."

Yun Changda directly interrupted Yun Tao and said toughly, "Anyway, this brat has to agree if he doesn't agree to this matter, and there is nothing to say."

"Dad, mom, I can go."

Yun Tao said helplessly, sometimes in life, there is always something involuntary. You can’t really ignore your parents. It’s better to meet Wang Xue and tell her about her already having a girlfriend. Think about it, she will forgive herself. At that time, as long as she says she doesn’t agree with the marriage.

"Okay, okay, that's right. Big girl, are you ready for Wang Xue's things?"

Wang Mei said to Yun Zhen, the sister who was standing next to Yun Tao, that Yun Zhen also went with him when he went to Wang Xue's house this time. After all, there was one more person, and there was a person to discuss when there was something. As for Yun Tao, Wang Mei just hoped that he would not cause trouble.

Wang Xue’s family is not far from Yuntao’s house, just a distance of three villages, and it’s only an hour’s walk. However, now rural people are modern. Although they can’t afford to buy a car, they can still buy an electric car.

Now, in the rural areas of Yuntao, basically every household has one or two electric cars, which can be bought for less than a thousand yuan. It doesn’t cost gas, and it only costs enough to charge it. In addition to being unable to shelter from wind and rain, traveling in rural areas is often more convenient than those cars. After all, the roads in many places in rural areas are relatively narrow.

The three of them drove two electric cars for about ten minutes to arrive at Wang Xue’s house. The village where Wang Xue’s family is located is called Yanshan Village. The reason why it is called Yanshan Village is that the older generation said that there is a bare hill behind the village and there are many huge rocks on the mountain.

Wang Xue's family is close to the small hill behind, which is considered the innermost house in Yanshan Village. Their houses here are not as unique as Yuntao Village. In addition to the front yard, there is also a large back yard.

The houses here are several families who are next to each other, and there is no such thing as front and back yards. The space around the house is not large, which is just a little bit in front and back of the house.

When Yun Tao parked the electric car, he found that there was a very beautiful girl beside him. After a closer look, he saw Wang Xue, who had dated him last time, but today he looked more beautiful than last time, and it seemed that he had obviously dressed up carefully.

A pink and purple short shawl jacket set off her excellent figure. She was paired with a tender yellow knee-length skirt and a pair of black high boots. Her dark hair had a natural ups and downs on her shoulders. Her clear and bright pupils, curved willow eyebrows, and long eyelashes trembled slightly. She had a pair of bright eyes, clear and bright, as bright as stars. Her fair skin looked like an egg film and was even more charming under the sunlight.

"Brother Tao, you are here."

Wang Xue looked at Yun Tao blankly at her, as if attracted by her beauty. She said happily that she received a call from Aunt Wang yesterday, but she was so excited that she had been asleep for half a night. In the morning, she even got up early to dress up carefully, in order to show her most beautiful side to Yun Tao.

After all, when I went on a blind date last time, I didn’t know that the partner I was on was “him”, so I didn’t dress up any more. I was just dealing with my sister’s arrangements. I didn’t show my usual beautiful side, let alone the beauty I dressed up carefully.

"Well, hello, it's very hot outside, why don't you stay in the house?"

Yun Tao looked at Wang Xue's forehead and said, "After all, it's July day now, it's past nine o'clock in the morning, and the sun outside is burning hot and hot."

"It's okay, I can't see you coming as soon as possible in the house."

Wang Xue said that in fact, Wang Xue was waiting for Yun Tao and the others in front of the house at around 7 o'clock in the morning. She had been waiting for more than two hours. Even her mother asked her to come to the house. The solar energy in the morning was just in front of the house. Wang Xue refused to stay in the house and could not stand the heat anymore, so she waited for Yun Tao and the others in a cool place under the sycamore tree in front of the house. So when Yun Tao stopped the car, Wang Xue could immediately go to Yun Tao's side.

"Xiaoxue, why are you standing outside and basking in the sun? How can you do this if you lose it?"

Wang Mei stopped the car and looked at Tingting standing beside Yun Tao, saying, "Miss Wang Xue is not a farmer like herself who works in the field every day. It doesn't matter if she is in the field every day, but she is a pure and uncultivated person who has never been to the ground."

"Auntie, it's okay, I'm not that stingy. Besides, I've just waited for a while. Brother Tao, Auntie, Sister Zhen, let's go into the house quickly. It's quite hot outside." Wang Xue said.
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