Chapter Thirteen Home Visits
Chapter 13 Home Visit ()
It has been almost a semester to Shumuling Middle School, but Zhu Daidong has not made a home visit. It’s not that he doesn’t want to go, but that he doesn’t want to disturb the students’ families. Zhu Daidong is also a farmer’s child, and he knows very well what it means to visit a writer’s teacher. No matter whether the students’ grades are good or bad, the students’ parents will be under certain pressure.
Many of the parents of the students in his class are farmers who work at home. They are very simple, but their eloquence is clumsy. Zhu Daidong once heard from other teachers that they went to the student's home writers to visit, but the parents stuttered and couldn't even say anything. Zhu Daidong also had an understanding of this. When his teacher came to visit the writers, his parents were too nervous, afraid that they would say something wrong. Therefore, Zhu Daidong usually wrote letters to ask the students to take them back to their parents, and asked their parents to sign or stamp them before taking them back.
Moreover, the content of the letter is concise and concise. Try not to use unusual characters, and try to use regular script. Most students and parents do not read much, as long as they can understand their meaning.
In fact, there is another reason why Zhu Daidong is unwilling to do home visits, that is, the teacher visits home will bring burden to the students' homes. Rural people are very hospitable, not to mention that the child's teacher is coming, so as long as he visits home, he must stay for dinner. If he doesn't stay, he will look down on others. In order to entertain the teacher, they will kill the hen that is laying eggs without hesitation and catch the fish that is waiting to raise money and slaughter them. Zhu Daidong asked himself that he could not eat such food. Therefore, if there is no special reason, he never visits a writer. Even if it is absolutely necessary, he will choose to go to the evening, at least not need others to entertain himself.
But this time it was different. Hou Tianming went to his office early in the morning to tell Zhu Daidong that his father Hou Yong asked Teacher Zhu to visit his house today and must have supper at his house.
It is difficult to refuse such things as parents of students who take the initiative to invite home visits. Zhu Daidong left Hou Tianming and asked about his family situation. It turned out that Hou Tianming's father Hou Yong is the deputy director of Shumuling Township Police Station, and his mother Ye Lijuan is the officer of the township family planning committee. The reason why he took the initiative to invite Zhu Daidong to do home visits this time is because Hou Tianming's academic performance and attitude have changed significantly recently. Although his grades are still at the bottom of the class, he can pass at least every subject now. To achieve this, it is already commendable for Hou Tianming.
Because Zhu Daidong was going to do a home visit, Hou Yong and Ye Lijuan both returned home early today. Of course, Ye Lijuan even bought enough vegetables. As soon as Zhu Daidong arrived at Hou Tianming's house, she had been busy in the kitchen after she first came out to meet her.
Hou Yong is a demobilized soldier. He worked in Yumuling Township Police Station for more than ten years and was only promoted to deputy director five years ago. Although he has been in the local area for more than ten years, he still maintains the style of a soldier, speaks generously, and likes to go straight. Although Zhu Daidong only worked for less than half a year, after talking to him, he vaguely knew why he had worked in the police station for more than ten years. Such a personality is only suitable for being a soldier and cannot be a general.
Since it was a home visit, of course, the theme was mainly Hou Tianming. Both his parents were at home. Hou Tianming was as obedient as a kitten. After leading Zhu Daidong to his home, he kept hiding in his room, calling it homework and did not come out until he was having dinner.
"In fact, any student can educate well. There are no students who cannot teach well, only teachers who cannot teach. Of course, the cooperation of parents is also very important." Zhu Daidong maintains this mentality for any student in the class. As long as he has the opportunity, he will praise the students. If you praise them, you don't have capital, so why not do it? Sometimes a word of unintentional can add immense confidence to students, and sometimes a word can change your destiny.
"We must cooperate with the teacher." Hou Yong said quickly. As long as the child can learn well and improve his grades, no matter what they want them to do, they are willing to do.
"I heard that you often beat Hou Tianming?" Zhu Daidong asked with a smile.
"Well, you can be a filial son. If Tianming is disobedient at school, Teacher Zhu will beat him. If you beat him to death, you won't be responsible." Hou Yong laughed.
"Beating and scolding a child may not necessarily make him take the initiative to learn. In fact, I think encouragement and praise are the best methods. You should be good at discovering his strengths and often praise him from time to time. I believe that the grades of Hou Tianming, a student, will definitely be able to catch up with them." Zhu Daidong said.
"Encouragement and praise? Teacher Zhu, you may already know that I am a soldier who is a re-employed soldier and likes to speak with his fists. If I often praise him, this kid's tail will not be as tall as the sky?" Hou Yong looked confused. He might be a good player in solving the case, but when it comes to educating children, he is in front of Zhu Daidong, that is, the level of a primary school student.
"You can try to do it. If you don't believe it, you can give yourself a deadline, three months or one month. Maybe the change in the dawn will surprise you." Zhu Daidong said with a smile. In addition to communicating information about students during home visits, parents must cooperate with them to educate students. Only by doing this can both parties achieve twice the result with half the effort.
"Maybe I was really wrong before. He liked to be naughty since he went to elementary school, and he became more naughty as he beat him. If he was not afraid of blushing, he still left Principal Liu's relationship with him when he went to elementary school. Otherwise, he would have to re-enter the sixth grade." Hou Yong himself only graduated from junior high school. He did not expect that his son could not even graduate from elementary school. Although the country implemented nine-year compulsory education, middle schools could also reject unqualified primary school graduates.
Zhu Daidong was also very pleased to hear that Hou Yong was willing to change his approach. People like Hou Yong must keep their word. As long as what he promised, it would be a spit and a stubborn person, and there would be no possibility of remorse.
"It's time to eat, tomorrow morning, come out and help." Ye Lijuan has been busy in the kitchen for so long and finally cooked all the dishes. Although she was cooking in the kitchen, she also paid attention to the conversation between Zhu Daidong and Hou Yong. She could see that Teacher Zhu had no prejudice against her son, and she would not say anything else. She was very grateful to Zhu Daidong for this alone.
"Can Teacher Zhu drink a wine?" Hou Yong took out a bottle of 38 degrees Xixing wine. This was produced by the city winery and is already considered high-end for ordinary people.
"You can drink a little." Zhu Daidong nodded. He could drink two pounds of Lao Baigan at 52 degrees, and he could drink three pounds of Xixing at 38 degrees.
When he heard that Zhu Daidong could drink white wine, Hou Yong showed joy. He had no other hobbies, so he would like to drink this wine. In the institute, his alcohol tolerance was one of the best. Sometimes he had a leader in the bureau, and he would have to accompany him. In the unit, drinking was sometimes like a battle, and winning or losing was of great importance. Hou Yong had made great achievements in this regard for the police station.
But today I met Zhu Daidong, Hou Yong was destined to encounter Waterloo. He quietly put two bottles of Xixing wine in his stomach. Zhu Daidong looked like he was fine, and Hou Yong knew very well that Teacher Zhu was definitely a master of wine. He suggested changing to the old Baigan produced in the village, but Zhu Daidong had no arbitrary opinions.
Hou Yong's alcohol capacity was about one and a half pounds. This time he met Zhu Daidong, and he sacrificed his life to accompany the gentleman. After drinking one pound of Xixing wine, he also had another bottle of Lao Baigan. Now he couldn't support it. After drinking the wine, he said a lot, and he was brother to Zhu Daidong, but he didn't know how intimate he was. But in the end, he didn't know how he got into bed. He only knew that he woke up the next day and had a split headache.
"Lijuan, Teacher Zhu was not drunk yesterday, right?" Hou Yong's first thing he did when he woke up the next day was to ask Zhu Daidong, he had overdose yesterday, and it didn't matter if he was unconscious, so don't let Teacher Zhu make a fool of himself.
"No, what else do you call the wine fairy? I think it's better to call it a wine barrel instead. Teacher Zhu drank two bottles, his face didn't blush and his heart didn't beat. Finally, he chatted with Tianming for a while before going back. He was not like you, he was drunk like a pile of mud." Ye Lijuan was also secretly shocked at Zhu Daidong's alcohol tolerance.
"It's better to be young. If I were twenty years younger, it would be fine to drink another bottle of Lao Baikan." Hou Yong said unconvincedly. The man could not say that it was not possible, especially when it comes to drinking, he had never been convinced by anyone. He had decided that he would have a good time with Zhu Daidong next time, and then he would decide the outcome.
Chapter completed!