Chapter 294 A wise man never falls in love

How to make one person fall in love with another person?

On the other side of the Internet, Gao Ya was sitting in front of the computer in her boudoir, looking at the chat records between herself and Zhou Yuchen on the computer screen, and the above thought flashed through her mind.

Yes!

Since she has fallen in love with Universe Chen (Hu Huhu), she wants him to fall in love with her.

Because only if he falls in love with her, he will be more likely to marry her in the future and let her live the life she wants.

As for whether she likes Universe Chen (Hu Huhu)?

She didn't think much about it.

In her opinion, this issue is not important.

First, she had seen photos of him attending the Qidian annual meeting on the Internet. He looked quite handsome. He must be talented to have written the two popular novels "Holy Ruins" and "Martial Saints of Ten Directions".

Coupled with the popularity of those two novels, no need to ask, everyone knows that his income will not be low.

She thinks being handsome, talented and rich is enough.

Compared with those women in society who work as mistresses for older men than their fathers or even their grandfathers, if she can really win the role of Universe Chen (Hu Huhu), she feels that she will be completely satisfied.

Secondly...

She feels that love is not important. When she watched TV series and novels, she found that many literary and artistic works placed love in a very high position.

For example, a hero paired with a beautiful woman, such as a foolish man paired with a beautiful woman, such as a handsome guy paired with a beautiful woman, such as a scheming man paired with a beautiful woman...etc.

In many literary and artistic works, no matter what kind of protagonist, there will be a love affair that is soul-stirring or extremely sweet.

When Gao Ya first watched these love stories, she thought they were nonsense.

Is love really a necessity?

Must everyone have one?

In war years, military generals protect their homes and countries, and their brains may be beaten out at any time. How can they still think about falling in love?

In times of famine, when everyone is hungry and gnawing on tree bark, do you still think about falling in love?

In the age of mythology, a cultivator who practiced hard and could live as long as heaven would also be interested in falling in love?

Anyway, she always felt that love was promoted too much by literary and artistic works.

She even saw some side effects.

For example: In recent years, the divorce rate has been getting higher and higher. She feels that it must have a lot to do with the brainwashing of those literary and artistic works.

Just think about it: From childhood to adulthood, everyone, whether reading novels, watching movies, or TV series, will see beautiful love plots. This is equivalent to brainwashing everyone from childhood to adulthood. After such brainwashing for a long time, both men and women yearn for a perfect love in their hearts.

, a close lover sets too high a goal for his partner in his heart, but the partner in reality is far from reaching the goal set in everyone's heart.

This will inevitably create a huge psychological gap.

I always feel dissatisfied with my love life.

Under this kind of mentality, those with a slightly impulsive personality will easily have the idea of ​​divorce, thinking that as long as they leave the person in front of them, they will have a chance to find a better one.

But in reality?

How many people get better after divorce?

She couldn't remember where she had read this sentence before. After reading it once, she firmly remembered it and regarded it as her motto.

——A wise man does not fall in love, a fool is trapped by love.

After setting this motto for herself, she would become very calm when she watched the love plots in movies and TV series. Watching the male and female protagonists in the movie and TV series, who were dying or going crazy because of the so-called "love", she became very calm.

The more I feel that not falling in love is a wise choice.

Sometimes, she feels that love is anti-human.

Because people are human not only because they can think and use tools, but also because they have reason.

Reason is probably the most obvious difference between humans and beasts.

Generally speaking, wild animals act based on instinct and animal nature.

Human beings, because of their rationality and ability to think, know how to be patient and seek advantages and avoid disadvantages in the face of many things.

But what about love?

In the definition of love in many movies and TV dramas she came into contact with, love is about listening to one's inner voice, liking another person, and pursuing it at all costs and regardless of one's own safety.

From Gao Ya's point of view, what is the difference between following someone's inner voice and pursuing someone, and acting on instinct and bestiality as a beast?

When a person acts only by instinct and animality, but completely throws aside reason, isn't such a person degenerating in the direction of a beast?

In contrast, she feels that no matter what she does, it is best to choose and do it based on reason.

However, she has always hidden this concept very well.

Haven't told anyone.

In daily life, she is just observing the people around her.

Observe your parents, teachers, relatives, classmates, etc. around you.

She noticed that because her mother liked her father, she lived a very humble life. Not only did she do all the housework, but she also had to go to work to earn money. Even though she heard many rumors about her father spending time outside, drinking and hooking up with other women, she still pretended to be

did not hear it.

And what about dad?

Because she has no feelings for her mother, she lives a very carefree life. She is almost fifty years old, but she still looks like she is forty.

teacher……

She remembered that in high school, her geography teacher was very handsome and very family-oriented. She dressed normally, but his wife dressed beautifully. What happened?

In her senior year of high school, her geography teacher drank so much that he had stomach bleeding and was sent to the hospital in the middle of the night. Then she heard that the geography teacher was cheating on his wife.

There are several similar examples among relatives.

The classmates around me? There are even more examples.

For example, in high school, a top student who originally had good grades fell in love with an outgoing and pretty girl in her class. As a result, the top student's grades continued to decline. In the end, she didn't even get a bachelor's degree in the college entrance examination.

Later she heard that the top student went to a junior college.

Another example is the girls in her dormitory in college. One of them fell in love last semester, and after falling out of love, she slit her wrists... If they hadn't discovered it early and sent her to the hospital in time, she would have died.

Another girl fell in love, and the boy gave her a bouquet of roses, and she agreed.

At that time, Gao Ya thought it was so cheap. The ladies outside sold it for more than a bouquet of flowers, right?

She also heard that the girl and the boy had their first time in an hourly room that cost 20 yuan an hour.

…

Gao Ya has seen a lot of things like this over the years, and she only thinks that many people and many things are ridiculous.

In the name of love, can we sleep for free?

Are you willing to die in the name of love?

In the name of love, can you ignore everything?

If love really requires paying such a high price, she doesn't think it's okay to not want it.

But now, although she still doesn't want love, she frowns and thinks deeply about how to make Zhou Yuchen (Hu Huhu) fall in love with her Gao Ya.

She may not believe in love herself, but she hopes that the other person will believe it and that she will fall deeply in love with her.

She cannot accept that she falls in love with someone else.

But reason told her that love... if used properly, is a very effective tool.

It can help you achieve many goals.

Just like the few spare tires she had in school.

Actually, saying spare tire is not quite accurate.

Because she didn't have a boyfriend, she gave a few boys the illusion that she was interested in them.

Actually?

She just felt that she was a girl living in a strange city and occasionally needed a few people to help her.

It’s good to have a spare tire.

Isn’t there a saying: The more you don’t get something, the more you miss it?

As long as she keeps denying those spare tires, it will be harder for those spare tires to let go of her.

And this is one of the reasons why she thinks love is poisonous.

Sometimes she felt a little unbearable, especially when she saw the two spare tires being so aroused by her that they wanted to die.

but……
To be continued...