Lu Hao looked back at Su Jin and said, "Every age group has its own ideas. They will make some adjustments and changes to their previous ideas according to different situations."

"When I was little, I liked sweet things, but when I get older, I may not like sweet things anymore. I feel tired of them and want to drink some tea."

"Never think that your thoughts in a few years will be the same as your thoughts now. Don't let your life be studded with one choice."

People are sentimental.

There will always be some days when things that make people feel depressed, miserable, and worried will come to mind.

There is nothing wrong with having these thoughts. It means that the body is still free and the head still has time to think about different things. I am afraid that I will work hard all my life and wait until I am old, lying on the hospital bed and dying.

Have free time to think about life and think about problems.

At that time, you may suddenly realize that you have been working hard all your life, but you seem to have gained nothing?

"It seems to make sense." Su Jin said, "Just like when I was a child, I liked playing house, but now I feel that playing house is childish. And when I was in junior high school and high school, I felt that studying was very annoying. If my parents hadn't forced me to

, I don’t study so hard, I just want to go out and play, and the books are gathering dust on the table, but now that I’m in college, I find reading books to be quite interesting, more interesting than going out to play.”

"That's it. Every stage has its own thoughts. The relationship between people should be like this. It needs to be adjusted. The smell is far away and the smell is near. I always think about being together and feel that I am separated a lot.

But if you really stay together, you will get bored. If you put some distance between them, you will get closer when you meet again." Lu Hao nodded.

"In my opinion, my thoughts at the moment are unswerving and will never change in my life. I will always insist on it. But when I think about it after a few years, I will feel ridiculous, so there is something weird in my mind.

When you have an idea, don't rush to do it. You have to calm down and think about it. What are the benefits of doing it? What are the harms of not doing it? After doing it, if the subsequent situation is different from what you expected, can you not do it?

Can you bear it?"

The issues the two discussed were more philosophical and thinking about life.

"Brother-in-law, chatting with you is much more comfortable than chatting with other people. When chatting with other people, every time I express an idea that is different from theirs, they will immediately refute me, and the reasons for the refutation are always the same.

It means that everyone else is doing this. If you don’t do this, you will definitely suffer. The majority of people’s approach and ideas are definitely correct, and the minority’s approach and ideas are definitely wrong. I will not listen to me patiently like you, and

Explain to me and analyze the problem from my perspective." Su Jin chatted very happily with Lu Hao.

After she went to college, she saw many things. She saw not only the firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea in front of her, but also many things that were further away.

Therefore, sometimes I feel confused.

At this age, people think a lot, but their thinking may not necessarily be mature, and they may not be so rational when solving problems, and may be accompanied by impulsiveness.

If you are impulsive, it is easy to go overboard. If a group of people have such thoughts and go overboard, then this behavior will have terrible consequences.

Lu Hao was correcting her, asking her not to rush into execution when she had an idea, but to think more comprehensively, carefully and carefully before finally deciding whether to execute it.

To put it simply, it is actually a sentence summed up by our ancestors: think twice before you act.

"When I look for a partner in the future, I must find someone like you, brother-in-law. Otherwise, I might not be able to talk to him at all, which would be too painful." Su Jin was very confused, "But I feel so difficult.

Ah, many people don’t have thoughts like you, brother-in-law. I can’t imagine this level, including my classmates in school. Even though they have good academic qualifications, can do questions, and can endorse, they don’t have the level of thinking like you, brother-in-law."

Lu Hao is her benchmark for finding a future partner.

"Although they have many ideas, they are too impulsive and cannot think rationally. Their views are often too one-sided." Lu Hao said with a smile, "People can easily go to extremes, either white or black. When you see the past

When a bad side appears in something you have always believed in, you will think that you have been deceived and fooled, so you turn around and believe in the other side, and naively think that the other side must be pure and flawless.

of."

"The actual situation is like a crow in the world, or in other words, no one is perfect."

This is why many positions have certain age requirements. It is too young. Although the ability is sufficient, the thinking may not be enough. They are not so mature and cannot think about problems from another angle.

Being older, thinking more, and experiencing more, you can think and analyze more comprehensively when encountering things, and will not go to extremes easily. Even if you are wrong, you still have room for maneuver.

"Auntie, please marry my dad." Nini suddenly said, "I still want to get married and have a wedding ceremony. You marry my dad so that I can have another kiss and have a wedding ceremony.

.”

Children's words are unbridled!

Lu Hao coughed twice.

Su Min laughed and said, "You really think about your father."

Su Jin secretly glanced at Lu Hao who was driving, and then quickly looked away, no longer looking at Lu Hao, but teasing Nini.

The car drove home.

Lu Hao was not in a hurry to go to the department store or other businesses. He stayed at home and cut a watermelon.

The family eats watermelon.

The watermelon had been frozen in the refrigerator before and was not given to Su Min to eat. She was pregnant and food that was too exciting was definitely not good. Lu Hao peeled an apple for her alone.

The TV is on.

"It's good for my brother to live outside. Our house is too old. It will definitely be inconvenient after he has a baby. Besides, my mother likes to nag. If there is something, she will always whisper in her ear. My sister-in-law is very nice.

, but I’m always muttering, I’m afraid I can’t stand it.” Su Jin said while eating watermelon.

She thought a lot about a wedding, "Now that I think about it, if I get married and live with my parents-in-law, I feel a little scared. What if I don't get along with my parents-in-law?"

"It's normal not to get along, but it's abnormal to get along." Lu Hao said, "Everyone's personality and behavior habits are different, not to mention those who don't live together, but those who often live together.

, there will also be quarrels due to different living habits."

He looked at Su Min and said, "Your sister always talks about me. She takes off her clothes and throws them around. She also puts things in random places and doesn't know how to tidy them up. Also, she always likes to go out to eat instead of cooking at home."
Chapter completed!