The man was stunned by Lin Fan. Could it be that he was a man and Lin Fan didn't understand his grievance?

Lin Fandao: "As a man, it is very normal for a man to be looked down upon by his father-in-law and his mother-in-law's family. In fact, it is not just the father-in-law and mother-in-law's family. In our society, it is very common for men to be looked down upon. If you don't live well, others will

Just give you a blank look and look down on you. You yourself feel that you can’t hold your head high. It’s hard to find a partner without a car or a house. In the money society, whether a man is successful or not is determined by how much money you have in your pocket. If you have money, you are called

If you live well, you can hold your head high when you go home to celebrate the New Year. If you don’t have money, if you don’t live well, you will want to hide away when you go home to celebrate the New Year, or even have no shame to go home, because once you go back, you will definitely be compared with your neighbor.

Those gossips can make you stressed out and out of breath; every slight and every roll of the eyes is like a knife, gouging out your heart."

Listening to Lin Fan's words, the man's tears couldn't stop flowing out. It was so heartbreaking.

There were many men present who seemed to feel the same way and bowed their heads in silence.

Lin Fan is so right. The reality is like this. Every man feels the same way. In this society, there are comparisons everywhere. Living in this world, we face the question of who is doing well every day. Sometimes it really is

Out of breath.

Among all of you here, there are those who are not doing well, and there are also those who are poor and have gone through hardships. These words of Lin Fan are even more touching.

"Boss Fang, have you ever been poor?" Lin Fan asked Boss Fang.

Boss Fang let out a long sigh: "To be honest with Mr. Lin, I was once poor. I was too poor to blame. I was born in a rural area. After graduating from college, I couldn't find a job for a long time. Yes, you read that right.

I really couldn't find a job for a long time. I was a college student who graduated in the new millennium. Logically speaking, college students at that time were quite expensive. They didn't have to have a job, and they were guaranteed a job. But for me,

At that time, I was arrogant and wanted to get ahead, but I had no choice. I was really afraid of being poor and didn’t want to live in poverty anymore, so I started my own business. However, it failed and I no longer had the assigned job, so I was very worried.

I had no income for a long time, so I had no choice but to go home and farm."

Lin Fan smiled and said: "But, Boss Fang, you own this hotel now, and you are also a successful person."

Boss Fang said: "I don't dare to take it seriously. I can only say that it's passable!"

Lin Fan said: "Boss Fang said that he went home to farm, but what happened later to own this restaurant?"

Boss Fang said: "There is nothing good about me, except that I have the determination not to admit defeat. I am not willing to be poor all my life, and I am not willing to farm land all my life. So although I am farming in the countryside, I still think about changing my destiny every day.

I farmed in the countryside for several years, lived frugally and saved a lot of money. I took this money and went to the city to start a business again. At the beginning, I was short of funds, so I set up a street stall.

To buy clothes, you have to get up early every day and go to the clothing market before dawn. You have no choice. You have to grab some goods. If you go late, they will be gone. When you get the goods, you will go to the stall immediately. Guarding the stall is the hardest part.

"Sometimes I worked from morning till night and there was no business, so it was very painful. Later, I finally got over it and made a little money. At this time, I wanted to transform."

"At that time, there were more and more people making clothing. The competition was fierce and profits were getting thinner. I lost confidence in this industry, so I thought about changing careers. Later, after an inspection, I felt that catering was good, so I started to switch to catering.

, there were many twists and turns, ups and downs. Later, with the help of the prosperous tourism industry, I returned to Feng County and opened this hotel, and finally stabilized. The tourists are my parents, so I

Over the years, I am most grateful to everyone.”

Lin Fandao: "Boss Fang's story is really inspiring."

Boss Fang said: "I can't say it's inspirational. I was forced to do nothing. Doctor Lin, you don't know something. When I was farming in the countryside, I couldn't find a partner. My parents broke their legs.

I was looking for a blind date, and a girl came to my shabby house. She turned around and ran away without even entering the door. I still remember this scene. There was also a girl who pointed at my nose and scolded me, then pointed at me again.

My parents scolded me, and I remember all of this. There were also people in the village who stabbed me in the back, so I won’t go into more detail. I understand everything. They said that I graduated from college, so why did I go home to farm?

, trampled me down to nothing. I am the only son of Lao Fang’s family, and I have to continue the legacy of Lao Fang’s family, don’t you think I can’t make progress?”

Lin Fan smiled and said: "After Boss Fang becomes rich, this situation should no longer exist."

Boss Fang said: "This process took too much time. It was not until the business of my hotel got better that things changed. I was in the clothing business and met my wife. We have a very good relationship and my wife loves her very much."

I, but, as Dr. Lin just said, it is very normal for a man to be looked down upon by his father-in-law’s family. I have also been looked down upon by them. Because my wife’s family background is pretty good, her parents do not agree with her marrying me at all, and they feel that marrying me

It's a disadvantage. Every time I go to my father-in-law's house, I don't eat well, but I get a raw meal and look down upon me. This situation lasted for many years because they thought I had no future."

Lin Fan said: "Boss Fang must be under a lot of pressure?"

Boss Fang said: "It's great. I'm under a lot of pressure every day. In addition, it became difficult to run the clothing business, and my hair turned gray."

Lin Fan said: "How does Boss Fang handle the pressure?"

Boss Fang said: "What can I do? Just accept it, I have no future, who is to blame? I told myself, thirty years in Hedong, thirty years in Hexi, don't bully young people who are poor, and don't be afraid of Dr. Lin's jokes. I was

I’m almost in my third year of running, I’m no longer a teenager, but I just have the energy in my bones to refuse to admit defeat. Others look down on me and look down on me. I suffer. I try my best to turn it into my own motivation and fight for my breath. One day, I will

You have to impress them.”

Lin Fan smiled: "Your father-in-law's family should not dare to look at you anymore."

Speaking of this, Boss Fang suddenly became a little proud: "Do they dare? When they see me now, they greet me with low eyebrows and smiling faces. They all want to kneel down and serve me. My brother-in-law's job is to find connections for him.

I paid for my brother-in-law to go to college. I bought the villa that their family lives in. I might as well tell you that Dr. Lin, in terms of family status, I used to be the younger brother of the family, my younger brother’s younger brother, but now I am the younger brother of the family.

The throne, the emperor of emperors.”

Hearing this, everyone couldn't help laughing. Although this was Boss Fang's story, it was very refreshing to hear.

Lin Fan nodded and turned to the man: "Do you know now that you are a fool?"
Chapter completed!