Chapter 234 Kind advice
Wang Qing choked and wiped his tears: "There is no way, who made me a daughter? My mother said that raising a daughter is a loss of money. If she can let me study, I have to know how to repay it."
Xue Ling frowned and smiled: "This concept is a bit extreme!"
If every family thinks so, where will the man find a wife to marry in the future?
If you pay attention to whether to pay or not, no one will want to have a child! This is not business, and it can be measured by money? This is too extreme!
Wang Qing probably found a close friend to chat, but he couldn't stop as soon as he started talking.
"My mother was not satisfied with Liu Xing at first, saying that he was just an ordinary person, his salary was not high, and his family was also ordinary. Fortunately, he had a stable job, otherwise my mother would definitely not. I have known Liu Xing for many years and I really like him. I have been flirting with my mother for a long time, and she finally nodded."
"However, she will have a suite later. She will have a large suite after she has a suite. Now she has finally got engaged and has set a standard for the betrothal fee. Now that she can go to the photo studio, she insists that I discuss with Liu Xing and say that my salary will still have to support my family after marriage."
"Liu Xing's photo studio has just opened, and she immediately made such a request - I was speechless. I didn't dare to talk to Liu Xing at all these two days. I try to help with lunch break and get off work, just hope he can make more money and it won't be too difficult in the future."
Xue Ling sighed softly and said, "It is understandable that parents raise their children to prevent old age. But your mother has not considered the actual situation between you and Liu Xing now, which is indeed a bit too much. What are your plans now?"
Wang Qing wiped his tears, "I...what else can I have plans...I will tell Liu Xing again when I get married. Now he is working hard for his career, and I don't want to drag him down anymore."
Xue Ling thought for a while and whispered: "Maybe you discuss with your mother that if you have your own family, you will have to pay for every day and live a life. If you rely on your husband to raise it, you will be unable to speak at your in-laws' house sooner or later, and it will even be looked down upon. Discuss whether you can give half of your parents' house and half of your in-laws' house."
Wang Qing bit his lower lip lightly and didn't dare to say anything.
Xue Ling was embarrassed to pay too much attention to her, after all, this was someone else's family matter. If one was willing to fight and the other was willing to be beaten, then it would be difficult for her and an outsider to get involved too much, otherwise she would be meddling in other people's business.
Xue Ling had no choice but to analyze her actual situation.
"I have been married to this family for more than a year. I have more experience than you! My parents-in-law and in-laws know each other's families well. Both of them are honest and simple rural people. They treat me very well and love me very much."
"But if I don't have financial contributions in this family and rely on my lover to support me, then they shouldn't discuss everything with me and respect me as much as possible."
"My sister-in-law once said in front of many people that since I got married to their family, the money I earned was from their family. My lover is very tough. No matter how much I earn, he never had such an idea and knew how to protect me in front of his family."
"But even so, I am still self-reliant, making money by myself, saving money by myself, and helping him support the entire family if necessary. In this way, my parents-in-law will naturally respect me more and love me more."
Wang Qing was a little confused and asked, "What if you don't contribute to this family?"
Xue Ling replied: "That's different. If I'm just a housewife who relies on my husband, then I can only follow his arrangements in everything. My parents-in-law think that I have to rely on my husband to live, so naturally I won't value me too much."
She reached out and patted Wang Qing on the arm and whispered: "But you can make money, this is something that Liu Xing's parents know. If you don't have a job, just an ordinary woman, Liu Xing, a top student, may not look down on you. You can make money, but it is something that their family already knows. They also want you and Liu Xing to support their family and work together for the family."
She changed the subject and explained: "But after you get married, you can only rely on Liu Xing to raise your salary. The salary cannot be paid for your family. Then they will be disappointed at first, and slowly they will begin to feel dissatisfied. This is a matter of time."
After hearing this, Wang Qing burst into tears again.
"Liu Xing's mother once held my hand and said that in the future, their family will rely on the two of us young people, and they are all old."
Xue Ling sighed softly and whispered: "So, you should understand this measure, otherwise your mother-in-law, father-in-law and lover are both dissatisfied with you in the future. You must know that you will marry into Liu Xing's family in the future, live with him and his in-laws, so you have to consider your situation in your in-laws' family."
Wang Qing finally understood and choked up: "Then I... go and discuss with my mother, I'll beg her."
Xue Ling nodded and said, "You should know the righteousness and analyze the matter to her. You said that if you do this for a long time, you will have no place to establish a foothold in your in-laws' family, and sooner or later you will not be able to last long. It is not easy for her to raise you into a human being. You will not abandon her and will definitely help support your family. But you only have such a small salary, and you must distribute it well."
Wang Qing nodded hurriedly, "Fortunately, 'Wangjiangyuan' is not very far from our newspaper. I can stop taking the bus from now on, and I will have some money left. I will discuss with my mother that half of the salary will be paid, and my other half will have to support my family with Liu Xing."
"You can ride a bicycle, right?" Xue Ling asked.
In this era, most young people could ride bicycles.
Wang Qing nodded and whispered: "I've learned it!"
Xue Ling smiled and said, "That's great! I'm worried that you don't know what gift you want to give you when you get married. Since that's the case, I'll give you a bicycle to and from work. By then, you can ride a bicycle to and from get off work every day. By then, we live in the same community, and you can often come and go."
Wang Qing was flattered and shook his head quickly.
"No, no, no! Bicycles are too expensive, only 1,200 yuan. No, it's too expensive."
Xue Ling tightened her hand and whispered: "I made a lot of money by selling clothes, so it's still no problem to buy this little gift. If you think I'm a good friend, don't refuse. You and Liu Xing are both my friends. When you get married, I have to buy gifts to celebrate!"
Wang Qing didn't want to say anything else and laughed: "Then... then don't buy something too expensive, you can't spend too much money."
She shook Xue Ling's hand back and pressed hard.
"Ling Ling, you have helped me and Liu Xing too much. I am a person who is not good at expressing words, but Liu Xing and I are very grateful to you. We will always remember your great kindness and virtue in our hearts."
The sky became dark and Wang Qing left.
Cheng Tianyuan took her downstairs and watched her walk out of the community before taking the elevator upstairs.
After he entered the door, he asked: "Wife, why are Wang Qing's eyes red? Are you okay?"
"No!" Xue Ling explained: "It's her family's business. Let's talk to me for a while. As a girl, she will inevitably cry when she encounters difficult things. I've talked to her and she has figured it out."
Cheng Tianyuan felt relieved, "It's fine if it's okay."
Xue's mother knocked on the door and laughed and said, "Dinner is ready, Ayuan, please help her out and eat together."
"No need to help." Xue Ling got out of bed and slowly moved to the food hall.
Liu Ying couldn't help but laugh and praise: "Recovering so quickly! It's good to be young!"
Mother Xue joked: "Then hurry up and have one more next year!"
"Hahaha..." The room was filled with laughter.
Chapter completed!