"I can't get married, so I can't continue."

"Ah?" Jiong Jing was stunned: "It's because of this?"

"Isn't the end of love a marriage?" Wang Taika said: "Otherwise, it will be sad and costly to get married?"

"Not that, mainly, it's too early to get married." Jiong Jing curled her lips: "And, this reason is too... it's normal to have a relationship for a few years, right?"

Wang Tai paused and said, "Actually, the real situation is quite complicated. In a relationship, there are many reasons why men choose to end, but the most common one should be only one."

Jiong Jing asked: "What?"

"I once thought about a question before, why under normal circumstances, girls can accept a relationship without marriage, but boys can't accept it?" Wang Taika said: "The answer I thought of is that love is mostly beautiful and fantasy for girls, so I like sweet feelings. But love is a very realistic thing for boys. Therefore, men will never be with a woman who cannot control them, and they dare not love too much, the conditions are good, and the beautiful ones are not good!"

Jiong Jing curled her lips: "Men and women are equal!"

"Equality between men and women is a social relationship, but in a love relationship, it is definitely a boy tolerant of girls. This is the norm, right?" Wang Taika said: "So the problem is that tolerance cannot be unilateral. Many girls think that the reason for their breakup is that there is something wrong with their relationship. In fact, it is not. There is a big possibility that it is just because they do not listen to advice and do not accept the control."

Jiong Jing was a little puzzled: "Isn't this machismo?"

"No, it's a very realistic problem." Wang Taika gave an example: "For example, boys let their girlfriends stay away from so-called male besties. In reality, how many girls will listen? For example, boys tell their girlfriends not to go to bars and nightclubs and how many girls will listen? Girls think that this is not a problem at all. But in fact, this is the biggest problem with the relationship between two people. I can't say that boys' requirements for girls are reasonable. In most normal circumstances, when a man has expressed his bottom line clearly, as long as the girl does not cross the bottom line, the rest of the things are really nothing."

Wang Tai paused and said, "But the reality is the opposite. Girls like to challenge boys' bottom line. Because girls' decisions are tentative, boys' decisions are decision-making. Girls like to find the right range for themselves through constant temptation. But boys don't have temptation, there is only one bottom line, and it's easy to say if they don't cross the bottom line, and you don't say anything more than the past. So boys will only make one request, which is decision-making and has no room for negotiation. But girls tentatively feel that this bottom line is just one of the ranges."

Wang Taika's words made Jiong Jing confused, but in fact this is his summary of the relationship between himself and Chong'er.

Before we were together, Chong'er had a couple of boyfriends, even if they were murderers, Wang Taika could ignore them. Because that was before, he had never participated and was not qualified to take care of them.

But after being together, some things are red lines. For example, how can a possessive person like Wang Taika accept it? So Wang Taika once said that he used to be casual, but he can't have it in the future. Chong'er also agreed.

However, when a good script opportunity appears, Chong'er took over without even asking Wang Taika's opinion. Perhaps Chong'er thought that he just needed to act coquettishly and apologize like other things, and the matter would be over.

But this matter is different from other things, which is the bottom line of decision-making. Ke Chonger didn't understand it from beginning to end.

Chong'er thought that the two of them had come to this point because they were too mean and did not believe that Wang Taika. But in fact, there was really not. Wang Taika never felt that Chong'er was too mean. Wang Taika also had some doubts about Chong'er. Although he was a little angry, it would not affect his feelings.

The real problem is that Chong'er clearly knew that Wang Taika would not accept the script of the kissing scene, but did not listen to the advice. She crossed the red line that Wang Taika had said.

Let me give you another more vivid example. The relationship between Wang Taika and Song Xiangcai did not end suddenly many years ago. There was a crisis of trust a long time ago because Song Xiangcai later had a boy practicing dancing around her.

Wang Taika once brought seven or eight people to block the man in private. Before he could beat him, the man was frightened. In the end, the fact was that he had nothing to do with Song Xiangcai.

But Wang Taika told Song Xiangcai many times that she would stay away from that man. Song Xiangcai agreed, but in fact she thought it was indifferent to her ears. Because Song Xiangcai felt that she had nothing to do with the male dancer.

The problem occurred when Wang Taika just warned Song Xiangcai a few days ago, and Song Xiangcai did not refute it. But when she turned around, she saw that Song Xiangcai and the man had a good chat and laughter, and Wang Taika's trust in Song Xiangcai disappeared.

Song Xiangcai only felt that it was a classmate, so why bother to never interact with each other? But Wang Taika felt perfunctory.

Even if there is nothing, if it is something that is agreed, at least you can't be perfunctory, you must do it! Otherwise, how can people continue to believe it?

The generation of trust is a long process, which is slowly counted from 1 to 10,000, but disappears only in an instant and is directly reset to zero!

This is actually not an isolated case. As long as you have been in love and have suffered from the pain of love, you will empathize with this feeling. In fact, most girls will make this mistake. They always regard their boyfriend's serious words as unreasonable jealousy, and then answer perfunctorily. They insist on being the boyfriend who is behind the scenes and have a slut, and then they realize that they have made a mistake.

But it was too late. After the trust collapsed, there were endless quarrels and suspicions.

Boys will never understand why they have clearly stated the bottom line, and more than once, but girls are completely unscrupulous, even if girls love them!

Love and trust actually have problems with incompatible problems! Isn’t this funny?

Later, Song Xiangcai also cried and hugged Wang Taika tightly to apologize, saying that because it was nothing, she didn't know it would be so serious at that time, and she didn't know what to do now.

Wang Taika was still unforgivable.

Because trust collapsed, it was impossible to recover. The crack was not until the end of the relationship.

Even to this day, Wang Taika's feelings for Song Xiangcai have been lost. When she remembered Song Xiangcai's perfunctory promised herself, she still felt a sense of hatred.

Wang Taika really hates others lying to him! He is really the kind of person who wants to see how he dies even if he dies!

Besides, who doesn’t hate perfunctory and deception?

Even Wang Taika himself didn't understand why he talked about many things in a friendly manner, but he just didn't listen. He insisted on making a mess in the end and was full of messes to listen to them. But it was too late!

This kind of thing is hard for even normal people to accept, let alone people like Wang Taika who feels extremely insecure?

Even if it was a girl, if her boyfriend took his words as a warning and didn't listen to them, he would be tired!

So there is no need to mention who controls who or who commands who. There is only one problem. There must be one person in the relationship to bear more pressure, and this person does not rule out that there are women, but they are usually men.

So in this case, all kinds of pressures have made people exhausted to deal with it. Looking back, I found that I was hit by an arrow in the waist, then... the collapse of trust is irreversible.

The beginning of any relationship begins with the construction of trust. The end of any relationship begins with the collapse of trust.

Thinking of this, Wang Taika felt very uncomfortable. He found a place to park the car and felt a little uncomfortable lying on the steering wheel. There was a nameless fire in his heart, and he really wanted to destroy it.

Jiong Jing on the side was scared, but after a brief hesitation, he leaned over and patted Wang Taika's shoulder.

I only heard Jiongjing say softly in my ear: "If you are unhappy, otherwise, you can try your code?"

Wang Taika was slow for a moment before he realized what the code was: "Jing Jingjing whispered and whispered and whispered and whispered and whispered and whispered and whispered and whispered and whispered and whispered and whispered and whispered and whispered and whispered and whispered and whispered?"

For the first time, Jiong Jing took the initiative to act like a spoiled way to Wang Taika: "biong~!biong~!"

"Puff!" Wang Taika couldn't help but laughed.

The nameless fire just now really made Wang Taika almost go wild. In the past, if you want to relieve your anger, you have to sleep, and forget it the next day. Today is amazing. Jiong Jing acted coquettishly and actually cleared the heat and fire, and directly wiped out the matter.

Seeing Wang Taika laughing, Jiong Jing asked, "It's so easy to coax? You can't be a acting person who lied to me, right?"

"No." Wang Taika looked at the cute Jiongjing and sighed from the bottom of her heart: "When I was in Hong Kong before, I said that the note I gave you was fluoxetine. Because of this kind of drug for treating depression and anxiety, I was just joked a lot at that time, but I never expected that you could really cure my anxiety. There were no side effects."

"Don't swear!" Jiong Jing was serious for a second, then suddenly laughed: "I'm just out of sympathy. When I see a stray dog ​​on the roadside, I will give you a small sausage! Don't think I value you too much, huh... disgusted!"

Wang Taika really felt that it was quite magical. Just now, he really fell into a state of almost obsessed with hatred. It seems that Huang Dongcheng's affairs have added some psychological dark side to Wang Taika, and they are really out of control.

But after being amused by Jiong Jing, it seemed that nothing happened. It was really more effective than fluoxetine!

"Whatever you say, I like it." Wang Taika smiled slightly.

Jiongjing blinked and said, "Then you haven't told me yet, what's going on? I've been waiting for so long for a long time but I still have no answers. I'm most annoying to you who chatter and don't talk about the subject. It's like singing, singing the prelude and chorus for a long time, without any serious things. Don't sing a high note, even if you have a few rap!"

What a bad metaphor! Wang Taika was also amused and crying when he heard this: "Oh, it's not that complicated to say. It can explain everything with a single pun in Chinese, but I'm afraid you won't understand."

Jiong Jing urged: "You said, you said, maybe I understand? At worst, I will ask Voi! Tell me!"

Wang Taika said: "If you care about me, please care about me!"
Chapter completed!