378, the importance of family education
In order to continue living a good life of food and drink, the youngest son sold all the houses at home and drove the couple out of the house. They had always regarded them as maids and exchanged for the bride price to pick them up, gave them a bite of food, and raised them for their elderly.
In fact, this content is not a story, but it is a typical example of many families. Jing Qingxin told it as a story and just wanted to remind Ma Zhaodi. Even if he loves his children, he should not be too partial to him.
Parents’ spoiling is not love, but tea poisons!
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After listening to Jing Qingxin’s story, Wang Yan and the other two were silent, with a little disbelief!
Jing Qingxin could also understand their reactions. After all, this is the general environment of society. No one has such an educational awareness. He only knows how to do it and give everything to his son!
Everyone will not think about whether such preference will cause the child to lose his personality!
Wang Yan couldn't help but feel a little sad, and said with a trembling mouth: "Is there any such an unfilial son?"
"Why aren't there? Are there fewer unfilial sons around my sister-in-law? Think carefully, if a family with unfilial sons, does his parents love their sons especially? Do you care about everything good and keep your son tight? Do you think your son is the best? If someone says a few bad words, you will be scolded?" Jing Qingxin asked gradually.
Wang Yan was silent! She was speechless. Thinking about it carefully, it seemed to be as Jing Qingxin said! So is this the case? It was all caused by the preference of her parents?
Jing Qingxin asked again: "Think about it, is the unfilial son or unfilial daughter you hear the most around you?
"!" The three of them choked again, they had never thought about this issue.
What Jing Qingxin said and asked is not absolute, but it is also a typical example of most. At least in the past twenty or thirty years, women's status has not been that high, and their acceptance ideas are still very traditional. If they are unfilial, they really cannot compare with the data of unfilial sons.
In Jing Qingxin's view, many rules and regulations of the older generation are not prepared for men, but for restraining women. Once a woman touches her slightly, she will be forced to death by those rules and traditions.
"Think about why your daughter is called Xiaomianao? Isn't it because her daughter is considerate, sensible and well-behaved. Girls are meticulous and can understand and understand the difficulties of their parents. So, if you give all your love to your son and raise such an arrogant son, what's the use? Having a son may not be able to support her. With a daughter may not be able to support her! As long as it is your own child, if you educate her well, your daughter will support her. This is not a problem for men and women, but a problem for family education." Jing Qingxin said with a gentle tone and firm words.
Immediately, Jing Qingxin whispered to Ma Zhaodi: "I say this, Sister Ma, can you understand?"
After saying that, Jing Qingxin didn't want to get Ma Zhaodi's reply or statement immediately. She turned around and continued to be busy with her work. She knew that Ma Zhaodi needed space and time to think, and she was not in a hurry. Anyway, she had said everything she could!
"My brother and sister, you are right!" Wang Yan suddenly spoke out in agreement.
She also has a son who is used to being favored by her daily life, but in terms of etiquette, the couple has always educated their children, and they have not completely followed their children's temperament.
At this moment, after hearing what Jing Qingxin said, Wang Yan suddenly felt that he had benefited a lot from family education!
Jing Qingxin smiled and said, "It's just that my sister-in-laws have talked about this topic, so I just chatted with my sister-in-laws!"
"I also think it makes sense. I have never heard of these words before, nor have I thought about them, but as you said, as long as the child is well educated, no matter whether it is a woman or a man, he will know how to be filial." Yang Mei also said.
Wang Yan joked: "It seems that I have to work hard to have another little cotton-padded jacket. I can't put all my love on a child! If my son becomes such an unfilial son, I might as well raise a daughter!"
"Then come on!" Yang Mei said with a smile. If she could have another son in the future, she must be properly restrained and should not be too doting!
Jing Qingxin's words just now made her heart unable to calm down for a long time. Such remarks are a bit novel, but strange, but very reasonable! If the son is not well raised, it will be like raising an enemy for her family!
Jing Qingxin and the other two looked at Ma Zhaodi, who looked stunning, and the three of them also made a sound of disturbing her, doing their own things, leaving a small space for her to think slowly!
In the evening, the three women told Jing Qingxin's afternoon family education to their men! Wang Yan and the men from Yangmei's family naturally agreed very much, and they also highly praised Gaoshen's wife, saying that Gaoshen's wife was a woman with great wisdom in her heart.
Although they understood some things, they could not say the reasonable words. The men once again felt admiration for Jing Qingxin and told their daughter-in-law to have more contact and learn more with their senior daughter-in-law!
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