Chapter 838 Unbelievable
The spy smiled and said, "I know you are very smart. Even my father praises you, but he doesn't praise others casually. Can you tell me? Zhang Qiang knew that she was here to test him. If he could take this opportunity to dispel her thoughts about him, he said, "Since you have to say no, I will talk about it, but I don't have much experience, mostly things that seem to be seen."
In the past, many people thought that women were charming because they were beautiful, but now it is different. Now more men, especially those with culture, have higher and higher requirements for women. Men who are truly cultured and tasteful think that a woman’s true charm is actually more about connotation, and connotation is a temperament that exudes from the inside out. Women without this temperament cannot be disguised. Everyone has their own appreciation standards. More often, appreciating a person is experienced with heart. Sometimes an action, a look, or a sentence will make people feel good aftertaste. However, not everyone has such temperament. There are many beautiful women, but few women with connotation. Some women have very low quality and do not have much culture. It is okay to see it, but when they come into contact and speak, they will lose their appetite. Some women do not have a flowery appearance, but can give people infinite attraction. This is the unworldly temperament of a woman, and many men like such women.
Not only do beautiful women like men, but women also look very pleasing to the eye. Feminine women are liked and appreciated by every man. Just like temperament, whether it is temperament or feminine, it is a kind of beauty that cannot be explained clearly and cannot be clearly explained. To put it simply, it can only be understood but not expressed in words! In life, we can feel the feelings of a person with just a little contact. Sometimes it feels wonderful, and many people will unconsciously believe in their own feelings and follow them. For people we don’t like, they will easily become disgusted and do not like to contact. And for those we can talk to, they are happy to get along with her. In fact, what kind of people we like to contact and not like to contact with are all very related to the other person’s character, knowledge, speaking, being, doing things, etc.
No man doesn’t like women with connotations. Such women will love them even if they know love. Some people say that men like women to rely on others, and they like women to act coquettishly and linger. However, it’s not just that you love to act coquettishly and lingering. You must also be able to act coquettishly and linger, otherwise it will be disgusting. Women who know how to love and love give people a charm, a style, a concept, a value, and an extreme!
The same women are different. Vulgar women have vulgar words, mother-in-law and mother-in-law, and pale thoughts. Not only does men like such women, but it is difficult for women to have a good impression of them. A woman with elegant and decent moves and every move is elegant and decent, even if she goes out with her own men, no matter what occasion, she makes every move, she is calm and decent, and she knows what can be said and what can't be said. Taking such a woman will give men a lot of face. But men are unwilling to take out vulgar women because taking them out not only makes them look face, but maybe a word will expose a woman's own vulgar side. Therefore, as women, in fact, every woman is different, beautiful and elegant, which makes men like and jealous, while vulgar women make men hate and disgusting.
A woman who moves a man must be a charming woman. A charming woman must be a complex, she should be kind, gentle, enthusiastic, humorous, optimistic and smart. Every man wants to find a smart woman to be his wife, because this not only concerns the intelligence of his descendants, but also whether women will deal with many things in life.
Stupid women always say bad things about their men in front of outsiders, say some family privacy, and use it as a pleasure. When others listen with relish, women will enjoy talking. Stupid women belittle their men all the time, while smart women will elevate their men everywhere.
In life, if you say bad things about your man in front of others, others will dare to say bad things about your man in front of you. In fact, husband and wife are common, and if they are bad, they may not be much better. We say that a dragon is matched with a dragon, and a phoenix is matched with a phoenix, which means what kind of person is matched with a kind of companion. In fact, husband and wife are a whole to the outside world. They do not deliberately elevate their men. Say the right words on the right occasion and do the right things, which is to give face to your men. Belief your men are not good to men, and they are not good to women themselves. They will only make others think you are stupid and stupid!
What kind of women do men like? Of course, they are women who are excellent and elegant in all aspects. Elegant temperament can make beautiful women outstanding, and extraordinary temperament can make ordinary women charming. Temperament is the capital for women to conquer everything. Temperament is a kind of wealth for women.
Therefore, girls like you should not rush to think about this matter now. You should read more books and cultivate yourself into a temperamental woman that makes men fall in love and makes women jealous. A woman’s beauty is born with nature, but temperament can be cultivated. If you do this, a man can’t do it even if he doesn’t like you.
Hong Xiaodie said with a face, "I know you mean to me on purpose, and you know what I want to say so. I know you don't want me to be your girlfriend, but I really like being with you. When I see you, my heart pounds, and my face will turn red involuntarily. I can't help but restrain myself. I think I really fall in love with you.
Zhang Qiang smiled bitterly, to be honest, it is a lie to say that I don’t like a beautiful girl like you, but I already have many girlfriends. Your father will never let you be with me, and I will not give up my girlfriends, so it is impossible for us to think of together. Otherwise, we should be ordinary friends. I have read such a passage saying that if two people fall in love with each other and know clearly that they cannot live together, don’t be lovers with him. Because the role of a lover is like the most beautiful flower in spring, blooming and disappearing quickly. When you fall in love with him, it is best to stay away from the role of a lover. Although it makes you happy for a while, it makes you bear eternal heartache.
Some people say that lovers are dewdrops, and the sun melts as soon as they come out. This is a good statement. We have seen friends who have lived a lifetime, but rarely have seen lovers who have lived a lifetime. The particularity of the relationship between lovers determines that the relationship between two people is difficult to last. Therefore, truly loving someone and loving someone is more suitable and can last forever than being lovers!
Xiaodie said a little sadly, "According to what you say, I just want to be your lover, I can't do it anymore?" Zhang Qiang nodded and said, "That's right, because your father will not allow such things. If you take a step back, it's just that we hide it from your father, but it's unfair to you. Once you become my lover, you will naturally have requirements for me. But I have many girlfriends. If you can't meet your requirements, you will inevitably be sad and melancholy, and you will fall into an emotional vortex and be unable to extricate yourself."
Let’s talk about some trivial matters. If I answer my wife’s call first and don’t answer your call, you will be sad. If you are sick, I am far from caring for you, you will be sad. If I am kind to my wife and children, and care more about my home, you will be jealous. Such a relationship is very tiring, so it is easier for us to be friends, which means that we may have a feeling between us, but this kind of relationship will not make us lose ourselves. We all have their own lives, so you will not ask me too much. If we are friends, you will not care too much about everything about me, but if we are lovers, it will be different. You will be nervous all day long, worried about gains and losses, and make yourself in pain. It will not be beneficial to us if this continues.
A lover is heavy, but a friend is relaxed; being my lover will bring you more tears and hurt, but if we are friends, we will bring you smiles and happiness. We can be good friends, and when we are upset, we can talk and talk, and the worries in our hearts will be much less. During holidays, we can send each other a blessing message to let each other feel the warmth of friendship. Friends are a lifelong wealth, but lovers are eternal heartache! The closer you are to be lovers, the further away you will be in the future. How many lovers who break up can still be friends? Breakup means that even friends cannot be made. A lover is fireworks, but beautiful but only for a moment, while a friend is like flowing water, faint, but has a long history. Therefore, we should be good friends. In this way, I don’t have to worry about your father’s feelings.
Xiaodie blushed and said, "After saying that you are afraid of my dad, are you?"
Zhang Qiang smiled bitterly and said, "It's not that I'm afraid of him, but that the reason we have not been together is insufficient, because you are not yet an adult. If you are an adult, I dare to accept you. Let's be good friends now. After you finish college, let's talk about emotional matters? By then, your temperament has been developed and you will mature. If you still like me, I will have no worries."
Xiaodie smiled bitterly and said, "Okay, let's talk until then, but you said you want to talk to me and send me text messages on holidays. Don't deliberately avoid me in the future." Zhang Qiang nodded and said, "What I said is counting, don't worry."
At this time, they had climbed to the top of the mountain. They climbed up slowly, and Zhang Qiang held her hand again, so Xiaodie didn't feel too tired. She looked at the scenery at the foot of the mountain and said sadly. "I originally thought I had found true love, and true love could not be stopped by any force. I didn't expect that my love would be so fragile, and my dream of love would be ruined by your words."
Zhang Qiang smiled bitterly and said, "In fact, many things in this world are transferred by human will, and the so-called love is the same. We are all looking for its perfection and magnitude. To be honest, true love can make each other's souls fit, make people's behavior abandon utilitarianism, make life burst out with unstoppable power, and even challenge the limits of our own destiny. However, although each of us has a yearning for love, we may not be able to withstand the hardships and tests of the world," he said.
It is normal and understandable to have one kind of doubt on the road to pursuing love, but now our real emotions, that is, what we call true love, really exists? How many will you and I believe? Reality is full of intrigues, and so many so-called humble gentlemen and beautiful ladies are all in the same bed and dreams. Now in this society, material desires are rampant, and everyone gradually forgets their true nature, and silver and jade have become fashion. Love has been alienated into luxury, and many people stay away from love. At this time, it is really a luxury for us to talk about love. But we should admit that the more material desires are rampant and intriguing society, people's desire for real love, beautiful love, and the deeper they desire. Everyone yearns for true love. So does true love exist?
Love is the reappearance of human reason and a beacon for people to move towards civilization and progress. People have no reason to abandon it, nor can they abandon it. The reason why people suspect its existence is because people lack confidence in their own feelings and the loss of temptation in the objective world. When we walk out of loss, a real blue sky will still shine above your head. Love must be maintained and cultivated with the heart, and you will not get true love without hard work. If you lose that beautiful wish, then don’t talk about true love or true love. Without beautiful desires, things that are realistic are in vain for a person who has no desire. If we have confidence and desire in true love, then true love exists.
The key to love is that cherishing both parties is the foundation. If you cherish it, then pay for it. What you need is what you need. Of course, there will be a lot of efforts that cannot be rewarded. Why? That is because when we love, we forget some of the required rules, that is, love is not possession, love is not gain, love is not absolute consistency between each other. Only possession, gain, absolutely consistent love is only shadow puppet dolls, not flesh and blood people, this is crucial. We must learn to understand, learn to tolerate, and learn to forgive mistakes: if you are sincere, the stone will be sucked away by you.
Chapter completed!