Chapter 686
Zhang Qiang and Zhang Qiang hugged the beauty and came to the rest area at this time, but saw several couples of men and women here unscrupulously intimate, but some people were sitting there drinking, but those who were in love seemed to be no one else. Zhang Qiang felt that this place was really much more open than in the mainland. He hugged the beauty and sat down at a table and looked at the beauty and said. I couldn't expect that the people here would be so open, so I couldn't help it. Could it be better if we do it again?
The beauty blushed and said, "I have been played with by you for more than an hour and I have no strength to play anymore. I need to take a rest." Zhang Qiang said with a laugh, "Although these beauties show off their little white rabbits and big legs, they are not as good as you in other aspects, so I will not mess with such women."
At this moment, a woman's voice came from the next table, saying, "Sister, you are so beautiful but have become someone else's mistress. Don't you think it's a little too much?" Zhang Qiang and the beauty both looked at the two women next door at the same time, but saw two or two girls drinking and talking while drinking. When they sat down, the two girls were originally whispering, but probably because they drank a little higher, and the voices were getting louder and louder.
But you don’t understand this. Being a mistress is much better than being a big wife. A man goes through a lot of hardships to marry a wife. As a wife, he has to take care of all the housework and trivial matters of life. Even if the official wife did not have to work in ancient times, he still had to take care of all the affairs of the family. He would not bother to say anything, and sometimes he would be under the threat of not being able to protect the first lady; and the lover or mistress would not have to worry about these affairs, and he would not have to worry about the position of the first lady. As long as he pleased the man by his pillow, he would have to be breeze and rain.
Moreover, being a mistress does not require having children, you can play freely. If you are an authentic wife, you have to give birth to a man and a woman. Not only does raising a child, your husband may not find a lover or raise a mistress. It is better to meet a man who is the same as a boy or a girl. If you meet a man who prefers boys and girls, you will be angry because you don’t have a boss. But being a mistress doesn’t have to do this. If he is really good to me, he can guarantee the future life of our mother and son, and giving him one is OK, but he has no responsibility.
"Being a mistress can be more with men than being a wife. Generally, those who can raise a mistress have careers, so they spend very little time with their family, and sometimes they can't see each other for several months. The loneliness of staying alone in the empty room has to be borne by themselves. But being a mistress does not have such concerns. Because the mistress is not burdened by the family, she can go to him any time she wants."
Because a man has to be with his wife for the rest of his life, he does not cherish time. Sometimes it is normal not to go home for a few days, but he is different about "Missenger, because today is together, he may be separated tomorrow, and he will cherish the time he has been together. He will also make a lot of thoughts and secretly meet with the mistress."
"A man can enjoy his wife's life by giving the same money and energy to two women, while his lover only has a few years or even shorter. Who will men think is more worthy of cherishing? Therefore, being a mistress is much better than being someone else's wife."
The sister nodded and said, "What you said makes sense, but you are with him now and just like his money. Don't you think this kind of life without feelings is a little too boring?"
My sister took a sip of wine and said, "This problem is not what you think. Many people think that there is no relationship between a man and a mistress. In fact, this is also a prejudice. It is the man and his wife who have no feelings but only sex. Some people have investigated that 80% of the marriages in our domestic families are just for living, either for children, parents, or for careers, etc. Because of these reasons, they have to maintain a superficial relationship between husband and wife. How many people will get sexual blessings in such a marriage? If you value feelings and sexual blessings at the same time, it is better to be a mistress than a wife.
Moreover, as a wife, she married not only a man, but the entire family. Because what she has to face is not only the man in front of her, but also his parents, relatives, and children. It is very difficult to settle this series of relationships. But the mistress doesn’t have to pay attention to these cumbersome things. As long as she coaxes this man well, she can live a life with ease. What’s wrong with it?
My sister smiled and said, "I didn't expect that you would have made such a big reason as a mistress." But no matter what you say, you are evading the responsibility you should bear as a woman. I don't say that this is a big reason that violates morality. You can't compare to others just by yourself. The kind of family life with children and grandchildren around your knees and having a happy family life is something that a mistress can't enjoy.
The sister smiled and said, "You don't understand this anymore. Why is the divorce rate so high now? Isn't it that a man left his wife and went with the mistress? The mistress can possess the fruits they have accumulated with hard work without any effort. It depends on whether the woman has made the man leave his wife's charm.
The sister sighed and said, "I can't really tell you, but what you said makes sense. Then we have rested for so long and we should go back after dancing for two more laps. After that, we stood up and walked into the dance floor.
Seeing the two women leaving slowly, Zhang Qiang looked at the beauty and said, "What do you think?" The beauty blushed and said, "Women nowadays are really shameless. Not only do they destroy other people's families, but they must speak so righteously. But you men are not good things, and they eat in the bowl and look at the pot. If you men are not so lustful, there wouldn't be such a woman."
Zhang Qiang smiled and said, "Why do you blame men? You women are twitching in front of men all day long. How can men not be moved? Besides, not all men are like this, right? No one can blame anyone. The weakness of human nature lies in the fact that they cannot withstand the temptations of the outside world, especially when couples are separated for a long time or are lonely and unable to vent. Men and women all need sex to relieve themselves. If they do not get this satisfaction at home, men's affair becomes a way to satisfy their sex. Marriage is dull. The reason why most people can endure it for a long time is not because of the noble morality, but because of the hardships of life that they do not have much time, energy and ability to practice extramarital affair. "Filling and warmth" has always been the case since ancient times.
There is no difference between men and women. The difference lies in the strength of each person's desires and self-control. The same person has a greater chance of cheating when he or she is free of food and clothing than when he or she is poor. When he or she is extremely rich and her life is in an extremely "safe" state, the sense of happiness suddenly disappears, and replaced by unprecedented emptiness and boredom. The fundamental driving force for a man to achieve his or her career is women, just like a woman's fundamental driving force for a beauty dress is men. The sentence "If a man does not return home like a brocade dress, he or she can walk in the night" can be translated as, "If a man succeeds in his or her career, it is equivalent to in vain."
Therefore, successful men subconsciously have the strong urge to conquer women again. But who should they conquer? Even if they admire his wife infinitely before getting married, they have turned a blind eye to him and sometimes even sarcastic. No matter whether subjective or objective, he has no motivation to conquer her again. What should I do? A man with strong energy and strong self-control has the only choice to go to a higher level in his career. He must devote more energy to his work, otherwise he will be confused because there are too many temptations around him. Nature has a power to "chase and share" scarce resources. Whether it is a powerful man or a beautiful woman, he cannot escape this disaster. This is an objective existence that does not transfer from their subjective will. When the outside world tempts the man's self-control, the long-controlled "nuclear bomb" deep in his heart will be detonated.
Married men are far more likely to cheat than married women. The reason is of course that they are naturally "figureful", but another reason must be seen, that is, the scarcity of excellent single women and marriageable men. Generally speaking, married men's financial strength, especially personal charm, is better than unmarried men, because they will pursue beautiful women only after they have achieved success in their careers, and such men are also what women like.
There is still a topic in society that can a white-haired girl marry Huang Shiren. Many college students say that a white-haired girl is too stupid and said that her marriage to Huang Shiren is her best choice. Huang Shiren is older and after enjoying herself for a while, she can still use Huang Shiren’s money to explore. From this point, we can see that successful men are older and are still very popular with young women.
For some unmarried women, although they know that falling in love with married men is immoral, they will experience pain after comparison. The neat shape and clothing of successful men, well-trained smiles, and the faint fragrance on their shirts, all exudes a suffocating male charm. These advantages are not available to some impetuous young people! Let alone struggle with such a rich man for many years. Therefore, many women favor them, and if men do not have firm beliefs, they will easily fall into depravity.
Men have an unshirkable responsibility for causing such consequences, and most of them are the first to betray marriage. When men have extramarital affairs, of course, many people take the initiative to attack, but more are passive. Especially middle-aged people around the age of 1980, because they have successful careers, positions and status. In the eyes of unmarried girls, they are typical symbols of mature men. However, it is precisely because of them, old people above and young people below. The relationship between husband and wife has risen from emotional love to deep family affection, and the common interests of marriage dominate the family.
On the one hand, they urgently need a confidante to relieve the depression accumulated by long-term high-pressure work and awaken him to lose his youthful passion for many years. But on the other hand, the natural responsibility of protecting his family and wife and children made him unable to betray them rashly. Their risk of having an extramarital affair is the highest, and once exposed, the most cost is the greatest, which makes it impossible for him to not waver when he initially faces the blatant challenge of a young and energetic young woman.
A considerable part of the reason for the proliferation of extramarital affairs is that men’s insincere attitude towards marriage was caused by the unhappy marriage that could not be in line with their wives after marriage and was in unhappy. But more of it was because they could not withstand the temptation of society and took this step.
As the times develop, men's thoughts become more and more free, and many people no longer simply stick to moral dogmas. They promote their dedication on the surface and make their wives work hard at home, but secretly believe in the creed of "If others do not care for themselves, they will be punished by heaven and earth." They always want to live to get the greatest benefits for themselves. They start to sit on the wall of the besieged city, looking for those confidants with grace and charm.
Many people believe that most men are too utilitarian. Before marriage, they always care too much about the women's measurements and background conditions, and put the most important relationship that maintains marriage at the end. However, after marriage, the beauty and greatness of love appear, and are influenced by the traditional idea that wives are not as good as concubines and concubines are not as good as stealing. Therefore, the current popular men tempt women to stage extramarital affairs are becoming more and more intense. Because holding beauty in mind not only brings love and pleasure to men, but also makes men full of the sense of accomplishment as a charming man. And only men with successful careers have this ability. Therefore, this is an important way to reflect a prominent status of men. Those men who are not so successful in careers can only rely on one-night stands or occasional secret sex to exchange for psychological balance.
Every extramarital affair can only be accomplished by two people. There is a cheating man, and naturally there is a cheating woman. In fact, most women in China were originally very traditional and loyal, and believed in love and marriage devoutly. Many knowledgeable women insisted that good women should end up together. It is just that the current media reports and marriage rumors that have been heard and witnessed have made them lose their original direction.
Therefore, I think it is better not to rush to get married. In this way, everyone can play as much as possible and there will be no psychological burden. When your career is successful and everyone is almost done, there will be no trouble when getting married again." The beauty smiled and said, "It seems that you have really played with many women, and they all say it one by one. Don't you think you are very handsome and can take more resources for beauty to say that, right?"
Chapter completed!