Chapter 445
The third brother continued, "You still live at home?"
Qiao Liang shook his head: "The house belongs to Zhang Mei, I moved out and rented an apartment opposite the municipal party committee compound."
"Isn't that empty house?"
"Zhang Mei's parents live there."
The third brother nodded: "What's your relationship with Zhang Mei's parents now?"
"As usual, I recognized their godfather and godmother."
The third brother blinked: "Damn, what's the matter? His ex-husband has become a god brother."
Qiao Liang smiled bitterly: "I can't ignore Zhang Mei's current situation, right?"
"No one can say anything wrong."
"But my conscience cannot be overcome."
"Conscience..." The third brother murmured, "Your kind and loyal personality is sometimes a good thing, but sometimes it may harm you."
Qiao Liang didn't say anything. The third brother's words actually make sense, but what can I do if I was born like this? The so-called personality determines destiny. In the future, no matter whether this kindness and loyalty help or harm yourself, it may be his own fate.
Fate is destined. Qiao Liang looked at the deep night sky and sighed slightly in his heart.
After breaking up with the elder threesome, Qiao Liang called Li Youwei.
"Boss, are you at home?"
"At." Li Youwei's calm voice came from the phone.
"I want to go to your place to sit, is it convenient?"
"What's inconvenient? Come and have tea with me."
Qiao Liang then took a taxi to Li Youwei's house. Li Youwei was drinking tea in the living room, while Gu Shuyun was not at home.
"Where is sister-in-law?" Qiao Liang said.
"Her mother is not in good health, she will go back to take care of her for a few days." Li Youwei pointed to the sofa and said, "Sitting—"
Qiao Liang sat opposite Li Youwei, and Li Youwei poured him a cup of tea: "Xiaoya brought back to Baodao a few days ago, and try it."
Qiao Liang picked up the cup and took a sip, nodding: "It tastes good."
Li Youwei looked at Qiao Liang: "Have you been doing well recently?"
"Overall, it's just that I'm often troubled by some problems," Qiao Liang said.
“What’s the problem?”
Qiao Liang pondered for a moment: "Boss, in the officialdom, how do you think you should treat gentlemen and villains?"
"When dealing with a gentleman, we naturally have to use the way of a gentleman, which is very simple." Li Youwei said directly.
"What about dealing with villains?" Qiao Liang said.
"Have you met a villain?" Li Youwei said.
"Although there hasn't been a head-on confrontation yet, I feel some of the villains around me."
Li Youwei pondered: "Since ancient times, it has been difficult for villains to raise and it is difficult for villains to deal with. It is the most difficult to interact with villains, and it is even more impossible to have a good relationship with villains. Of course, unless you are in vain with villains."
"This is not what I am willing to do." Qiao Liang shook his head.
Li Youwei smiled: "Actually, the ultimate goal of dealing with villains in the officialdom is to find ways to keep him away from you."
Qiao Liang nodded: "This is easy to say, but it seems difficult to do."
Li Youwei nodded: "Yes, sometimes it is difficult for you to distinguish between the people around you, which are gentlemen and which are villains. So you must remember that you only say three parts to everyone, and you cannot give up all your heart. When you get along with a gentleman, you can deal with it with your sincerity, and you can also tell everything.
But whether it is a gentleman or a villain, it is generally not something you can see through at a glance. Although this move may hurt the gentleman's heart, since a gentleman is a gentleman, he will naturally not care too much about it. The key to this move is to make the villain have no opportunity to take advantage of and be able to actively defend against the harm caused to you by the villain."
Qiao Liang looked at Li Youwei intently: "So, how can we see through the real villain in the officialdom?"
Li Youwei simply said: "You should not be too simple in life. You must be mature in mind and understand falsehood and deception. Only in this way can you see through the real villain, avoid being hurt by villain, and even make villain afraid that you will stay away from you. Of course, understanding falsehood and deception does not mean treating people as falsehood, but just to protect yourself."
Qiao Liang nodded.
Li Youwei continued: "Also, try to avoid provoking villains at work."
"Why do you want to provoke me?"
"Then you have to learn one word: hard!" Li Youwei looked at Qiao Liang, "The characteristic of villains is to bully the weak and fear the strong. If you blindly give in, villains will think that you are easy to bully and will gain a better position."
Qiao Liang nodded again.
Li Youwei said again: "You must also learn to see through the traps of villains. As villains, their ways of harming people are often inseparable from setting up traps. The key to seeing through villains is not to deceive the appearance of villains, and to spend more time and pay more attention."
Qiao Liang listened attentively.
"Liangzi, you have to remember that villains will never say that they are villains, and they even show that they are not like villains." Li Youwei said meaningfully.
Qiao Liang nodded and couldn't help but think of Chu Heng.
Li Youwei continued: "In fact, in the officialdom, villains are also divided into different types. When dealing with different villains, you must learn to adopt different strategies. For example, when encountering sinister villains, you must be careful. When dealing with them, be careful everywhere and don't take advantage of loopholes. When encountering villains who are bullying, you can adopt the strategy of taking the lead and find opportunities to let him know. He generally does not dare to provoke you. For villains who like to spread rumors, they generally do not need to pay attention to them, but if his slander on you seriously affects your reputation, it must be clarified and you can go to court if necessary..."
Qiao Liang listened carefully, thinking.
Li Youwei talked for a long time and took a sip of tea: "Liangzi, do you know what kind of people in the officialdom are the most terrifying?"
Qiao Liang shook his head.
"When necessary, a gentleman who dares to use villain means is the most terrifying person." Li Youwei said slowly.
Qiao Liang couldn't help but be excited and stared at Li Youwei.
Li Youwei continued: "The biggest characteristic of such people is that if they don't offend me, I won't offend others. If they offend me, I will offend others. When they should be upright, they will be upright and gentlemen, and when they should be cruel, they will be more villain."
After hearing Li Youwei's words, Qiao Liang shivered in his heart. I wonder if he was hinting at what he said.
After drinking tea for a long time, Li Youwei seemed to have thought of something and pondered: "The officialdom is actually realistic and vulgar. No matter how ethical people in the officialdom are, once they can sit in the position of making arrangements, the first thing they plan is to clean up the chessboard."
Qiao Liang looked at Li Youwei, and Li Youwei smiled slightly, his expression a little unpredictable.
I had a chat with Li Youwei tonight. Although I didn’t fully understand some of what he said, Qiao Liang felt that it was very rewarding. After all, Li Youwei had been in the officialdom for many years. Although he was a down-and-out person, this did not hinder his understanding and insight of the officialdom.
At this time, the problems that trouble Qiao Liang's heart seemed to be relieved. Qiao Liang felt that what Li Youwei told him tonight would gradually experience and absorb it in practice in the future.
Of course, during the experience and absorption process, there will be no smooth sailing, and there will be even storms and storms.
After leaving Li Youwei's house, Qiao Liang took a taxi back. When he passed by the entrance of Chu Heng's community, Qiao Liang accidentally looked out and saw a woman getting off the taxi.
Qiao Liang could see clearly under the street light that this woman was Su Yan.
Su Yan got out of the car, put on a mask, wrapped her head with a scarf, and then walked into the community.
Qiao Liang looked at the time. It was almost 11 o'clock. What did Su Yan do here at this time?
Chapter completed!