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Chapter 80 Who Said To Be Your Bride

Life on campus is very fast. I used to spend my sleep, but now my life is more fulfilling with Yanzi, and I spent New Year's Day in the blink of an eye.

On January 4, 2o13, a day when the Civil Affairs Bureau was squeezed out, countless newlyweds chose to get married on this day in order to make the mark of "Love you for a lifetime" on the red book.

In the afternoon, although it was Friday, I was forced to go to the gymnasium to watch football again on Saturday, so I didn't go home. It was too troublesome to run back and forth, and I didn't want to separate from Yanzi.

Since the two of them have been on the surface, they have been getting tired of being together almost every day. In addition to going to the cafeteria to have dinner, according to Yanzi, we have a long journey, but we have been on campus for two years, so we still want to get along with our classmates more.

I walked with Yanzi on the streets around the school, aimlessly just to get tired of being together.

"Ya, do you see today's news? The headlines are all about the news that the Civil Affairs Bureau has made a big splash."

"You're a good life. I love you for the rest of my life. Many people like to get married and get a marriage certificate on special days. I guess many newlyweds are already married. They just deliberately waited for this day to get a marriage certificate. They went to queue up in the early morning. It's so scary."

"That's right, I think many people will choose to get their marriage certificates on May 2o and November 11th."

"This will make a lot of sense. You don't have to read the almanac anyway. Choosing an interesting day is more memorable."

Speaking of this, Yanzi raised her head that was leaning against my shoulder and looked at me.

"I heard that we have to look at the almanac when we get married? There are also elderly people in the family who will use their birth dates to see if they are in harmony."

"I heard that, but I saw that my brothers and sisters around me didn't even calculate their birthdays when they got married. They just looked at the calendar on the day of the banquet and chose a good day."

"Well, I guess many young people don't believe this now."

"Yes, many of them are letters from the elderly at home. You see, there are not many naked marriages or travelers now?"

"Yes, we talked about this with our parents when we were watching TV series before, but they always said that I was young and didn't know anything. How could I not hold a banquet after getting married?"

"This is a traditional Chinese custom. Although I feel that some customs are unnecessary, they have been left for thousands of years. After all, the older generation, growing up in such an environment, have fixed their thoughts."

"Well, do you think these customs are necessary?"

"Personally, I think some things are still necessary, just like getting married. There are some procedures in it, such as longan and red dates pressing the new bed, finding boys and girls to get out of the bed, and offering tea to their parents to change their mouths. These all have some beautiful meanings, but in fact they are just a good vision, but the custom of getting married is a bit too much."

He looked at Yanzi and said to me with some doubts.

“Somewhat overdos?”

"Yes, it was like blocking the door and making a new house to make a living and liven up the atmosphere, but now some places are too overdoing, and even some vulgar things are inside, which feels a bit insulting."

"I have seen what you said online, some of them are too much, so some people choose to get married naked or travel, so they don't have to hold a wedding, which is very easy to do."

"Yes, it's just that this modern way of marriage is relatively easy for us young people to accept, and some elders cannot accept it. They all think that holding a lively wedding is the only way to get married, and beating drums is the only way to get married. Many newlyweds even find it troublesome, and both parents are all arranged by the parents. The newlyweds only need to be present, just beauties."

"I'm all from the village and Miao people. I haven't seen such modern weddings. We used to have several days to hold a wedding, and many of the procedures and rules have been reduced now, but we still need to do it."

Speaking of this, I thought of someone and said to Yanzi.

"I have seen people who don't hold weddings like this, and my cousin is."

"Cousin? It was the last time we went to the alley in Qingqing Ancient Town to eat. You said that your cousin took you there, that's who?"

"Yes, it's her."

Looking at a bench in the community park ahead, I pulled Yanzi over and sat down and continued.

"My brother-in-law came from another province and came straight after graduating from college. At that time, I was in junior high school. Later, when they got married, they suddenly called us and told us to go over for dinner. I thought it was a banquet before, but who knew that when I arrived at a small restaurant, the two of them came out in pajamas. That day, some close relatives were here, so they got married like this. When they asked her, they said that the wedding was very tiring and they thought it was good."

"Then doesn't your cousin's family object?"

"I object, but my sister and brother-in-law are quite persistent. There is no way. I see that they are very happy."

"Originally, marriage is just a matter of two people, so it's good for the newlyweds to be happy. By the way, Ya, then will you choose this modern way of marriage personally?"

No hesitation at all.

"Won't."

Seeing me so firm, Yanzi asked.

"Are you sure that? What if you feel troublesome and don't want to do it?"

"No, although I don't like all customs, I will still hold a wedding when I get married. In fact, sometimes, don't look at my parents, I also like my children to have a good wedding. After all, this is more ritualistic. I think it's tiring to hold a wedding, but it's worth it. It's just once in this life, and you can be a soldier."

"Become a soldier? Why is it related to being a soldier again?"

"Have you ever heard a word?"

"What."

"I regret it for two years when I am a soldier, and I regret it for the rest of my life if I am not a soldier."

"No, I haven't joined the army and I won't regret it for the rest of my life."

Looking at Yanzi's cute appearance, I smiled and said.

"Baby, I'm making an example. What I regret for the rest of my life means that many of the soldiers are very hard and tiring during their service, but they are reluctant to leave the military camp on the day of retirement, which proves that the choice of joining the army was not wrong."

“Is that related to the wedding?”

"This varies from person to person. I just talked about my personal opinion. If it were me, I don't know how tired it is to hold a wedding now, but if I don't do it, I believe I will regret it in ten years. Since I know that I will regret it now, why don't you do it? Youth is just once. When I get old, maybe I have a wealthy economy and plenty of time, but I can't go back to my youth. At that time, I felt that spending huge amounts of money to come to a unique wedding was not the same as before."

"Well, it sounds quite reasonable, but this is a matter of two people. Aren't you afraid that your partner won't want to hold a wedding?"

When I heard this question, I stared at Yanzi for a while.

"What's wrong, my face is blurry?"

"No, just watching a little cutie."

"I'm asking you questions, don't get into the topic."

He smiled and said confidently.

"No, definitely not."

"Why, why are you so sure?"

At this time, I stood up directly from the stool and said, "I changed my mind to walk forward."

"Because, my bride, she has a dream to walk on the stage with lights in a custom white tailoring wedding dress."

Yanzi heard this and hurriedly caught up with me and pulled me and said.

"Ya, don't leave. Although most girls like wedding dresses, there are always exceptions."

If this idiot was not explained in detail, she wouldn't understand anything. She stood still and looked at her and asked seriously.

"Do you like it?"

"I like it. I told you before. This is my dream. Now I think about it and I feel so yearning for it and looking forward to it."

"Hehe, that's all right, my bride has such a dream."

Yanzi understood what I meant and said with a blushing face.

"Who said that you want to be your bride?"

"Hehe, I didn't say it was you."

"Ah, you bad guy."

I laughed and ran all the way, and it was gradually time for dinner. It was so tempting to smell the delicious food smells coming from each restaurant.

(End of this chapter)

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