Wang Xiaolie promised Zhang Jun to enter the military academy, which made him feel at ease. He stood up and was about to leave when he suddenly turned around and said, "Zhen Fu, I recently met a young lady and I really like her. I want to marry her, but I don't know if I should."

Wang Xiaolie said: "As long as you two are in love and the girl is willing, it is a good thing."

Zhang Jun was silent for a while and then said: "To be honest with Zhen Fu, that young lady's identity is a bit embarrassing. Besides, she is two years older than me."

Wang Xiaolie said with a smile: "What does it matter if you are two years older? What you think is good, no one else can say anything."

Zhang Jun gritted his teeth and said: "This little lady has a bad background. She was poor since she was a child and was sold to someone else. Because she was quite pretty, her adoptive mother asked her to sing in a restaurant to earn some money to support the family. This

With such a background, I know many people, and I can’t hide it from anyone.”

Wang Xiaolie looked at Zhang Jun. After a while, he said: "You are so serious about this, are you afraid that the little lady is not just singing in the restaurant?"

Zhang Jun said: "She didn't hide it from me. When we were in the restaurant, we had several good friends."

Wang Xiaolie thought for a while and said: "Tell me in detail who she is and how she met you. - Don't hide it from me!"

Zhang Jun had no choice but to tell Wang Xiaolie the identity of Yu Nu and his recent experiences one by one. Including what happened in Xiangcheng and even being taken to Yique because of his friendship with Luan Qingshan.

After listening carefully, Wang Xiaolie sighed: "This little lady is not a simple person. The Xiangcheng robbery case dared to pull out teeth from the tiger's mouth. How can ordinary people do it? The situation in that area is chaotic, and the robbery is not under my control.

Next, I can ignore it. But if you want to marry her, you have to be careful. Tell me the truth, are you willing to marry her, or is she asking you to do so?"

Zhang Jun said: "What's the difference? Whether I want to marry or she wants to marry, it is ultimately a matter between the two of us."

Wang Xiaolie said: "The difference is huge. Given her background, if she wanted to be a good person, she would mostly marry a wealthy man as a concubine. Of course, if she has money now, she can also recruit a husband who is greedy for her money. She is the one who can marry you.

I couldn’t even dream of it.”

Zhang Jun said: "She also said so. I want to marry her."

Wang Xiaolie said: "You are young and have a high status. If you are willing, I don't know how many daughters of good families would be willing to marry you. Why would you marry such a woman? If you covet her beauty, you don't have to marry her home."

Zhang Jun thought for a while. He looked up at Wang Xiaolie and said firmly: "I do. I just like it."

Wang Xiaolie was stunned for a moment and said: "You have to think clearly. When you marry a woman like this, don't talk about what others think, say, or all the usual gossip. Just based on her background and experience, she will have

Countless incidents. Can you bear it?"

Zhang Jundao: "In the past, my father and mother were very loving. They have raised me for more than ten years, and I have never seen them quarrel. They have never even spoken loudly. But the gold thieves invaded the south, and my father was kidnapped to the north.

I went. My mother took me around, and it was very difficult. After only a few months, my mother couldn't bear it any more. When I arrived in Caizhou, I found a member of the public, and we lived together and earned some money to live on.

Zhen Fu, do you think my parents are a loving couple? Everyone admires such a loving couple. But what’s the use?”

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Wang Xiaolie looked at Zhang Jun and said: "In this world, there are many things that are beyond our control. As human beings, we must not think wildly. The gold thief's crime was a natural and man-made disaster. Who could have imagined that it would happen? Without this accident, your father would have

Mom is naturally a loving couple. With this accident, many things will naturally be different. We cannot think too much about what ifs when we are in it. There are not so many what ifs in this world."

Zhang Jundao: "No matter what, I feel that couples who are in love and love each other are unreliable. It's better to just follow your own temper and just like it if you like it. Why bother caring about what others will say!"

Looking at Zhang Jun, Wang Xiaolie couldn't help but be stunned. He really didn't expect that Zhang Jun would have such an idea. If he thought like this, the family he formed must be different from the normal one. However, who stipulates what a family must look like?

At the end of the day, as long as two people like it, it's fine.

After thinking about it, Wang Xiaolie said: "The so-called family means that a man and a woman love each other and live together. No matter how many principles there are, it can't compare to the love between two people. I don't want to interfere too much in your private affairs. As long as you and Yu Nu

If you like it personally, others can't say anything to you if you get married. However, I want to remind you that it is one thing for a man and a woman to get married, but it is another thing to form a family. A family is not just a matter of two people.

You will still have children, and no matter what, you cannot mistreat your children. In society, a family has many responsibilities, and you must shoulder these responsibilities. As long as these are done well, and as long as the two of you like it, you don't care what others say.

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Zhang Jun said: "Why should others care about our family's affairs?"

Wang Xiaolie said: "Because in this world, we live together with others. How can we not care about others at all?"

Zhang Jun nodded: "As long as the governor agrees, these are all trivial matters."

Wang Xiaolie sighed: "It is these little things that cause us endless troubles. Don't we talk about our neighbors on weekdays? Why do we talk so much when it's our turn? I won't stop you from marrying anyone, but

You must be prepared to face all kinds of troubles.”

Zhang Jun handed over his hand and said, "I'll remember it."

Zhang Jun said goodbye and went out, leaving Wang Xiaolie alone for a while.

Of course, this was not the first time Wang Xiaolie had heard about the big commotion that the Jade Slave had caused. But he didn’t expect that he would get involved with Zhang Jun. With Zhang Jun’s identity, no one would say that he secretly took the Jade Slave as a concubine.

What? Even if it is regarded as an outhouse, it is still okay for the Yunu to do business, and the two of them actually live together. But Wang Xiaolie really can't understand that he must marry a famous matchmaker.

Ancient China was actually a monogamous system, but there were maids and concubines. An important point that affects the relationship between husband and wife is the status of concubines. Wang Xiaolie actually abolished the legal status of concubines. But if the wife agrees, how many women is a man willing to have?

What can a woman do? Even in later generations, she will still have her mistress. The difference now is that Wang Xiaolie doesn't care.

We don’t directly control the man’s possession of multiple women, but we can restrict it from the side. For example, we can improve the status of the wife in the relationship so that the wife can not allow extra women in the family. Improve the economic status of the wife in the family and control the man’s influence in these aspects.

overhead.

This kind of thing cannot happen overnight. Instead, it must change slowly with the development of society. Social development changes not only people's lives, but also people's thinking.

After much deliberation, Wang Xiaolie couldn't understand Zhang Jun's thoughts. He shook his head and stopped caring. As long as Zhang Jun was willing and could bear the consequences, no one else should care about him. Husband and wife, after all, are two people.

Personal matters.

Standing up, Wang Xiaolie looked out the window quietly.

The Dragon Boat Festival has passed, and summer is finally here. It is getting hotter day by day. New wheat has been put on the market, and steamed buns and steamed buns made from new wheat are being sold everywhere. Places that do not grow rice have passed the busiest season and should do other things.
Chapter completed!