"Look, the parenting lessons you taught me are so valuable. He didn't listen and only played with his fish." Zhong Xiaoqin looked at Chen Yu displeased and said, "I knew he didn't want this child."

When Gu Jia saw that Chen Yu still didn't say anything, he didn't agree to have this child, and he felt sorry for his best friend.

Chen Yu was quite embarrassed when he heard this.

In fact, it's not that he doesn't want this child. It's just that he has a lot of worries and is not as impulsive as Zhong Xiaoqin, so he behaves calmly.

It makes others look as if he does not want the child and wants to abort it.

It's just that he is poor at words and wants to defend himself, but he doesn't know how to speak.

"Hey, I have to say a few words on behalf of Teacher Chen." Seeing this, Xiang Nan said with a smile, "Teacher Chen is definitely not the kind of cold-blooded and insensitive person. Just seeing how well he takes care of the fish, you can tell that he is

A thoughtful, caring person.

If you don’t believe me, let’s talk about it. Xiaoqin, who usually cleans your house, who is responsible for buying food and cooking, who is responsible for buying daily medicines, who is responsible for paying water, electricity and gas bills..."

Zhong Xiaoqin was stunned by his question and was speechless.

Chen Yu is indeed responsible for all these trivial matters at home.

"You see, Gu Jia is so capable. To do so many things, she needs Sister Chen's help." Xiang Nan said with a smile, "And Chen Yu is not a full-time househusband. In addition to doing these things, he also has to be busy with his own work.

It’s even more difficult. So his contribution to this family is really great.”

Zhong Xiaoqin blinked.

Gu Jia was also stunned.

Chen Yu was a little moved when he heard what he said.

He usually does these housework. Zhong Xiaoqin has never noticed it, or has turned a blind eye, so she never realizes how lucky she is to be married to such a hard-working husband.

In any other family, there would be a lot of disagreements over who cooks and who washes the pots.

…

"Let's talk about the child. I want to clarify this point to Teacher Chen." Xiang Nan added, "Teacher Chen definitely doesn't care about this child.

But first of all, we men are relatively slow to warm up and accept new things. Just like clothing, in the past hundred years, women’s clothing styles have been changing every year. Men’s clothing styles have changed from a hundred years ago.

From a few years ago to now, not much has changed.

Secondly, since the child is in your belly, you can really feel it, so your reaction is relatively strong. Teacher Chen can't feel it yet, so his reaction is relatively mild.

Thirdly, you women think about things simply. Have you considered how to give birth to a child and how to raise it? Which hospital to choose, which doctor to choose, natural delivery or caesarean section, how to take maternity leave, how to take care of the child, please do not hire a confinement nanny,

Which nursery should I send to, which kindergarten should I go to, how to pick me up, how to drop me off...

If you don’t consider these things, Teacher Chen will have to consider them. If you think too much, you will naturally have concerns. You are not as optimistic as you show. Teacher Chen, do you think I am right?"

Chen Yu just wanted to give Xiang Nan a kiss.

Everything he said just now was from his heart.

Zhong Xiaoqin just didn't care about anything. She just thought raising children was fun. She didn't think about how to give birth or raise them at all, so she laughed so heartlessly.

If she doesn't want to worry about it, then he has to solve these problems. With so many problems pressed against him, of course he will be resistant.

"Really?" Zhong Xiaoqin looked at Chen Yu and said.

"Really." Chen Yu nodded, "Actually, if you really want to have a child, then let's have one. I don't have to give up the child."

Hearing what he said, Zhong Xiaoqin immediately laughed.

"Hey, that's right, congratulations to you two, the sky is filled with clouds." Xiang Nan said with a smile.

In fact, women always focus on attitude rather than results. If the attitude satisfies them, they can accept it even if the results are unsatisfactory.

On the contrary, if the attitude is not good, even if the result is exactly what they want, they will feel very unhappy.

What Chen Yu lost was his attitude. He obviously welcomed this little life, but he never expressed his attitude, which led to misunderstanding.

As a result, as soon as the child died, Zhong Xiaoqin took out all her grievances on him, which was so unjust.

…

Zhong Xiaoqin and Chen Yu said goodbye and left.

"You two, I apologize for what I said at the dinner table." Xiang Nan said as he sent them off, "But I still have to remind you that in the first three months of pregnancy, you must be cautious and optimistic."

Chen Yu and Zhong Xiaoqin both nodded.

Xiang Nan's words at the dinner table were a bit off-putting. They talked about miscarriage, stillbirth, and fetal cessation. They were really depressing.

But he also means well.

The accident rate is high in the first three months, so we should be cautious and optimistic.

As the old saying goes, if you don't see a rabbit, you won't let go of the hawk.

…

"Husband, you performed pretty well today." After the two left, Gu Jia looked at Xiang Nan and said with a smile.

Although there were a few words that were said too much, but they were able to make Chen Yu look back, and the result was considered satisfactory.

"Hey, it's better to stay less involved in this kind of thing in the future." Xiang Nan sighed and advised.

It is said that every family has its own sutras that are difficult to recite. It is really tiring to not finish reciting my own sutras and to worry about other people’s affairs.

"I don't want to either, but Xiaoqin is my best friend, I can't ignore her." Gu Jia said.

Xiang Nan nodded.

Caring about friends is also one of Gu Jia's great strengths.

If it were his friend, he wouldn't ignore it.

…

In the evening, Xiang Nan asked Shen Jie to play football together.

Shen Jie and he worked in the same company back then, and worked together in the Olympic fireworks team, so they had a close friendship.

After that, both of them resigned from the company and started their own businesses.

Because Shen Jie has high emotional intelligence and good skills, the company's development is better than that of Jiamei.

In the play, when Xu Huanshan's company was on the verge of bankruptcy, Shen Jie transferred all the money from his company to him for emergency response. This shows that the loyalty of the brothers is quite reliable.

"Congratulations, Huan Shan, I heard that your company has won another big order." Shen Jie said with a smile.

"You are quite well-informed." Xiang Nan said with a smile, "Yes, if you get an order, there will probably be no problem in the second half of the year."

"That's fine." Shen Jie smiled and said, "Originally, I was thinking that if your company failed, I would be able to help you. Now I don't need to."

"Hey, I'm very grateful that you have such a heart." Xiang Nan said with a smile, "By the way, I had a dream yesterday and it scared me."

"What dream?" Shen Jie asked curiously, "Could it be that the fireworks factory exploded?"

"Hey, I really let you talk." Xiang Nan nodded, "The fireworks factory exploded, I was arrested, the company went bankrupt, Gu Jia remarried, and my son was sent to Australia.

Let me tell you, that dream is very real, and it’s really not a good sign. It seems that I have to go to the factory when I have time to take a look. If nothing happens to this guy, it will be a big deal. "
Chapter completed!