Xiang Nan then called Xia Junshan and asked him to go out for a drink together.

At this time, Xia Junshan already knew about the conflict between his daughter and Mi Tao, and he didn't know what to do.

After hearing Xiang Nan's invitation, he immediately agreed.

The two immediately arranged to meet at a bar.

"Junior brother, what's going on with Huanhuan and Mi Tao?" Xia Junshan asked in confusion.

Xiang Nan immediately told Huanhuan how she had created a small circle to isolate Mi Tao and sent a "letter to parents" to deliberately deny it to Mi Tao.

Xia Junshan was embarrassed after hearing this.

"Is this...this...did Huanhuan do it?" He couldn't believe it.

In his opinion, his daughter is as cute as an angel. But now the angel has turned into a devil, and she actually forms a small circle to bully her classmates, which is simply disgusting.

"Brother, children are also very complicated." Xiang Nan nodded.

In fact, compared to adults, children often behave more cruelly than adults due to the lack of moral and social rules.

For example, school bullying often forces people to kneel down, strip off their clothes, and slap them. This kind of extreme violence is rarely seen in society.

"How could this happen? I can't believe it." Xia Junshan sighed.

It was really unexpected for him that his daughter had become so bad.

"Brother, water has its source and trees have roots. Huanhuan and Mi Tao were good friends before, but now their relationship has become so bad. There must be a reason." Xiang Nan said, "Could it be that you were teaching her?

, always compares Mi Tao with her, so Huanhuan feels resentful and hates Wujiwu?"

In the play, Huanhuan hates Mi Tao because of this reason.

When Xia Junshan heard this, he was stunned. He remembered that Nan Li always used Mi Tao as an example when instructing Huan Huan on her homework, and asked her daughter to learn from her.

Perhaps it was this that made her daughter feel resentful towards Mi Tao.

"Just be a role model, that's not all, right?" Xia Junshan said with a smile, "When we were in school, teachers and parents used other people's children to inspire us. After we listened, we could only learn from others.

Son, I didn’t say anything about forming a small circle to isolate others.”

Who didn't compete with other people's children when they were in school?

"Brother, with all due respect, we can do it, but Huanhuan can't." Xiang Nan waved his hands and said, "You and your sister-in-law have been insisting on happy education these years, but you only focus on making your children happy, but you have forgotten to teach your children about frustration.

Life is often unsatisfactory, and setbacks are the main theme of life. But these years, Huanhuan has been too smooth. Even if he doesn't study hard, he can be ranked in the middle and upper reaches. In the class cadre election, he is always the deputy squad leader. He often participates in the city

There are various literary competitions here, and you can easily win a prize...

Compared with other children, Huanhuan is really happy, but the more she is like this, the more unbearable it is when she encounters setbacks. For example, in the class president election in the first half of the year, after she lost the election, she felt lost for several days.

So when we are compared with other people’s children, we may be dissatisfied and arouse our competitiveness. When Huanhuan is compared with other people’s children, our reaction may be more intense. What is aroused is not competitiveness, but jealousy and resentment.

Heartbroken."

Although Xia Junshan was a little unhappy when Xiang Nan said this about his child, he had to admit that his words made sense.

Over the years, they have doted on Huanhuan too much.

Dad, mom, grandpa, grandma, younger brother, school teachers, colleagues at work...every one of them praised the child for being smart, beautiful and cute, and almost spoiled her like a little princess.

It can be said that Huanhuan has been soaked in honey pots for so many years. Therefore, her endurance is particularly fragile.

I will cry if I am ranked last in the exam, I will cry if I fail to be elected as the deputy squad leader, I will cry if I cannot get into the competition class, I will cry if I do not study seriously and I will be punished... I have become a crying bag.

"Then what should we do?" Xia Junshan asked quickly.

"First of all, of course, we must sincerely admit our mistakes and apologize." Xiang Nan said, "Secondly, we must pay attention to the child's frustration education and improve her ability to withstand stress.

Senior brother, Huanhuan is only in fifth grade now. She still has at least eleven years before she graduates from college and becomes an adult. During this period, she still has to go through the two major life difficulties of the high school entrance examination and the college entrance examination. If her ability to withstand stress is still as good as it is now

No, I'm afraid it will be difficult for her to overcome these two difficulties."

The learning pressure in middle school is dozens or hundreds of times that of primary school. The number of courses to be learned has increased from three to nine. If you are not strong in the ability to withstand stress, you will not be able to keep up in junior high school.

When Xiang Nan was in school, junior high school had the highest dropout rate.

When I was in the first year of junior high school, there were a total of six classes, with more than 60 students in each class. They were so crowded that there was no way to get through. By the time I was in the third year of junior high school, it had been reduced to four classes, with only more than 40 students in each class.

More than half.

Xia Junshan listened and nodded.

…

At the same time, Zhang Xueer also drove to Mi Tao's house.

I saw Mi Tao being scolded by her parents.

"How can you bear with me? Your parents took you to the city so easily. If you don't study hard, how can you still fight with Huanhuan?" Mi Tao's father scolded.

"She bullied me first." Mi Tao said, "I just expressed my attitude, otherwise everyone would bully me."

"Then why doesn't she bully others? It's your fault." Mi Tao's father said.

"It's not my fault that I was bullied, it's her fault that she bullied me." Mi Tao said immediately after hearing this.

"You are still stubborn. Your parents are frugal and save money for you to study. You don't study hard and fight with your classmates. How can you be rational?" Mi Tao's father said angrily, "Can't you be sensible?"

"Why do you always ask me to be sensible? It's her fault that she bullied me." Mi Tao cried, "She led her classmates to isolate me, took the lead in class and was undisciplined, and handed out homework deliberately without giving it to me... She was the one who did the wrong thing.

Man, why do you only want me to endure it?"

"You still said, you still said..." Mi Tao's father raised his hand and said fiercely.

Seeing this, Zhang Xueer quickly knocked on the door.

"Oh, it's Teacher Zhang~" Seeing this, Mi Tao's mother quickly pulled her husband's hand down, then walked over and opened the door, "Hello, Teacher Zhang~"

"Teacher Zhang, you are here~" Mi Tao's father also said a little embarrassed.

"Yes, I'm here to see Mi Tao, and tell you what happened this afternoon." Zhang Xueer nodded, and then explained the cause and effect.

"Hey, it turns out it's just the kids who are making trouble. It's okay. It'll be fine in a while." After hearing this, Mi Tao's parents didn't take it seriously.

After all, in rural areas, it is common for children to fight.

"Dad Mi Tao, this matter is more serious than you think. What Huanhuan did to Mi Tao can be regarded as school violence. We cannot take it lightly, let alone tolerate it blindly." Zhang Xueer waved her hand and said, "

Mi Tao did nothing wrong in this matter. The biggest mistake was that she should not have recommended Xia Huanhuan. At that time, Mi Tao should have told the teacher what Huanhuan had done and let the teacher help her.

But she was brave enough to stand up and express her opinions clearly. This is very worthy of encouragement. As you know, many children do not dare to speak out after being bullied, so they are increasingly bullied."

Many school violence occurs step by step, from verbal violence to physical violence, and even eventually leads to death, so we must guard against it.

"It was Teacher Zhong who encouraged me. If I was bullied, I would have to stand up and express my attitude." Mi Tao nodded.
Chapter completed!