121 [I owe a personal favor]
Lying in bed at night, Qiao Yingzi sent a WeChat message to Xiang Nan.
"Fang Hou'er, you are so amazing, you guessed every move of my mother."
"She really bought me clothes today, took me out for a big meal, and went to the theater to watch Mission: Impossible 6."
"How could you guess so accurately?"
After Xiang Nan received the WeChat message, he smiled and then replied, "Shanren has his own clever plan!"
"Let's talk first. I won the bet this time. You didn't forget what the bet was, right?"
"Rogue!" Qiao Yingzi yelled, and also sent a beating emoticon.
Xiang Nan replied with an emoticon of "Don't be afraid, I am indeed a gangster" and burst into laughter.
"Humph, are you going to tell me or not?" Qiao Yingzi continued to dig into the details.
"Sister, you are asking for help. Can you have a better attitude?" Xiang Nan replied.
"The daughter of the common people asks the great immortal Yifan for some advice!" Qiao Yingzi thought for a while and replied.
"This attitude is pretty much the same." Xiang Nan replied, "But tell you, what are the benefits of me?"
Qiao Yingzi immediately sent an emoticon of "big casserole fist".
Xiang Nan replied with a "Afraid of resetting HD" emoticon package.
"Okay, tell me what you want." Qiao Yingzi replied.
"I haven't thought about it yet," Xiang Nan replied.
He originally wanted to reply "I want you", but considering that the time was not yet ripe, he didn't send it.
"Tch!" Qiao Yingzi replied.
"Well, you owe me a favor, and you will definitely pay it back in the future." Xiang Nan replied.
"Okay, can you tell me?" Qiao Yingzi agreed readily, and then asked quickly.
"Actually, it's not difficult to guess what Aunt Song is thinking. She loves you but wants to control you, so she always gives you a slap in the face." Xiang Nan said with a smile, "She disrupted your dream of flying free yesterday. Ceremony, I will definitely find a way to compensate you today. But to coax a little girl like you, don't you just go shopping and watch movies? What other tricks can you use?"
"..." Qiao Yingzi was stunned for a moment, then thought about it carefully, Xiang Nan's encounter with her was quite the opposite.
Her mother does always give her a slap in the face.
For example, if she confiscated her Lego toys at noon, she would make her something delicious in the evening; today the mother and daughter had a quarrel, and the next day her mother would give her a gift.
"Fang Hou'er, what should I do?" Qiao Yingzi asked for help, "My mother treats me well sometimes and bad sometimes. I really can't stand it."
"I have no idea about this kind of thing now." Xiang Nan replied, "Well, I will go to the bookstore to read some books on parent-child relationships in the past two days, and then I will analyze it carefully for you."
"Thank you, Fang Hou'er." Seeing him say this, Qiao Yingzi felt very warm.
…
Soon after, Xiang Nan took Lin Lei'er to go through the transfer procedures.
The two of them ran around for two days and finally got everything done.
"Cousin, thank you so much." Lin Leier said gratefully.
"Thank you no matter what, we are all one family." Xiang Nan waved his hand and smiled.
Fangyuan and Tong Wenjie couldn't help but praise him greatly when they saw that Xiang Nan had accomplished this matter.
"Son, you have really grown up." Tong Wenjie said happily.
"Fang Yifan, that's great!" Fang Yuan also gave a thumbs up.
…
After helping Lin Leier complete the transfer procedures, Xiang Nan really went to the bookstore and bought a few books on parent-child relationships.
Such as "Nonviolent Communication", "Why Home Hurts People", "Every Child Needs to Be Seen", "p.e.t. Parent Effectiveness Training: Making Parent-Child Communication So Efficient and Simple", etc.
Most of these books are outstanding works written by well-known educationists and psychologists at home and abroad based on their years of research and combined with practical examples.
It contains both theoretical research and case analysis. It is also written in an interesting and vivid way, and is very worth reading.
Xiang Nan then read it carefully and felt that it was really helpful.
However, just by reading a few psychological counseling books and parent-child relationship books, Xiang Nan didn't think he could resolve the conflict between Song Qian and Qiao Yingzi.
Because theory is dead and people are alive.
Human emotions and psychology are very complex, ever-changing, and unpredictable.
Expecting that reading a few books will solve psychological problems is like reading a few tutorial books to get into Tsinghua University. It is simply a daydream.
And as the saying goes, it's easy to change a country, but hard to change a person's temperament.
Song Qian is already in her forties, and her personality has long been fixed. It would be extremely difficult to change her mind.
In the play, if Qiao Yingzi hadn't suffered from moderate depression and had suicidal tendencies, Song Qian would never have repented.
In fact, this was beautified by the TV series.
In real life, extremely controlling parents like Song Qian, even if they force their children to death, will not admit their mistakes and will only blame their children for not understanding their painstaking efforts.
Therefore, Xiang Nan did not immediately give Qiao Yingzi any advice.
…
On September 1st, school officially opens.
On the first day of school, the Fang family went out early in the morning.
Fangyuan drove Tong Wenjie, Fang Yifan, and Lin Leier to meet Chaohui and headed to school.
According to Tong Wenjie, this calls for the whole family to come together to make a good start for the new semester.
"Fanfan, you must take good care of Leilei at school and act like a cousin. Do you understand?" Tong Wenjie warned.
"Don't worry, as long as I'm here, no one will dare to bully him." Xiang Nan nodded.
"Leilei, if you encounter any problems, just go to Yifan. Don't carry it yourself." Tong Wenjie warned again.
"I understand, aunt." Lin Lei'er nodded sensibly.
When I arrived at the school gate, I saw Teacher Li Meng standing in front of the door with the students on duty, looking at the students coming and going.
"Hello, Teacher Li Meng. This is my nephew Lin Lei'er. It's his first day of school today. Please take good care of him in the future." Tong Wenjie smiled and said, "Leier, this is your class teacher, Teacher Li."
"Hello, Teacher Li~" Lin Lei'er greeted quickly.
"Well, okay, let's go in." Li Meng nodded.
Xiang Nan immediately pulled Lin Lei'er into the school and took him to Class 3, Grade 3.
As soon as I entered the classroom, I saw Qiao Yingzi writing a daily question.
This is a project specially created by mathematics teachers to improve students' mathematics level. Students are given a difficult mathematics problem every day, but very few can solve it.
When Lin Lei'er saw this question, he immediately stood still.
After a while, Qiao Yingzi finished writing the question, turned around and saw Lin Lei'er, and was slightly startled, "Classmate, who are you looking for?"
Lin Leier did not answer, but picked up the chalk and started answering directly on the blackboard.
"He is my cousin, Lin Lei'er, a top student from southern Fujian." Xiang Nan introduced with a smile.
"Your cousin?!" Qiao Yingzi looked at Lin Lei'er in surprise, "Well, let's not say it, it looks a bit similar."
Chapter completed!