Chapter 764 There are gains and losses.
On the morning of the second day of the Chinese New Year, Wen Shuo went to the homes of several teachers in primary schools, junior high schools and high schools to pay New Year's greetings... This is not because Wen Shuo had a deep affection for the teachers, but because it originated from a helpless reality.
Wen Shuo has always claimed to be a saying and never likes to play with false things. But when a person has deeper contact with society, he will be bound by various favors, reputation, wealth, status and identity, and he will have the personal feeling of "people cannot help themselves in the world", so it is difficult to live completely real again, so he will have more false feelings.
This is not a denial, nor is it a deliberate smear of the friendship between teachers and students.
A deep teacher-student friendship does exist, but it does not exist between every student and teacher.
The gratitude and gratitude for teachers may be found in the minds of most students, but at best, the thickness is in the days after leaving campus, and even for decades, and occasionally when you meet teachers, you will still respect them and be enthusiastic, but it is difficult to visit teachers during festivals. This is unrealistic.
It is true that there is indeed a phenomenon of deep friendship with teachers and that has been connected for many years, but that is only a very small number.
Although Wen Shuo was grateful to some teachers from childhood, if a teacher encountered some difficulties in life and sought help from Wen Shuo, Wen Shuo would definitely do his best to do it.
But I don’t have to visit or visit every festival.
But now it's different.
Wen Shuo is good at judging people's hearts, good at interpersonal interactions, cultivating and maintaining emotions... but there are also some omissions and flaws.
For example, when visiting his former teacher, it was Ma Xiaobin who reminded him to do so.
When Ma Xiaobin went to Wen Shuo's house to pay New Year's greetings in the morning, he said to Wen Shuo privately: "Brother, you have to visit a teacher who has helped you and has a good impression of you in your mind. If you haven't returned to Dongyun, or stayed in Dongyun for a day and a half before leaving, it's nothing. But if you stayed in your hometown for three or five days during the New Year, but did not go to pay New Year's greetings to the teacher, it will cause gossip and have a bad impact on your personal reputation."
"Because the entire Dongyun now knows your reputation. The top scorer in the college entrance examination we were in the pass, and now a well-known young entrepreneur in Beijing and a student of Peking University..."
"You are a model of success in the news and publicity report for poor families but hard work and then to achieve success. In some related interviews, several teachers also gave you very high praise. Naturally, there will be sentences similar to the teaching and help of teachers in the news, which will lead to your success today. The people will naturally think so. Then, you, who have achieved success and fame, have returned to Dongyun, but did not visit the teachers who have given you great help, and did not wish them a happy New Year. This is not appropriate."
"Authentic, this is very hypocritical. Perhaps the school and teachers don't help much behind your success, but society must think so."
"I'll give you a closer look..."
After talking nonsense, Wen Shuo almost couldn't help but want to beat Ma Xiaobin - this kid is better than his mother Fatty, and he thinks and analyzes more thoroughly!
Is this the bystander clear?
The fat man must admit that Ma Xiaobin is right and very practical.
So he became more and more aware of why even Zheng Wenjiang, Liu Mao and others were scared of Ma Xiaobin's mouth.
This guy was speechless, but he was very reasonable.
It makes you angry and scratch your head, but it makes you embarrassed to be fooled...
But if you are a rational and smart person, if you think about it carefully, you will feel that if you have an assistant like Ma Xiaobin and a think tank around you, you will undoubtedly bring great help to your life and work.
To put it simply, this guy is born to be a military advisor!
I drove around this house and saw that house, and the morning passed.
Because I had no one to live in the cotton mill community for a long time, I couldn’t come back in advance for the New Year, so I didn’t have any food, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea when I cooked. So, I had dinner at my uncle’s house on the first day of the day, and on the second day of the day, I agreed to go to my aunt’s house for lunch, and then go to my uncle’s house to eat and stay at my uncle’s house when I came back in the evening.
Wen Shuo received a call from his mother in advance and came to pick her up at noon. She went back to the community to clean up the house in the morning.
This house has not been inhabited for a long time, and if it is not cleaned, it will be quickly destroyed.
When I drove into the community, I saw groups of old and young men standing around at the door of my own unit chatting. Some children ran in and out of the unit door and played. When they saw a domineering large "jeep" coming, everyone watched it. The children who were running back and forth were hurriedly hiding beside and standing there.
Nowadays, when children in Dongyun see cars, they still know that they are afraid and avoid them.
Most of these old and young men, Wen Shuo, recognized them as residents of the community, and their relationships in the past were pretty good. When they met, they greeted each other warmly and chatted. When they needed help, they immediately came in with a greeting...
The fat man is really popular in the community.
He remembered that when he left home and went to Beijing, many residents in the community gathered spontaneously to see him walk outside the community and watched him board the bus heading to the railway station.
He remembered that he brought a lot of food from his neighbors that day.
"Damn it, Ma Xiaobin is simply a savage, you can think of anything!" Wen Shuo parked the car with great emotion and picked up a bag of candy placed on the passenger seat. This was also Ma Xiaobin reminded him that he was ready to pick it up at any time. The candy was purchased by his mother early in the year when he was in Beijing. All kinds of New Year's goods were piled in the trunk.
Ma Xiaobin told Wen Shuo: "Brother No. 1, you rarely go back to Dongyun. It's the Spring Festival again. You can keep cigarettes and candy at hand, so you can't use them."
No, I'll use it now.
Wen Shuo got off the car and greeted the old neighbors with a smile and said Happy New Year. The old man, uncle and brother kept calling, while calling the children over and handing the bag full of candy to an older child, so that he and the children could eat together.
Immediately, Wen Shuo took out a cigarette and distributed it to everyone.
Naturally, my neighbors chatted with Wen Shuo happily, and they were all in high spirits, as if they had encountered such a big happy event.
They are indeed happy, too.
Although everyone knows in their hearts that Li Qin and Wen Shuo, the mother and son, live a good life, have little to do with them, but this is true for human nature. Seeing the person they know is so promising, they will feel that their faces are shining. When chatting with others, they can say a few words: "Hi, that boy Wen Shuo, I watched him grow up. I was too naughty when I was a child..." "I even kicked him twice in the butt." And so on, it seems quite intimate and familiar words.
When I heard that Li Qin had returned home in the morning, many neighbors came to reminisce about the past with Li Qin. The old and young men couldn't hide their faces and went into the house and sat around like the old women. They chatted outside, hoping for some "inexplicable" that Wen Shuo would come back, and he said hello and chatted for a few words, and then felt that his face was shining and he felt a strange sense of satisfaction in his heart.
Wen Shuo is very clear about the neighbors' mentality at this moment.
It doesn't necessarily mean that you want to curry favor with him or gain his lust, it's just a natural approaching mentality.
Half of them are really good to him, and they will say that the little fat man finally has a future, which has made his mother, who has suffered for many years and has been widowed for many years, is now living a good life. Half, or even more, is not entirely for this.
Human psychology is actually very strange.
In life, if your conditions are worse than the neighbors, ordinary friends, colleagues you contact every day, and even some of your relatives, some will sympathize, some will disagree, and some will feel proud and consciously live better than you; if your conditions are better than them, some will feel resentful and unfair. When you encounter some problems, they will even secretly gloat, and may slander, curse, and scold you in private.
But if you are much better than their conditions, so that they can even compare and catch up with them...
Everyone will regard you as their closest friend, and what you said as a famous saying. When chatting with others in life, they will regard you as their proud topic of conversation. They will forget all your shortcomings and even their bad intentions, but will expand your strengths infinitely!
What made Wen Shuo happy was that this human flaw, which is difficult to resort to, occupies a minority of the neighbors who are currently taking the initiative.
Because most of them still keep their true hearts of goodness and morality.
"Hey, everyone go into the house and sit in it. It's such a cold day..." Wen Shuo politely and familiarly invited everyone to the house. While turning to the car, he opened the trunk, took two bags of cigarettes, candy, and various nuts, and walked home with his neighbors.
With Wen Shuo here, it is convenient for both young and old men to come to the house to chat.
After entering the house, Wen Shuo found that there were much more people in the house than outside. There were seats and stands in the living room, and more than 20 women of different ages were crowded with people of different ages, and a few children were also running back and forth in each room.
"Everyone is here?" Wen Shuo smiled and squeezed through the crowd. While greeting everyone, hello and greeting everyone, he put the snacks in his hand on the coffee table. "Come on, don't chat, eat some melon seed candy or something... That one, I haven't lived in my house, I lack anything at home, I don't take good care of it, please forgive me!"
"Oh, look at how good this child Shuo is to speak!"
"That's right? I'm just a personal sperm when I was young, and my mouth is so sweet..."
"Shuo looks much taller than when he went to the capital, right? Look at his outfit, this style really looks like a big boss!"
"How do you talk? Xiao Shuo is the big boss!"
“Yes, yes…”
Everyone chatted enthusiastically and forgot about the time.
I don’t know who couldn’t help but remind everyone that it was already noon, and everyone seemed to have just come to their senses. Seeing that Wen Shuo’s house had no preparations for cooking, they enthusiastically invited the mother and son to have dinner at home.
Wen Shuo and his mother politely declined and explained, and then they sent the neighbors away one by one.
It was already past one pm, and Wen Shuo drove the car and asked with a smile: "Mom, are you tired?"
"I'm a little tired. At first I was a little happy and happy, but more and more people and longer, I felt tired." Li Qin sighed softly and said with some emotion: "In the past, our family couldn't see neighbors coming to the door a few times a year... Well, my mother wasn't complaining about anything. Most of the neighbors were pretty good. They helped us mothers and mothers a lot in those years. I just felt that it seemed that something was missing now."
"Yes." Wen Shuo nodded.
"What's missing?" Li Qin looked confused and helpless, and regretful.
"Not having simple sincerity."
Chapter completed!