Chapter 762 The person who is more reasonable than the first brother
There are always some people in the world, whether poor or rich, who will stick to their self-esteem and maintain good upbringing and living habits, such as the home environment and clothing, whether good or bad, must be neat; or their work, whether farming or sanitation, are not vulgar in their words and deeds, and they are upholding their own hearts when dealing with others and things...
These come from self-cultivated character.
In layman's terms, it is education.
For contemporary society, there are not many people who can maintain such a attitude towards life at the low level.
Because since the founding of the People's Republic of China, the family environment of those who have good education seems to be destined to be born in. They do not need to live in the social environment at the bottom to show that their education will not be polluted by the difficult environment.
In ordinary society, there are more good and bad life, words and deeds that the general public is accustomed to.
We can tactfully say that this is life, which is called down-to-earth.
But it is undeniable that many vulgar or even vulgar life, habits of words and deeds are not good - at least, in many public places, some self-concerned habits, ordinary, and uncensored habits of words and deeds will have a very bad impact on people and will also lower their impressions in other people's minds. In other words, it is called self-respect.
Some of these people will gradually realize some bad words and deeds and living habits as they grow up, experience, and social circles they come into contact with, and thus continue to change their positive side.
Some people, although they realize this is not good, will only think: "I am like this, who can do what I do?"
Well, this is not self-respect and self-deprecating.
The above are some of the fat man’s personal insights at present.
The reason for this feeling is that the fat man is drinking, chatting and spanking with his best buddies in Dongyun.
Zheng Wenjiang, Liu Ji, Hou Jinqiang, Li Yanbiao, Zhan Chuanhai... There are also the honest student Ma Xiaobin who was once bullied by Wen Shuo's cousin Li Congwen many times. Later, he forced Li Congwen to drive him into a hurry.
In addition to Wen Shuo, among all the brothers here, only Zhan Chuanhai and Ma Xiaobin are studying in college.
The place where they gathered was at the Hongyun Hotel in Dongyun.
It is also the only hotel in Dongyun, a relatively remote and backward county town, which is open as usual during the Spring Festival and undertakes the New Year’s Eve dinner.
Wen Shuo's previous insights stem from the discovery of the changes of these brothers.
Now these guys are getting better and better in the waste purchase business. By the way, they have opened four largest Internet cafes, three small Internet cafes, and two Shuoyuan fast food restaurant branches in the county. They are the first franchise stores after the Jingcheng Shuoyuan fast food chain officially started to join. As long as people who can make these fast foods are hired to work in the store, they can use the special secret sauces delivered by the Jingcheng Shuoyuan fast food chain store and two other newly-equipped condiments to make delicious fast food.
It is now 2002, and four young men, who are only 22 years old, each of them has wealth of hundreds of thousands and nearly one million.
They are young and energetic and most proud of their faces. They have a cell phone around their waists and drive a car when they go out...
It is very prosperous and famous in Dongyun County.
As their wealth grows, they come into contact with more and more people, and they gradually become more cognitive and experienced than most of their peers. They think more and more, and they begin to pay attention to their own image and behavior intentionally or unintentionally.
It’s not just a matter of good face, but it’s really affected by the environment and social interaction.
Before, after the waiter served the dishes, he poured the first glass of wine for them, and then respectfully said that he wished you all a happy meal and could call you anytime if you have any need. When he was about to turn around and leave, Wen Shuo saw it clearly. Zheng Wenjiang, who was once the hottest and rude, smiled and nodded and said to the waiter: "Thank you."
Very simple, very ordinary, very...a trivial thing that doesn't seem worth mentioning!
However, from these brothers who could not understand Wen Shuo very much, especially Zheng Wenjiang, they said it, and on such occasions, they were so casual and used to being...
But he was deeply shocked by Wen Shuo.
Looking at the brothers' clothes, when picking up food with chopsticks and drinking, they no longer had the same movements as they used to shout and clamor around. Even if they were climbing with a smile, they did not have excessive exaggerated movements and expressions.
Wen Shuo even felt that these brothers were a little restrained. Is there any conflict between them?
But after drinking for three rounds, Wen Shuo was sure that the brothers had really changed.
Even if they drink, chat and talk about the mountains, the topics will often involve the business of Internet cafes, the acquisition of waste products, and even talk about some current policies in Dongyun County, such as Linguan City, the province, the national economic trends, etc., and what impact will it have on their business.
Depend on!
These guys are not deliberately pretending to be in front of me, right?
Wen Shuo was shocked and surprised, and was filled with emotion and doubts - people would become worse when they had money, and similarly, they would become better after they had money, becoming more and more concerned about their image in front of outsiders?
As Academician Song said during the chat, after the material wealth reaches a certain level of satisfaction, people will pursue spiritual satisfaction more.
However, the so-called pursuit of spiritual satisfaction does not seem to fully explain the changes of Zheng Wenjiang and the others.
Wen Shuo raised his questions openly at the dinner table.
Zheng Wenjiang and the others were first surprised, but after thinking about it, they didn't feel that there was any deliberate change. As for the examples given by Wen Shuo, everyone thinks there is nothing to say, it's normal.
"The first brother is right. Compared with the past, all brothers have indeed changed a lot. They are becoming more and more real businessmen and bosses, and are more and more in line with the identity of a well-known young entrepreneur and promising young man in Dongyun." Ma Xiaobin said: "But compared with the first brother, each of us has a big gap, and we cannot do anything in all aspects. For example, the first brother will find that he will seriously consider these issues and summarize them. He can also analyze the changes in society and explain material wealth and spiritual wealth from this... Therefore, each of us has a long way to go next, and there are still many places to learn from the first brother..."
"Stop and stop!" Zheng Wenjiang quickly raised his hand to interrupt Ma Xiaobin's words, raised his glass and said, "Xiaobin, stop talking, brother toast you a glass of wine, ah! I understand, our brother has changed a few of us, that, just like what the first brother said just now, we are getting better and better, and it's all the fucking benefits from your Ma Xiaobin, thank you!"
After he said this, Liu Ji and the others immediately responded, and immediately agreed, and toasted Ma Xiaobin with a glass and expressed their gratitude.
But everyone also said that Ma Xiaobin said less.
Wen Shuo looked confused.
What's going on?
After toasting Ma Xiaobin, he watched everyone cheerfully toast Ma Xiaobin, and seemed to want to get him drunk. Zheng Wenjiang curled his lips with a wry smile and said to Wen Shuo: "You proposed to let this kid get along with our brothers, but guess what?"
"What?" Wen Shuo became more and more surprised.
"This guy is, just like..." Zheng Wenjiang thought for a while and said, "Have you ever watched the big talk in the West?"
Wen Shuo nodded: "I've seen it."
"Ma Xiaobin is just a monk in Tang!" Zheng Wenjiang seemed to have a headache and said with a bitter face: "He can keep talking endlessly, people are still talking about it, and every sentence is for our own good. He will bring you out at any time. Let us think about how you do it, how to learn from you, and strive to surpass you. It is not good to say too much swear, it is not good to not reason first when fighting with people, it is not good to make up for it afterwards, it is not good to not prepare in advance, it is not good to not have enough business books, it is not good to have enough service in the Internet cafe, our clothes are too rustic, and we don't look like a boss, and going out to discuss business will be looked down upon..."
Wen Shuo heard Zheng Wenjiang complaining and complaining like a resentful woman, and his head was a little big.
I saw that I was surrounded by several people and persuaded me to drink, but suddenly I began to tell everyone about the bad habit of climbing wine, it was not good to persuade my friends to get drunk, it was not good to drink too much, it was good to drink moderately, and excessive amounts of alcohol will make you happy...
Wen Shuo suddenly wanted to drag Ma Xiaobin out and beat him up.
At this moment, the door of the private room opened. Liu Maohe, wearing a brown leather jacket and looking like a big boss, walked in with a spring breeze on his face. He bowed and apologized when he entered the door: "Mr. Wen, brothers, I'm sorry, I've made a reservation before the New Year. On the night of the New Year, I'm going to have dinner at the village's widowed house, so I came a little late today. I'm really sorry, sorry!"
As he spoke, Liu Ji, who was sitting on Wen Shuo's left, had already made a seat aside. Liu Mao and Guy thanked him politely, but did not sit down. He picked up the wine glass on the table and said, "Then, no matter how many reasons, I am late, I will punish myself for three cups!"
As a result, as soon as he picked up the cup, Liu Maohe seemed to have just noticed Ma Xiaobin sitting opposite him. He immediately looked embarrassed and said in a little embarrassed and panic: "Dede, Xiaobin is here too? I know, I know, ah, just one glass is fine, just one glass, you can't drink too much, you can't drink fast, drink slowly, chat more... right?"
After saying that, Liu Maohe seemed to be afraid of what Ma Xiaobin said, so he took the cup and drank it all. After signaling everyone to empty the cup, he sat down with a smile and said to Wen Shuo: "Mr. Wen, do you think it's OK?"
Wen Shuo nodded with laughter and cry, but his eyes stared at Ma Xiaobin and said, "Xiaobin, you can... It seems that everyone is quite... well, I'm very afraid of you. Even Village Chief Liu has to act on such occasions, depending on your expression."
"The first brother is so serious, everyone gives in to me, and everyone has been learning from the first brother in the past and is very reasonable." Ma Xiaobin said a little embarrassedly: "I am a little too much and like to nag. Sometimes it is quite annoying, but I can't control myself, because whenever I see something bad about them, I think of the first brother and what if it is the first brother, and then I can't help saying it out. Of course, everyone just annoyed me, doesn't want me to nag, and lets me not be as good as me, so I occasionally listen to my persuasion. Compared to the first brother, I am too far behind you, because everyone really respects you. First brother, in my mind, you have always been a role model, I..."
"Stop!" Wen Shuo was a little overwhelmed and smiled at the cup: "Come on, let's go one of them!"
"Okay, the first brother and I have a glass of wine. I feel very special..."
Wen Shuo finished drinking the wine in one sip.
Ma Xiaobin quickly swallowed the words to his mouth, drank the wine in the glass, and suddenly blushed: "I actually..."
"Eat vegetables."
Chapter completed!