Chapter 351 Love is deception
"How long can you like someone last?"
Lin Baiyao did not expect that Lu Qingwu would ask him such a profound question.
Although the two were considered friends, they did not discuss love late at night.
"Why do you ask?"
"curious!"
Lin Baiyao was puzzled, so he remained silent.
Lu Qingwu asked again: "Perhaps let me put it another way, you and Zi Zi like each other now, then can you guarantee that you will only like Zi Zi forever?"
If someone else is standing next to him now, Lin Baiyao may think that the other person is trapped in love and needs to find a friend to answer questions.
But Lu Qingwu's temperament doesn't look like someone who would be trapped by love.
This is somewhat abnormal.
Could it be that the evening breeze in the mountains, the dazzling stars, the bright bonfires, and the songs of youth can disturb a person's mood so much?
Lin Baiyao considered his words and said softly: "To know how long the shelf life of love is, you must first understand the meaning of love. From a sociological perspective, love refers to the relationship between the sexes based on the common ideal of life under a certain socio-economic and cultural status.
It is an exclusive and durable special social relationship independently formed in accordance with certain moral standards based on the premise of equal mutual love and voluntary commitment of obligations, the desire to form a lifelong partner, and the purpose of forming a lifelong partner..."
Such a high-sounding official answer obviously cannot satisfy Lu Qingwu.
She asked: "Then what?"
"The economic and cultural status is always changing, and it is difficult for the ideal of life to be realized in reality. Equality and voluntariness have turned into inequality and dissatisfaction over time. There will be far more couples who part ways than those who grow old together.
Lifelong partners, moral standards as elusive as the stars above... Then exclusivity fades, permanence fades, and love dies..."
"In other words, you can't guarantee that you will always like Ye Zi? When the exclusivity disappears, will you look for the next person you like?"
Lin Baiyao smiled and said: "Maybe!"
Lu Qingwu lowered his head for a long time and said in a slow tone: "Maybe... what you said makes sense! For example, that Zhong Zijun is just an ordinary teammate randomly formed. From the moment I realized that, I shouldn't have made any mistakes for him
It’s a signal, but what’s the result?”
A faint sneer flashed across her eyes, whether it was a sneer at so-called love or a so-called man, and she said: "It's so easy to like, so empathy is naturally easier than liking. I know, you and Ye Zi
Love is different from others. I just didn't expect that you would have such thoughts when you are passionately in love. It's a bit scary to be rational..."
"The wind has no direction, the light has no shape, and love has no definition."
Lin Baiyao sighed and said: "In my opinion, the essence of love is the deception of dopamine and serotonin on the nervous system. When men and women have a good impression, they will secrete the hormones male and female hormones. When they fall in love, they will
It will secrete dopamine and serotonin. Dopamine makes you happy, and serotonin makes you lose your mind. Therefore, men and women in love can only see advantages, not disadvantages, and can only feel happiness, but not sadness. However, during the period of strong hormones
It will always end. When dopamine and serotonin are no longer secreted, some people will break up, while some people will accept dullness. Maybe the difference between the two is that some people can only cheat for a while, and some people can cheat for a lifetime... In the final analysis,
Do you love the other person? No, what you love is just the sensory deception caused by the chemicals secreted by your own brain."
Lu Qingwu clapped softly and said, "I am honored to hear your lecture on love tonight. I have benefited a lot. Thank you."
Weird and strange?
Lin Baiyao almost couldn't hold it back and wanted to ask Lu Qingwu, have I offended you recently?
However, when the words came to my mouth, I still swallowed them back knowingly.
A woman's heart is like a needle in the sea,
Don't pay attention, don't be curious, don't inquire.
Only by remaining unchanged and responding to all changes can we remain invincible!
"You go back first, I'm fine, don't worry."
Lu Qingwu smiled and said: "I don't like the excitement. It's nice to be alone here and enjoy the mountain breeze. I'll be back in a few minutes."
Lin Baiyao nodded, turned around and walked a few steps when he heard Lu Qingwu say: "By the way, didn't you say last time that you would invest 30,000 yuan in a milk tea shop? I thought about it, Ye Zi wants to expand the scale, and 30,000 yuan is just a drop in the bucket.
Nothing can help. I asked my family for 100,000 yuan a few days ago, hoping to help her... However, I won’t bother you about buying shares this time. I will go to her to discuss it. If she doesn’t like it, I won’t want to
Force her to accept..."
"good!"
…
"Why haven't you come back yet? Nothing will happen, right?"
Liu Fei looked at the backs of Lin Baiyao and Lu Qingwu in the distance and said worriedly.
Shi Peng was happy to see Lin Baiyao getting in touch with other beautiful girls, and said hurriedly: "Between students, this is a trivial matter called youthful throbbing. We have to experience it and learn to deal with it. As teachers, we should not interfere."
Leng Qingqian was about to stand up and said: "I'll go take a look..."
All the jokes were ahead of her, saying: "The grass over there is too dense, there might be snakes, so I'd better go."
Leng Qingqian blinked his eyes, not understanding the situation for a moment.
Does he care about me?
When he came to his senses, all he could see was Duan Zidu's back.
Lin Baiyao walked back more than ten meters and met the oncoming Duan Zidu.
The two of them were standing next to the tree, chatting casually. To others, it looked like they were talking about Lu Qingwu.
"Did you notice anything unusual?"
"not yet!"
"Monitor closely! If our prediction is correct, that person must be nearby. Let your three brothers keep an eye on the ancient well, but don't move. Now is the time to compete for concentration. You can't be hasty, let alone be chaotic.
"
The jokes all said solemnly: "Don't worry, boss! The brothers have often done this kind of thing before. Not to mention a wanted criminal, they have also dealt with a lot of dealers who are armed with live ammunition. I guarantee there won't be any accidents!"
Lin Baiyao smiled and said: "Don't be nervous, I am willing to use my life as bait, just because I trust your professionalism."
Duan Zidu, who was not very nervous before, became a little nervous now, and tried his best to persuade: "Boss, I still think it's too risky. Since we are sure that the guy is here, let's just cooperate with the police and seal the mountain to search."
Forget it..."
Lin Baiyao shook his head and said: "Catching this person is not the purpose. I want to see if he is coming for me. If the mountain is sealed, it will only help the police catch a wanted criminal. But if we can test him out
The target is me, so if you follow the clues and follow this line of investigation, maybe you can find out once and for all and seize the hand behind the scenes!"
"clear!"
A few minutes later, Lu Qingwu returned to the bonfire party, but he was far away from Zhong Zijun, who looked gloomy. Leng Qingqian even went over to ask her thoughtfully if she wanted to change the team temporarily.
This is to prevent them from embarrassing each other, leading to disordered cooperation, and affecting tomorrow's exam.
Lu Qingwu was very grateful for Leng Qingqian's concern, and then declined.
This rekindled Zhong Zijun's hope.
Yes, maybe she was just too tender-skinned. After calming down, she decided to give herself a chance.
That's for sure.
Zhong Zijun fully demonstrated the mental journey of a dog licker, and began to secretly figure out how to repair the relationship between the two tomorrow?
Chapter completed!