Luo Yan finally gave up on consulting Jieyou Grocery Store. After drinking the great cup of tea, she thanked the boss and stood up to say goodbye.

In fact, when she sat in front of the boss and was about to speak, she had an answer in her heart.

Similar to the "coin toss theory", when you flip a coin to make a choice, the moment the coin falls, you are more inclined toward which choice is your answer.

When Luo Yan was facing the boss just now, she suddenly realized that if the boss suggested that she stay, she would choose to refuse without hesitation. She found that she was not here to find the answer, but to find reasons to support her going abroad.

After leaving Jieyou Grocery Store, she became more determined. If she stayed, she would definitely lose the opportunity to go abroad. However, she might not lose her boyfriend when she went abroad because her boyfriend herself also supported her going abroad.

To take a step back, even if the two ultimately failed to withstand three years of transnational love and ended up breaking up, it would be sad for a while, but if she gave up this opportunity to go abroad, she might regret it for the rest of her life.

After leaving the corruption pit, she called her boyfriend and clearly stated her thoughts. Her boyfriend naturally strongly supported her and promised: "You go to Germany, even if you study hard, don't worry about the tuition fee for your books, and cover it all with your husband!"

She felt so warm and sweet, and replied: "Thank you husband!"

Next, the two began to make various preparations for going abroad. As the date of going abroad approached, the two cherished the days they were together more and more. A week before going abroad, Luo Yan finally agreed to go out and check in with her boyfriend. She gave herself completely to her boyfriend to show her determination.

That night, they made a vow to wait for each other for three years.

That night, my boyfriend told her that if the relationship lasts for a long time, how can it be together day and night?

A week later, Luo Yan boarded a plane to Germany, and her boyfriend went to the airport to see her off. The two of them kissed goodbye in tears at the airport.

"Wait for me to come back!" She shouted loudly to her boyfriend before getting on the plane.

...

When she first arrived abroad, she was unfamiliar with the place and had no relatives. The differences in language, food and culture made it difficult for her to adapt for a while, and life became particularly inconvenient.

Of course, what made her most disappointed was the whole German teaching in class. Although she herself majored in German, due to the special domestic education model, her exam skills are better than her ability to apply. Therefore, as long as she is not careful, she will have no idea what the teacher on the podium is saying.

Sometimes after one class, she was like listening to a heavenly book or sleepwalking, and in the end she had to ask other Chinese students for advice and borrow notes, which was under a lot of pressure.

In addition to the difficulties of life and study, she also faces many emotional intrusions such as loneliness, homesickness, and missing her boyfriend every night. She began to regret her choice to go abroad. She complained to her boyfriend on the phone and video, and cried with grievance. Her boyfriend comforted her with warm words, let her adapt slowly, and told her that everything would be fine...

In fact, she just acted like a spoiled person with her boyfriend and would not really return to China. With her talent for learning and unyielding temper, she would definitely not give up so easily. She made up her mind to adapt to life abroad as soon as possible.

She couldn't get used to eating foreign food, so she started to learn to cook. If she couldn't understand it in class, she took the initiative to communicate and chat with German classmates and teachers, buy daily necessities, and consciously chose German supermarkets and shops.

In addition, she also began to practice various German original soundtrack movies, German versions of Hollywood blockbusters, German versions of British and American versions. Later, she began to practice listening to accelerated versions of German listening materials... It can be said that it is a comprehensive, three-dimensional practice and improves spoken and listening.

After persisting like this for a month, she could already communicate with Germans without barriers, and understand the content in the classroom. She became much more relaxed in class, and even started to ask her for advice and borrow her notes.

In addition, her cooking skills have also been significantly improved, and she can now make a table of dishes to entertain classmates and friends independently.

For the past month, she and her boyfriend still insist on videos at a fixed time every day, and they have to video for more than half an hour each time. Sometimes when they talk about emotions, she will also send benefits to her boyfriend...

Two months passed in a blink of an eye. She had basically adapted to studying abroad and made a few friends. Her extracurricular social interaction became more abundant. Her boyfriend's work also officially passed the internship period and became a formal employee of the German foreign trade company. She became busy with work.

The video time of the two of them shrank to more than ten minutes. When they were communicating, they still looked sweet, but both of them could clearly feel that they were talking less and less, and the past events in college were repeated over and over again.

Later, conflicts between countries and other places began to emerge, one had to learn and socialize, and the other had to work and socialize. The energy and time were allocated more and more, and the attention and care given to the other party decreased accordingly. Video gradually became a routine, and the situation began to appear in a cold situation.

Once, she forgot to video with her boyfriend on time because she was attending a classmate’s birthday party, so the two broke up. Although they reconciled quickly, the quarrel began.

Later, her boyfriend forgot to video with her on time because of a business trip, so she accused her boyfriend of taking revenge on her. Naturally, there was another quarrel. The result of this quarrel was to cancel the "Fixed Video Every Day" project and replace it with "Fixed Telephone Every Day" and video it again when you have time.

...

For a while, cancel the "fixed phone number per day" and replace it with "one fixed WeChat number per day". Then call and video after a while.

...

After that, the fixed WeChat message will be cancelled every day and you must contact it once within three days.

...

Normal couples are separated by thousands of miles apart, and they cannot communicate in person every day, they cannot hear each other's tone, they cannot see each other's expressions, they cannot touch each other's body, and they cannot get the other's care when they are sick... The relationship is maintained by cold words, and the conflicts and problems arising from this can be imagined.

In the first half of the month at the end of the first semester, the two had a serious quarrel. The girl was more excited and realized that she was confident abroad and blurted out the harsh words "Since everyone is so tired, let's separate."

The boy did not answer, said, "Calm down and then make a decision" and hung up the phone.

After calming down, the girl of course apologized and acted cutely, because she found that she couldn't let go of her heart.

My boyfriend naturally forgave her and told her that he would not say anything like separation in the future.

Two weeks later, the first semester finally ended, and she returned to China in a hurry and rushed to her boyfriend's arms.

That day, she and her boyfriend kissed each other desperately in the house they rented, and they were kissing each other again and again, three times in total.

...

When they were weak, happy and sweetly hugged each other, they felt that nothing in the world could separate them... until her second semester began.

It's the beginning of another vicious cycle.

Daily video → Daily phone → Daily information → Contact every three days → Arguing...

Later one day she had a severe cold, stomachache, fever, cough, and runny nose during her menstrual period. It happened that day that her boyfriend fell asleep when he was drunk because of entertaining a big customer.

She told her boyfriend the news of her illness, but she did not get her boyfriend's care. Even though she knew that her boyfriend might be busy and had not received his call or saw her message, she was weak and still lost her mind and got furious. Finally, she couldn't help but say again, "What do I want my boyfriend? Why don't you break up, and there is no hope, you won't be disappointed."

The next day, her boyfriend woke up from a hangover and quickly called her and explained. The two of them reconciled. She also apologized for her angry words, promising that she would not have to do anything else and would never say separate words again.

...

As expected, she persisted until the end of this semester and never said the word "breakup". However, on her boyfriend's birthday the next year, she was answered by a woman because she called her boyfriend and had a big fight with him, and she said "breakup" for the third time.

Afterwards, it was proved that her boyfriend was attending a trade fair at China Overseas at that time. Because he was chatting with a customer, he was on the desk and was received by his colleagues, which led to a misunderstanding.

Of course they still didn't divide it this time, but she finally used up the limit for saying "breakup" three times. Half a year later, in the second semester of the second year, the two officially broke up after a fierce quarrel.

There were no third parties, no family objections, no material conditions such as houses and cars - they eventually lost to distance.

"After apart, two people will be happy."

This is the last eight words my boyfriend sent to her, and the two broke off contact after that.

...

The pain of breaking up continued until the third year of studying abroad, until she had a German boyfriend, but the German boy finally proved that he just wanted to find a foreign girl with exotic characteristics to play. The two had dated miserably for less than a month.

Not long after, she had another Chinese student boyfriend, but the more she had contact with that Chinese student, the bigger the gap between him and his ex-boyfriend. In the end, the two had dated less than a month and left unhappily.

...

Later, she dated two boyfriends, but neither of them persisted until a month.

One night, she was lying on the bed and flipping through the chat history with her first boyfriend. She looked at her past experiences, tears blurred her eyes and then began to cry.

At that moment, she suddenly realized that no one could fill the gap that he had created in her heart after he left!

The next day, she asked for leave and returned to China. She decided to go to him and asked him to get back together with her in person. Even if she was asked to stay in China from now on and give up going abroad, she would not hesitate!

She returned to the country, came to the city where he worked, and asked about his whereabouts.

Hard work pays off. On the third day after she returned to China, she finally met him on the escalator at a subway entrance.

She took the elevator down, and he happened to be on the elevator up.

As soon as she met, she was surprised to call him, but found that there was a woman with a slightly raised belly standing next to him, and the woman was gently holding him.

For a moment, the sky was spinning, and her world seemed to collapse suddenly.

She lost consciousness and fell from the elevator, falling endlessly...

Then, she woke up… and found herself lying on a table.

"woke up?"

At this moment, a voice rang in her ear.

She looked up blankly and saw a strange and familiar face, a big boy she seemed to have seen before.

"Here, wipe the tears dry." The boy handed over a tissue.

Only then did she realize that her sleeves were soaked in tears.

"Where is this?" she asked.

"Wayou Grocery Store." The big boy replied with a smile.

What a familiar name, the grocery store of Chu Da, alma mater?!

She hurriedly asked, "Did I come here three years ago?"

The boy shook his head, "To be precise, you just came here thirty minutes ago."

"How could it be possible thirty minutes ago?" She shook her head and didn't believe it.

"You can look at the time on your phone. You just had a dream." The boy said in a gentle tone.

She immediately turned on her phone and called out the calendar, stared at it for a while, then stood up suddenly, bounced off the blanket that was draped on her, and then rushed out of the grocery store like flying.

"Remember to come back and pay."

Guo Dalu shouted at Luo Yan's back.
Chapter completed!