People crave justice, but they show a sense of displeasure when they don't get it. Forcing justice is a way of focusing on the external environment and a way to avoid caring about one's own life.

If jealousy hinders your life and makes you fall into some kind of inertia, you should consciously eliminate this thought and emotion.

Don’t forget: Revenge is also a manifestation of being controlled by others. Don’t act based on other people’s behavior, you should act in love with your own judgment.

12. Harness the demon of "procrastination"

Of the easiest things in the world, procrastination is the most effortless.

Procrastinating is an unhealthy behavior, but few people can say that they never procrastinate.

If you pay attention to people who procrastinate, it is not difficult to find some common words in their words, such as "maybe", "hope", "hopefully" and the like.

People who are willing to tire themselves are more boring than people who tire.

Don't make any confession. Your actions speak volumes and are so deafening that I cannot hear any of your excuses.

13. Create an independent self

Personal independence does not mean real success. A fulfilling life must also pursue a more successful interpersonal relationship. To achieve psychological independence, you must first get rid of the need to rely on others.

People have two abilities that are priceless and hard to find. One is the ability to think; the other is the ability to prioritize things and handle them appropriately.

Happiness does not depend on who you are or what you have, it comes entirely from your thoughts.

People will not die from excessive fatigue, but will die from dissipation and worry.

Talk to yourself every day, so that you can guide yourself to think about what courage and happiness are; what peace and strength are; talk to yourself about something you need to be grateful for every day. In this way, your heart will be brighter and the sky will be brighter, and you will sing happily.

There are only two goals in life: first, to pursue what you want; second, to enjoy what you pursue. Only the smartest people can achieve the second goal.

In our lives, about 90% of things are good and 10% of things are bad. If you want to live a happy life, you should focus on these 90% of good things.

Be happy for what you have, don't worry about what you have, and always think on the bright side. This habit is better than earning a fortune.

If we want to make friends, we must first do something for others. Those things that require time, energy, consideration, and dedication. Caring for others must be sincere, just like the principles of interpersonal relationships with other people.

Everyone in the world is seeking happiness, but there is only one really effective way, and that is to control your thoughts. Most people's happiness is similar to what they are determined to get.

If you want to know how to make people avoid you, laugh at you behind your back, or even despise you, here is the best way. Never listen to others quietly and keep talking about yourself. The trick to communicating with others is to talk about what others value most.

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If you point out other people's mistakes too bluntly, no matter how good your opinion is, it will not be accepted, and you may even be greatly hurt.

People with mature minds will not be limited to their own difficulties, but will bravely face it, accept it, and then find ways to overcome and solve it. They will not beg, despair, or make excuses to escape.

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Immature people can always regard their uniqueness as a flaw or obstacle, and then expect to receive special treatment.

Life is not a smooth journey to happiness, but it is always swinging in patterns of luck and misfortune, sinking and floating, light and darkness.

There is only one way for us to face misfortune - to accept it. When our lives are fragmented by unfortunate encounters, only time can pick up the fragments and heal them again.

Misfortune is not the end of the world. Sometimes it is a catalyst that prompts us to take action, which is necessary to improve the situation. It can make our talents more sensitive to help us continue to improve and practice ourselves. Of course, we will also

Correct mistakes at any time, but you don’t have to keep solving problems in mind.
Chapter completed!