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10 The so-called strategy is not only one way to go

"Um...wait..."

Everyone was drunk and I was awake alone. Just when others were still in a daze, Zhou Chengli, a social elite member of Mensa Club (professed to be), held down his temples and gritted his teeth to break through this collective unconscious state that makes people involuntarily want to give up thinking.

"Don't think about randomly changing topics. Although what you said seems to be very reasonable, as far as I know, it seems that you are still specializing in the science of love.

Moreover, you don’t want to adjust these props to teach the members of the SOS group? If you really think so, then I can only think that you have read too many pornographic novels.

Compared to teaching, the success rate may be higher if you just spend money directly.”

Faced with Zhou Chengli's doubts, Chu Xuan pushed down his reflective glasses expressionlessly, and replied in a smooth and unscaling mechanical voice:

“Indeed, studying love cannot be a science alone.

However, as the most important psychological activity of human beings, the research on love is an important item that cannot be ignored in psychology.

Do you know the ‘suspension bridge effect’?”

"I know. When a person sees his sweetheart, his heartbeats will be faster. On the other hand, the heartbeats may be mistaken for being liked by his brain.

For example, when two people stand together on a suspension bridge hanging in the air, their heartbeats will be faster due to fear, and then they will easily feel good.

But in fact, this kind of emotion has nothing to do with love, it is just an illusion brought to the psychology by physiological reactions."

"Yes, the 'suspension bridge effect' can be explained by the two-factor theory of emotion.

Unlike people's general common sense, individual emotional experience is not formed spontaneously due to their own experiences. It is a two-stage self-perception process.

In this process, people first experience their own physiological feelings, and then, people will find a suitable explanation for their physiological awakening in the surrounding environment.

In addition, there is another explanation for the ‘suspension bridge effect’ called ‘activation theory’.

People's emotions are aroused, such as laughing, anxiety or fear, and they are more able to discover other people's attraction. Any physiological "activation" may make people easily moved.

The theory that ‘dangerous or irritating situations can promote each other’ has many practical applications in love. For example, couples ride roller coasters together, laugh together, or escape from a fired building together, will cause emotional fluctuations, thereby inspiring ‘feelings’ between each other.

Then the next question, do you know ‘Stockholm Syndrome’?”

"Know, that refers to a phenomenon in which the victim has emotions towards the criminal and even in turn helps the criminal.

In Stockholm, a bank robber once tried to rob a bank. After the failure, he took several employees in the bank as hostages and confronted the police for several days.

When they were rescued, they did not hate the robbers. Instead, there was a female employee who fell in love with the robbers.

This phenomenon shows that there is a fragile bottom line for fear that people have to bear.

When a person encounters a fierce robber and the other party can take his life at any time, the hostages will gradually entrust the right of life to the robber.

As time goes by, the hostage eats a bite of rice and drinks a sip of water. Every breath he himself feels that the robbers are tolerant and kind to him.

For the robbers who kidnapped themselves, the hostage fear will first turn into gratitude for the robbers, and then into a kind of worship.

In the end, the hostage subconsciously thought that the safety of the robber was his own safety.”

“Yes, Stockholm syndrome is an important example of the role identity defense mechanism, which shows that people can be domesticated.

In evolutionary psychology, it is believed that a newborn baby will form an emotional attachment to the closest powerful adult to maximize the possibility of his or her ideal parental form, or at least allow him to survive. Stockholm syndrome may develop from this.

Taking hostages as an example, the occurrence of Stockholm syndrome requires the following conditions:

First, let the hostages feel that his life is under threat. This threat must not be done, but the hostages clearly feel that they believe that the person who abuses him will do so without hesitation at any time.

Second, the perpetrator must give the hostage some favors or, for example, give the hostage water to drink in various desperate situations - this is the most critical condition.

Third, the hostages must be completely isolated from the outside world. Except for the information and ideas controlled by the perpetrator, no other information can be obtained by hostages.

Fourth, let the hostages feel that there is no way out.

Although the severity of Stockholm disease is related to the mental strength of the victim, as long as the above conditions are met and there is enough time, most of them will not be able to escape this symptom.

It can be seen from the two phenomena of "suspension bridge effect" and "Stockholm syndrome" that the so-called love does not necessarily have to be acquired through one path.

Although the emotions obtained by using these psychological principles are not love in the traditional sense, their essence is no different from love, and can also be called deformed love.

There are many tutors in this world. However, there are few tutors in love. Because from a practical perspective, all the steps and behaviors in tutoring are scientifically guided by psychological theory, so using this method to obtain love is more operational.

For our time-limited tasks, the method of tutoring is the most effective, much better than a normal love that is full of uncertainties and almost impossible to calculate.

Even if we do not give priority to this abnormal method due to our own moral reasons, there is absolutely no harm in preparing in advance."

Chu Xuan ended the "scientific exchange" with Zhou Chengli, and at the same time, he fooled the men present with impeccable theories. The two women could only hug each other and tremble, fearing that they would be transferred. The fate of the teaching fell on them.

"Don't worry, we are companions. Even if we need test items, we don't have to use you two. Moreover, we can be transferred not only women, but also men. Preparing in advance will also help you both.

Even though he saw the pitiful appearance of female college student Wang Qin and the young nurse Zhao Xiaojing, Chu Xuan did not show even a little pity.

He just sat back in front of the computer expressionlessly and comforted them coldly. But for some reason, the two girls immediately showed a look of gratitude.

What is this called? "Suspension Bridge Syndrome" or "Stockholm Effect"?

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In addition, although the theories in this chapter are true and valid, please apply them in normal, pure love love strategies, and do not mistake them! We hereby declare.
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