And willfulness itself is actually just the opinions of others and has nothing to do with your own feelings...

What you want to do and what kind of thoughts you have caused to others, the world has nothing to do with you...

Of course, although other people's perception of their own behavior has no effect on their own behavior, Wang Yu seems to think that if his behavior causes trouble to his relatives and friends around him, then such behavior should be slightly restrained and reserved...

In Wang Yu's cognition, the real sense of doing whatever he wants is to do what he really wants without causing trouble to his family...

Only in this way can it be considered as true as you want...

Perhaps when many people have their own ideas and conflicts with their families, in this case, their behavior will also appear a little willful in the eyes of others. For example, many young people who pursue so-called dreams regardless of their parents' opposition, in the eyes of many people, fall within the category of willfulness...

However, Wang Yu doesn't. He always needs what he needs and always understands what his family needs to do, so he can always make himself reach a state of unity of knowledge and practice...

On the one hand, we pursue doing whatever we want, but on the other hand, we can be careful about our own principles...

The so-called "doing your will and not breaking the rules" is such a state...

This is a description of the state of the elderly...

The so-called knowing destiny is such a state...

When a person's understanding and cognition of the world reaches a certain level, he can do anything. No matter how he does it, he will obscurely abide by the rules of the world. No matter how he does it, he will be correct and will not arouse other people's disgust...

This is like a wise and kind person in a truly sense. No matter what he does, his starting point will be good, and his wisdom can ensure that he can always make correct judgments. Then, no matter what he does, such a person will be actually correct...
Chapter completed!