Dragon-slaying illusion.

Many people in this world always feel that they have one or another shortcomings...

Many people feel dissatisfied with their shortcomings...

For example, many people are always dissatisfied with their ordinary family background, their ordinary appearance, and their ordinary salary. This dissatisfaction, over time, often becomes inferior, or simply becomes cynical, feeling that the whole world owe them...

People who become inferior will always slowly fade into the crowd, believing that their destiny is destined to be mediocre, believing that they will not have the chance to make a name for themselves, and think that their flaws are irreparable...

People who become extreme often try to prove their existence to the world by doing something shocking, and like those who ignore them, roar and roar of their own counterattack, or always feel that everyone around them is full of malicious intentions towards them, and will always subconsciously feel that others look down on them, and become very sensitive and care about what others think of themselves...

While caring about other people's opinions, they are often unwilling to accept opinions given to them by others. They always subconsciously feel that others are wrong, and only themselves are right...

Speaking of which, most people will have these two states, either because of inferiority, or constantly trying to prove their success to highlight their sense of existence...

After all, these two types of people are essentially the same type of people. They both feel that there are irreparable shortcomings in themselves. The former thinks that this is fate and is accepted by fate, while the latter is unwilling to admit the existence of these defects, so they always try to prove that there is no such or such problem in themselves...

The short guy always thinks, if he can be taller, stupid people always think, if he can be smarter, and ordinary people always think. If he can be more eye-catching, then he may be able to attract more attention from the opposite sex. Married people always envy the freedom of singles, and those born in ordinary families always envy the luxurious life of the second generation of officials and rich second generations...

However, in fact, while they envy others, are they also the object of envying others?

Just like short men want to grow taller, some people with too tall figures often want to grow shorter. Too shorter height is certainly a problem. But being too tall will also have their own worries, such as the difference in clothes, the bed is always not big enough, for example, it will always hit the door frame, and when making a taxi, it is always easy to hit the head...

By the same token, stupid people always hope that they can become smarter, but in fact, for many smart people, sometimes, they may also hope that they can be confused. Sometimes, the more things they know and the more things they understand, it may not be a lucky thing, but it may become a huge trouble. According to the investigations of many relevant institutions, in society, people with primary school education have the highest happiness index. To a certain extent, ignorance is actually a kind of happiness...

As for people with ordinary appearance, they certainly hope that their appearance can become more attractive, because they can attract the attention of the opposite sex more easily, but on the other hand, for those who look like the country and the people, they often hope that they can look ordinary, because only in this way can they tell whether the other party likes their beauty or themselves...

Even in a sense, beauty is a resource, but when the owner of this resource does not have the wisdom to protect this resource, this resource may sometimes become the source of disaster. There is a saying that beauty is poor, but in fact it is this truth. Most beauty almost finds it difficult to die. Although their beauty will bring many advantages to people in interpersonal communication, it may also become the source of disaster. Almost most beauties from ancient times to the present will not have a very good ending in the end...

And the same married people sometimes envy the freedom of singles, but for singles, do they also envy those married people who have a happy family? After all, it is nothing more than a besieged city. When the people inside live in hot places, they will naturally want to go out to have a breath. For people outside, when the wind blows cold, they will naturally want to feel the warmth in the besieged city...

The reason why children from ordinary families envy those rich second generations is that they actually only see the glamorous life of the rich second generation, but ignore the pressure and responsibilities that the rich second generation have to bear. In fact, many rich second generations have received very strict education since childhood. In order to inherit their family business, many rich second generations often have to work hard to learn a lot of knowledge that ordinary people will not learn even more. In order to inherit the family business, many rich second generations must give up many things they are interested in and devote themselves to the business world...

After all, most people think that their flaws are nothing more than simply asking for them...

Yes, I can’t get it!

If you don’t have what you want and what you want, you will naturally think that no one else doesn’t have it, so you will naturally think that everyone else wants it…

So, subconsciously envy those who have them, and subconsciously envy those who live their life...

However, is the life you yearn for really as beautiful as you imagined?

I'm afraid it's not very good...

Just like in today's society, there are many young people who always envy celebrities. No matter where they go, they can be sought after. They always envy those celebrities who have a lot of fans, who can always live in the best house, enjoy the best life, and enjoy the eyes of others...

It is because they see such a bright and beautiful life of celebrities that they often try to become artists when they are young, try to become famous, and try to make themselves a star. However, among these people, the vast majority of them often only see the bright and beautiful side of the stars, but they rarely really understand how difficult it is to become a star and what price they need to pay...

It is undeniable that among those who want to become celebrities, there are more or less people who really like acting and acting, but I am afraid that most people who go to the art academy will pursue in the real sense. But it is not the so-called performance and acting. What they care about is the benefits and benefits they can bring to themselves after becoming famous, and what they care about is how much fame and fortune they can gain after becoming famous...

For such people, what they pursue is not to become stars, but simply to pursue a life of glory and enjoyment...

And this type of people are always the least firm when pursuing the so-called dreams. They always try to pursue a better life...

In fact, when these people really grow up and mature, they will understand that even the so-called stars are actually just so-called actors in the eyes of some powerful people...

At that time, their enthusiasm for so-called stars was not so strong, and instead they were their yearning for power and fanaticism...

No matter how outstanding the acting skills are, no matter how much recognition and praise they receive, if you offend the real powerful and powerful, you can completely defeat a star in one sentence. Perhaps you only need to make a small mistake that cannot be small, which is enough to make a star who is already in full swing to give up his acting career...

And when these people realize this, they often change their ambitions and start trying to embark on the path of civil servants...

Once they enter the system, they will gradually find that the rights and benefits in their hands of officials at each level are completely different. The higher the officials, the rights and influence are, they will not be the same. After realizing this, this type of person begins to slowly try to find opportunities for promotion...

After all, for many people, what they care more about is how to make themselves stronger and how to pursue the life they want, but they rarely pay attention to what they really need...

Perhaps many celebrities just wanted to prove their acting skills at the beginning, but as time goes by, their luxurious and comfortable life may be eroded by their luxury and comfortable life and eventually fall into depravity. Officials may have the ideal of serving the people at the beginning, but as time goes by, they may be busy with their rights. In the end, they forget their original ideals and start endlessly pursuing higher-level rights...

After all, people always subconsciously pursue what they feel they need...

However, are these things they need? When they really get them, they often find that many of the things they are pursuing are not what they want, but they just think they will want them...

Yes, it's just something you think you'll want!

Many times, people are always blind...

In the perception of many people, power, wealth, and reputation are all very powerful forces. Mastering these three forces is enough to make yourself stronger...

It is because of this that many people always subconsciously pursue these things. Because others are pursuing them, they naturally feel that they need to pursue these things, and they also need to become high-ranking officials, wealthy businessmen, and have a reputation...

It seems that only in this way can we prove that we are successful and realize our ideals...

Just like many people, they always hope that they can become another person, they always hope that they can get rid of many of the so-called problems in themselves...

People who are not good at speaking always hope that they can meet salespeople who are as clever and dull as salesmen who sell insurance. They always hope that they can be like those playboys. They can attract the admiration of the opposite sex wherever they go. They can be familiar with each other and even easily communicate with each other in depth...

However, they rarely think about problems from a different perspective...

That is, if I really become that kind of person, then will I still be myself?

If an honest person who always tells the truth becomes a clever and stingy liar, then has he become better or worse?

After all, people always subconsciously deny themselves, and then measure their gains and losses based on other people's standards...

Some people are honest and not lie. This is actually a virtue and worthy of praise and recognition. However, if they change their personality because they see those scammers can make money, then they are not actually becoming better, but on the contrary, they are just becoming more degenerate...

Many people actually know this principle very well. However, there are very few people who can truly practice the unity of knowledge...

Just like most people, they often feel that a young man full of justice is actually not as good as those smooth and mature middle-aged people. They feel that this change from impulse to smooth is a manifestation of a person's maturity, a progress and improvement in a person's personality...

But in fact, in a sense, this change is not actually a human progress, but on the contrary, it is just a simple helplessness and compromise of reality by people. This change itself is a helpless process. There is no so-called right or wrong, and there is nothing to be happy or sad about...

A person gradually becomes smooth from adhering to justice. This process itself should be said to be a kind of sorrow. On the contrary, if a person can still maintain the righteousness in his heart and implement his justice as time goes by, then such a person should accept praise...

After all, most people in this world often don’t really know what they really need, so they can only correct their lifestyle based on the examples that are perfect in their eyes...

However, are their so-called role models really happy?

I'm afraid the answer may not be correct!

Just like from the perspective of officials, the higher the officials, the greater their power, and the more people and things they can influence. However, few people realize that the higher the officials, the more daily affairs they need to deal with, and the more daily affairs they handle, the more they will consume their time and energy. Any little wrong decision may completely end their career path, and even be sent to jail for this...

It is true that their rights are very huge, but in the same way, the efforts and energy they need to make to maintain their rights are not something that ordinary people can imagine...

The vast majority of people can see only the most glorious side of others, but the efforts of others in secret are not so easy to see clearly...

In fact, the reason why many people have plastic surgery is essentially because they always feel disconfidant about their appearance, and always feel that if they have a nose, eyes, and chin like a star, they may look much more beautiful...

However, they rarely think about it. The reason why celebrities look charming is not largely because of their appearance, but because of their fame. The higher the reputation, the more they are, they will often have extra points in their appearance. No matter how similar an ordinary person looks to a star, they are just an ordinary person. At most, they only participate in imitation shows and other programs. They will never become the second star...

The reason why celebrities are stars is because of their fame!

It is precisely because of the fame of celebrities that their appearance and their names become unique, not because their names or appearances are so prominent...

Many people think that they can become celebrities by plastic surgery, and then they can become celebrities by themselves. In fact, they make the mistake of putting the cart before the horse...

You are yourself, you don’t need to be a second person!

You are yourself, you are the only one!

Many people actually know this principle. But in fact, there are very few people who can actually implement this idea...

Many people always look for and see if anyone has done the same thing before. If someone has done it, they will try their best to imitate the practices of their predecessors instead of trying to solve the problem with their own methods. Even if they are equally confident in their own methods, when facing the actual situation, they are often more willing to choose to stick to the rules...

This is actually very obvious in the process of creating characters in the Fantasy World...

Among the players in the fantasy world, most players will make some changes to their appearance and figure to a certain extent in the process of pinching people. These changes are basically some aesthetic changes...

Basically, every change itself is based on the aesthetic view of ordinary people and beautify their own role...

In other words, when creating game characters, most players will always subconsciously perfect themselves, and will always subconsciously present the most perfect self in their minds...

This so-called perfection is actually not based on their own cognition, but on the cognition of others...

To give a simple example, many people's lives have always been meeting the needs of others. For example, when a person is in high school, he often embarks on this path. Every time during the holidays, elders often ask about the grades of a high school student. If he has good grades, he will praise him a few words, and encourage him a few words. When taking the college entrance examination in high school, if he can be admitted to a prestigious university, he will always be able to live to the attention and recognition of his elders. As for ordinary universities, the recognition is lower. As for parents of children, if the child gets into a good school, then parents can raise their heads in front of relatives and friends, and if he doesn't get well, then parents will lose face in front of relatives and friends...

The reason why many children study hard is essentially mainly for the sake of their parents' face. When they finish college and need to find a job after graduating from college, many children work hard to satisfy their parents' expectations and often to satisfy their parents' vanity and to prevent their relatives and elders from talking nonsense about each other, college graduates often have to choose relatively high-end jobs...

Further, when a person's work is stable, the subsequent marriage problems will be basically the same. To a large extent, it is impossible to find a partner that is self-reliant. Generally speaking, if a person wants to save face, the partner he is looking for will definitely not be too ugly. In addition, his status must also be relatively equal. Only in this way can he often meet the expectations of his parents and relatives for himself, and he will not look embarrassed in front of his friends...

Many people, after all, are nothing more than a path that they have been walking in order not to be ashamed of shame...

Such a phenomenon is actually very, very common and very representative in modern society...

Most people are not actually living for themselves. Most of the time, they are just living under the eyes of others. In order to enjoy the envious and jealous eyes of others, they often work hard, work hard to realize their life value, and work hard to find an excellent partner...

Many times, they don’t know what they need, they just care about what kind of person other people want to be, so they will work hard to do this and try to do it well...

Of course, such a life cannot be said to be wrong. After all, in this world, studying, working hard for your parents to have face is what your children should do...

However, compared to the lifestyle of giving up oneself, real understanding of oneself is what everyone should do...

Everyone lives in this world, has their own unique lifestyle, their own unique appearance, their own unique figure, their own unique way of thinking, and their own unique name...

Everyone is unique in themselves, and there is no need to imitate anyone or envy anyone. As long as you are good at yourself, it is actually enough! (To be continued...)
Chapter completed!