1453 [1452] Selfish talk 4000
Chapter 1453 [1452] Selfish, Talk (4000)
Because Ding Wei didn't go out, it was not easy for Ding Zhenlong to go out, so they all went home on the National Day holiday.
After all, Zhao Qingqing and Ding Cailian have jobs, so they are not embarrassed to leave their employer. Ding Cailian also wanted to take the holiday to review, so Zhao Qingqing took the three old men to the county town for a leisurely trip.
"Mom, aren't you angry if my sister does this?" It's okay once or twice, but he just let go of it every day. Ding Wei feels a little uncomfortable to be honest.
She admitted that she was stingy, and also admitted that she was a little impatient with Ding Cailian taking advantage of their family's kindness again and again.
Even she felt that Grandma Wang had been neglected. If it weren't for her mother, she would have guessed that Grandma Wang's patience would have reached its limit.
This sister who only knows how to learn, she feels that she is not as good as the little lilac in terms of her behavior in addition to studying.
Dingxiang’s classmate invited her to have delicious food. The next day she turned her head and took her own snacks (made by Ding Wei) to the school to share, and said proudly.
"My sister made it, only my sister, Ding Wei, do you know?"
Ding Wei is a famous celebrity in Experimental Primary School. Who doesn’t know her? She presided over the weekly flag-raising ceremony, including the health disciplines of each class, and she made a summary speech. At the end, it is the time for the director and principal.
So Dingxiangte is proud to have such an excellent sister. Of course, she is also very good. Therefore, when she shows off, no one will be jealous of her. Instead, she thinks she is a little cute. The main reason is that she has a cheerful personality, is more helpful than Ding Wei, and has accumulated a lot of connections.
Because she likes to eat, her classmates who have delicious food at home can't stand her cuteness and bring it to her for sharing. As the saying goes, she basically took out all the snacks Ding Wei gave her to share, and Ding Wei didn't care about her. This is her freedom. After all, she had agreed to make it for her, so she had a reason to dominate.
Ding Wei doesn't like to eat, especially sweets. She finishes three normal meals a day.
She doesn't drink soda or eat popsicles. No matter how hot she is in summer, she won't care about those cold things.
On the other hand, as long as you have some change, you can go and see it, and basically spend it on eating.
When my mother couldn't help but say it, Ding Wei stopped: "Mom, it's a blessing to eat. It's better for her to eat than to buy a mess of fun, right? Besides, if you don't let her eat now, then you won't let her eat. When she goes to junior high school, you can't control it, so there is no need to deliberately restrict it. When she gets annoyed, she won't eat it myself."
"You believe this? She is tired of eating. Look at what she has been annoyed with? Even when people eat steamed buns, they enjoy themselves. I have never seen her like this before. But I know that I can eat them. I asked me to fry steamed buns for her two days ago. I don't know where to learn it. I also know that I soak the steamed buns in water, wrap it in egg liquid, and then fry it in the pan. This way, it doesn't take oil, and it's crispy on the outside and tender on the inside. Why do you think she can eat it so well!"
Ding Wei couldn't help but stick out her tongue: "You can't blame her for this. This is what I did for her. She's addicted to eating it!"
Zhao Qingqing pointed Ding Wei's forehead and said, "You, you are such a spendthrift. You know that if you make our oil, it's not enough for you two to put it like this. Just spoil her. And your fourth brother is the same. I gave him money to buy meat buns, but he bought all the money he saved. I came back to buy soda for you two. You guys one by one, really think I don't know, right?"
"Mom, this proves that my brother loves us. Look at my dad, don't you think of you in everything? Last time I saw him secretly stuffing a chicken leg for you to eat!"
As he said that, he pouted: "Don't envy my brother for being kind to us. Look, don't I pretend that my dad was nice to you, don't I see it?"
Zhao Qingqing blushed awkwardly: "That's because he went out to eat with someone else. He didn't want to eat it himself, so he just had one, so, so,"
"Oh my mom, isn't it just a chicken leg? I'm not jealous of you eating it and I didn't eat it. Are we that person? I just said, my elder brother, second brother, third brother are not at home, fourth brother loves us, I love my sister, dad loves you, aren't these all manifestations of our family taking care of each other? We don't have to say who spoils whoever."
"Yes, yes, you're right, mom is wrong, mom will no longer care about how you get along with each other."
He was caught by his daughter and was standing upright. Zhao Qingqing felt that his old face had no place to put it, but Ding Wei felt it.
"I think Dad loves you so much. This is a manifestation of love. Why are you embarrassed to do? After all, you are the one who can accompany him until old age. We children will sooner or later. Dad loves us better than his wife. Of course, this does not mean that we don't love you. I don't care about you in the future, I mean,"
"Okay, my treasure, can I still not understand what you mean? OK, just stick to your point of view. Mom is old, but I can't keep up with the ideas of your young people. You have been right since childhood. Just do whatever you want, just don't give it to her. If you pass, it's okay. It's not as good as a lady, but you're still acting like a lady. I'm afraid you'll spoil her. I won't be too lazy to spoil her. Then I won't listen to you. It depends on what you do. Anyway, she will listen to you now. I'm a mother in front of her."
In fact, Zhao Qingqing wanted to say that her little daughter was a bad guy, but she also thought it was not good. Who is Ding Wei? She could tell at a glance that her mother wanted to say something but stopped. She pursed her lips and laughed: "Okay, mom, I understand, don't worry, you little girl is so stingy!"
I was just smart, taking the notes of the top student she compiled for her, asking for favors everywhere, her grades were good, or she was the one who was in early reading. If anyone had any difficulties, she would help her. Her classmates and teachers liked her. They were not arrogant or impatient, and the favors they asked for were: "Do you have any different delicious food in your family?"
As a result, when the classmates brought it to her for food, she judged the classmate's family situation through these so-called "delicious".
Because the education we have received since childhood is that the things we give to others must be the best thing in the family, especially when the lilac is opened, the food our classmates brought must be grateful to her gifts from the bottom of their hearts. At least, she thinks so.
So when some students took out a black and hard-to-eat vegetable nest as a thank-you gift and asked her if it was delicious, for a moment, she hoped that the classmate was joking and playing pranks with her, but it wasn't. This was really the best gift she had brought out at home.
"It's delicious, it's really delicious. Tomorrow, I'll let my mom make this one for you to try."
The polite lilac bit the bullet and swallowed the hard and bitter wild vegetable nest, and when she got home, she complained to her own sister.
"Sister, I didn't believe it at first, and asked my classmates, and then I realized that she was so pitiful. My father died in an accident. My mother had to serve her grandparents. There were more than a dozen people in the family. Grandma did not let her go to school. It was her brother who worked as a temporary worker to earn her tuition. She was good at studying. She didn't like to talk. My impression of her was always in the impression of "not talking" and "not participating in group activities". I didn't expect that she lived so miserable. Every day when she came home from school, she had to work. She often stuffed paper boxes until midnight. The steamed buns were so old that I had never eaten before. The most unpalatable vegetable nest, but it was the best food she could take. Sister, how should we pay the gifts for it!"
"Then let our mother make a separate wild vegetable nest for you, and then you share it with her. Because the varieties of wild vegetables are different, the taste is different. The wild vegetables you eat are bitter, probably because the wild vegetables are too mixed, so if you give her not bitter, just say what wild vegetables it is, and there is no need to explain too much. You don't have to give her school supplies or something, which is also a burden for her."
Ding Wei is the tutor on Dingxiang's life journey. Although she is nominally a sister, she is more of her guide.
Because their parents rarely communicate with her, and Ding Wei slept with her sister every day, she communicated more, which replaced her parents' place in her heart.
Dingxiang often tells her what happened in school, and Ding Wei is a good listener. Then, based on these interesting things, she analyzes these subtle ways of getting along with her classmates.
At present, even if the conditions of their family are not the best, they should be considered quite good. Therefore, when dealing with people, you must consider the situation of other people, rather than measuring everything based on your own standards.
It is precisely because of Ding Wei's guidance that Ding Wei's shadow is everywhere.
Then she naturally looked down on Ding Cailian's way of dealing with people, because her second aunt and uncle had never taught her, so she naturally became slower in reaction. Even if she remembered it later, it might not be what she thought about, but what Grandma Wang was instructed.
The more Ding Wei feels that she is not as pleasing to the past, the more she can prove Ding Cailian’s selfishness, because now she really only has herself in her eyes.
Sometimes Jianxin Jiancheng missed her and wanted to come to the city to find her. Ding Cailian didn't even let the door in, so she just said a few words to them outside, and wanted to send them away.
Not to mention washing clothes and sewing clothes, it’s really a bit too much to keep a meal. It’s also a bit too much to say that I don’t want to cause trouble for Grandma Wang.
This is not because I am afraid of causing trouble to Grandma Wang, but because I am obviously worried about causing trouble to myself and spending money.
In the end, Zhao Qingqing couldn't stand it and said Ding Cailian, and then she stayed to have a meal at the Wang family. Of course, the food and food money need to be deducted from her salary. Zhao Qingqing was very experienced in this regard, and the abacus was clattering and he was very conscious.
Now Zhao Qingqing has to take her old man to the hospital for acupuncture and massage at least twice a week. Even though Zhao Qingqing has learned almost everything, she still feels unsafe, so she plans to learn until next year and get started by herself, so as not to make any mistakes.
After Grandma Zheng's legs fell last time, her legs and feet were not so straightforward. Every time it rains, her legs and feet were as rheumatoid as they were, which was extremely uncomfortable.
So the older the two old men are, the more troublesome they are to take care of. They are so busy that they can’t stop almost every day. But at this time, Ding Cailian is asking this one and that one again. Who else should Ding Wei be annoyed with her?
Since everything is thrown to Zhao Qingqing, then they can get the salary?
You get your salary and let your aunt do your job. What kind of heart do you want? Are you a person like this? What by the way? That's an individual, not a cabbage!
But as an elder, Zhao Qingqing didn't have much to say, and she didn't waste the time she saved and spent all her studies, which made her unable to say anything.
But Ding Wei didn't want to be with her, otherwise she would have to be even more excessive next time.
So she called Ding Cailian outside alone, and Cailian looked at her with curiosity and asked.
"What's wrong? Is there anything I can't say at home?"
Ding Wei smiled and said, "Isn't it inconvenient to say it at home? I just think that sister, you are a little overly concerned about your study. You seem to be very worried about other things except for your study?"
The smile on Ding Cailian's face froze instantly as Ding Wei said: "For example?"
"For example, when you are with Grandma Wang, you should know that you are a nanny first, and then yourself. You should put your work first, instead of taking other people's tolerance for granted, and then pushing Grandma Wang out and letting my mother take care of it. I didn't say you pushed it to my mother, I think this should be your own job. You can do it every day or two, and it will be like this every day. What would Grandma Wang, who pays you, think?"
Ding Cailian felt that she couldn't stand her face: "Vivi, is this what the aunt meant? Actually, I didn't ask the aunt to do anything, I just said,"
"Sister, this is what I told you. Don't mention my mother, and you don't need to kidnap her morally. It's not natural for her to help you. What I told you is this truth. After all, you are here to earn a salary, not to study. You have to tell the difference between the primary and secondary. You have to know who the owner of this family is. If you take the salary and push others to take care of others, think about it yourself and see if you can live a good life in your heart?"
"Also, you still have three younger brothers to support you. You are not the only one. Now it's my brother Jianjian's salary that maintains the tuition and living expenses of Jianxin and Jiancheng, so you don't have to worry about the money, but you have to make some effort. Do you see if you are still a reliable elder sister now? If you don't care about your vegetable field, let my parents help you take care of it, so that our third uncle and third aunt will worry about it. When you harvest, you run very quickly. Why can't you find me when fertilizing and watering?"
"It's fine if you don't care about it. Zhou Tian, you don't care about them. You haven't even washed, repaired, or made shoes for them. You're the eldest sister. You don't care about these. The boys are dirty every day. The third aunt also has to take care of their own children. It's fine if you keep it. Zhou Tian, you also throw it to her? Do you think it's appropriate?"
When Ding Cailian heard this, she did not show a guilty look. Instead, she looked at Ding Wei with a plain face and asked.
"Is this what you mean, or what your uncle or aunt or third uncle or third aunt?"
Chapter completed!