Chapter 1440 [1439] Qingming dispute 3000
Finally, Ding Zhenlong led the three brothers to the land he planted. He was not stupid, so he made it himself and let them watch it. This time, he asked a few naughty children to do it, and he directed it by himself, drinking tea while nagging that they would not have food or drink in the future. If he was still so lazy, he would not pay a penny.
When his three children were intimidated by him, no one dared to be lazy and turned the ground and worked hard.
"That's right. Young man, with so much effort, can't you wait for the pie to fall from the sky without farming? Do this from now on. If you have nothing to do at home, just bring some water to water it. Don't work hard to plant it. In the end, it's a drought. You still can't even eat a single hair."
If your nephew doesn’t care about it, who will care about it?
The third family has poor conditions and cannot take care of their children, so he is embarrassed to bother him again.
All of his children are obedient. To be honest, I have not been worried about these years. Sometimes he is annoyed, so how can he not be annoyed? But when he thinks that his younger brother is so young, he hates that woman so much that he grits his teeth. The more he hates, the more he is, the more unwilling he will be to fall into the child like this. So even if he doesn't want to care, he has to care.
How is it possible to expect your wife and children to take care of them?
The children are already independent enough, and their daughter-in-law has endless work every day, so he is just a little free in the whole family, so he has already taken care of these jobs in the field. Except for the planting that requires discussion with his wife, they all do everything themselves.
After spring, the days are getting longer and longer. Ding Zhenlong simply rides his bike back to his hometown every day, mainly to facilitate the care of those nephews and the vegetables in the field. Planting vegetables is different from farming, and fertilizing, watering and weeding are more frequent.
Moreover, in the countryside, the previous feelings of neighbors are not comparable to those in the city. They are always when they are not in the face of the old age. In previous years, they will give each other gifts. This year, they were special. Last year, they suffered a hardship and no one cares about each other. Ding Zhenlong went home to work at dawn. It was dark not long before he worked, so he would do something when he went home.
The new home has everything. When I moved into the city, I even brought the tools to hoe the ground, so their home lost nothing.
Now, not only did I bring it back, but I also added a few handy tools. I used to work in the field. The production team did not have enough agricultural tools, so I had to take them to my own house. These agricultural tools were damaged more seriously. If the family had divided the land into several acres of land, the tool would definitely not work. Only the land was divided into these places, and it was nothing.
It rained on the eve of Qingming Festival. One Saturday morning, Ding Wei asked for leave and followed her parents home to worship her grandparents and grandpa Qian.
The peach blossoms were almost overwhelmed. When Ding Wei returned home, she remembered that the biggest secret was buried under the peach tree.
When Ding’s father and mother saw her standing under the peach tree in a daze, she knew what she was thinking: “Why, do you want to dig it out?”
Ding Wei shook her head, "We have no place to put it out, just bury it like this, it's safe, let alone, after experiencing this flood, I don't know how it is!"
Zhao Qingqing nodded and agreed: "Indeed, I remember that your Grandpa Qian told you that it was filled with a wooden box? Then I guess the box is probably going to be broken. As for the things inside, don't you really plan to dig it?"
"We have nothing now, why do we dig it out? It's not too late to come and solve this mystery when I'm on a whim."
During the morning worship, I bought a lot of snacks. The sacrifices brought by my two aunts were given to the children of the second bedroom. Neither of them said anything about this. Who made the second bedroom short of clothing and food now?
Although my eldest and second aunts rarely get involved in their parents' affairs, they saw everything Ding Zhenlong did, so they came here to express their gratitude to Zhao Qingqing.
The confidence in Zhao Qingqing's eyebrows was something that the two sisters had never seen before. They always felt that she had become different now.
"What are the eldest and second sisters saying? You're polite to me. Isn't this supposed to be? Anyway, they can go to school, so they really don't have the ability, so they go home to farm. Now there are only two ways out,"
This is a fact. Even if her sister-in-law married to the county town, her son was not admitted to the technical secondary school because of her poor study, and because of her poor physical fitness, she was directly criticized during the military review stage. Now she is working as a temporary worker in the county town food factory!
They still have urban household registrations, but they don’t have urban household registrations, so they really have to go back to the village to farm. Besides, Zhao Qingqing didn’t say that they would not support their studies. If they were not good enough and could not get into school, then no one could do anything about it.
The sisters are actually not very concerned about the future of their second brother's children. What they are more curious about is what Zhao Qingqing is doing now.
Why does temperament change so much?
And what have the eldest brother and his wife done in the past few years? They built a house and bought a dowry for Ding Caisang?
Another point is that Ding Caisang married himself without filial piety for his father for three years.
Although it is a new society now, some old regulations also need to be followed. Moreover, when we get married, so many relatives don’t inform us, so my sister-in-law will inevitably have some opinions. Now that the old things are mentioned again, Ding Zhenlong and his wife are also wronged.
"Sister, what we told Caisang about this is because she is unwilling to be filial. She doesn't want the job she finally got, and she will have to become a regular in three years. She is afraid that something will happen in three years, so that Qiao Zhi, who was finally caught, will be snatched away by others. This is why she did not inform too many relatives to know about her marriage. She is now adult and we are not biological parents, so how can we control her?"
"What, his partner found a job for her and had to get married as a condition? If he didn't get married, he would not be promoted to a regular person?"
Mom nodded: "You are right. The Qiao family clearly told us that if you don't get married, you won't become a regular person. A good job doesn't wait for anyone. There are so many people in connection with you, so how could you take it? Caisang is not in a hurry, so, alas, we really advised you, it's useless!"
"Aren't she afraid of being stabbed by someone when she returns to the village?"
Now, there is no need for Zhao Qingqing to reply, Ding Wei interrupted directly from the side: "Auntie, if she is afraid of these things, she will not make her reputation so bad!"
"My sister Caisang also said that she is a married daughter, and she will not go back to the village often in the future, so she told them to go. Anyway, she has no father or mother now, even if she scolds her, she can't hear it."
When the aunt heard this, she turned her head in anger and pushed Ding Zhenlong: "She said this, you really let her do this? How did you be your eldest son?"
"Sister, Caisang's words are not nice, but you have to think deeply about it. Can you find a good job for her for three years of mourning? Or can you let these children have enough food and clothing? No matter whether she is educated or not, she married herself and found a suitable job. After a year, she became a regular. Can you do such a good opportunity for her or can I do it?"
"We can't just look at the immediate interests. You have to make a long-term plan. She chose this path herself. If she doesn't live well in the future, she will swallow it herself. There are five siblings in total. Caisang is already married, Cailian is still planning to continue taking the exam. She has another temporary job, which has saved a lot of worries for this family. What does it matter how many years or later a boy?"
After hearing what my father said, my aunt turned her head to look at my second aunt. The second aunt never spoke. Now she looked at her and could only sigh.
"I think what my eldest brother said is right. No one in our family can find a job, so what qualifications do we have to delay others? Money is always for outsiders. You expect that people don't treat them well when they are there, and it doesn't mean that they will show them when they die. Besides, didn't the eldest brother tell the others? This is a marriage that the second brother had already decided before his death. It's because the second brother was in a hurry to leave, so there was no big deal. Many relatives didn't invite him. Isn't that a good thing to do? Oh, it's almost done. I'm gone. What's the point of talking about those?"
Now, my aunt stopped talking.
When asked about Sister Cailian and her mother's work, she didn't hide it. The main reason is that the policies are getting looser every year, and there is nothing to say.
After hearing this, my eldest and second aunts were shocked, especially Ding Cailian: "Can she still provide her with her studies? Where can I find such a good employer?"
My mother was also full of emotion: "It's not that. It's not that right, and it lives opposite my employer, so I usually help her to help her to free up more time to study. This child is really working hard to study. What if she can get into a technical secondary school, if she really can make her debut, this family won't make us so tired, so we must definitely support it."
My eldest and second aunt did not ask them what their salary was. After knowing where they were now working, they got up and left.
As soon as someone left, dad looked at his mother: "My elder sister and the others,"
"Okay, you don't need to explain. How can I not know them? That is, I'll just ask a few more questions when I come back this time. If I don't care about our family's affairs on weekdays, can I still manage it in the future? Besides, we have already made up our words for picking Sang. As for whether they believe it or not, we have no right to interfere. Now we just need to live our own life well. As for your brother's family, we will only help within our ability. If they do whatever they want, they can do whatever they want, anyway, you can't control it."
What my mother said here was that she couldn't control it because her father had an argument with Ding Jian because of farming, and the boy slammed the door and left.
I have worked for a few days, and I only have that day in a week. People say that my palms are bubbled and I don’t want to do it. OK, if you don’t work, can you cook?
I just said, I don’t know how to do it, whoever I like to do it, I will eat ready-made food anyway. If you don’t give it to me, I will go outside and say you abuse me!
Chapter completed!