1436 【1435】Disciplinary idea 4000
But young masters can pretend to be a storefront. After all, except for the soldiers, who knows how much allowance they give?
Isn’t these good days now “supported” by brothers’ allowances?
Ding Wei felt that this was more harmonious, and she was also relieved of being exposed to the sun.
In fact, I was in the volunteer stage for the first two years before I joined the army, and the allowances were the same, but when I reached the conscript stage, the gap between people became prominent.
Who knows how my brother performed in the army? No wonder my mother praised her brother very proudly. In fact, doing so naturally can hide the mother and daughter, so that they can do whatever they want in this era.
After entering the seventies and six years, I obviously feel different, but in fact I can’t tell the details, but I feel that people’s mental outlook is better.
The shadow of the flood six months ago has gradually faded away, and replaced by everyone's hard work and life that is more courageous.
The working class has the suffering of workers, the peasants have the suffering of farmers, and naturally the suffering of students.
When Ding Wei was not working at night, she went with Ding Xiang to deliver midnight snacks to her brothers. She felt sorry for their poor accommodation conditions, and her parents also tried their best to supplement their nutrition. Whenever there were eggs sold in the black market, they would buy them back. Not to mention the few pounds or pounds, it would be impossible to buy five, six, seven or eight. After all, eggs in the black market are always calculated based on individual eggs.
When it is expensive, it is 50 cents per person, and when it is cheap, it is one or two cents per person. In winter, it is the peak period for egg laying, so it is naturally expensive. However, no matter how expensive it is, it is cheaper than meat, so parents are willing to work hard on it.
Because they think that money spent on food is worth more than anything else.
When my mother was not at home, Ding Wei felt like an old mother and had to worry about everything. Now she didn't need it anymore. They live close to each other, and her mother was able to take care of her family after finishing her job as a nanny, so her father sighed more than once.
"If we had known this, we should have moved to the county town as soon as possible."
My mother glanced at him: "Did you have this condition at that time? I think it is because of Vivi that our family has such a day. Vivi is the lucky star of our family. So if you have such a capable daughter, just have fun secretly if you have nothing to do!"
My mother is now fully qualified for the nursing work, taking care of the living and daily life of the two elderly people, carrying them on the hospital, riding a tricycle, taking them for a walk, doing things meticulously, and she has learned massage, massage, medicine, moxibustion, acupuncture, and of course, these are repeated, and are specific methods for the two elders under the guidance of a doctor. They are definitely not suitable for others, and she dare not do anything randomly on others.
With the careful care of his mother, Grandpa Zheng and Grandma Zheng are in a mental state getting better and better. Not only do their children pay money, they also mail back clothes that they don’t wear from time to time, food, dry goods, seafood, etc. bought by the elderly locally. They say they are filial, but they don’t take care of themselves, they say they are unfilial, and they think about the elderly in everything, so they can only say that they are very wise to ask their mother to take care of the elderly.
Now the two old men can still move and take care of themselves. They really can't take care of themselves. The fifty dollars are probably not enough.
My mother was always alert, fearing that her negligence would cause harm to the elderly, so she followed her wherever she went. They went to bed early at night. After going to bed, my mother dared to go around the rental house and check them out. She had to go back quickly before 10 o'clock, for fear that they would fall again after getting up at night.
When the elderly get older, their vision will also be affected, so the lanterns in the bathroom at home will be on.
Taking care of the elderly is a very difficult thing. Don’t worry about food, clothing, housing and transportation? Wherever you are, there are details.
It becomes sweeter and weaker, and it becomes harder. Every morning and afternoon, it is a meal that takes less and more meals to remind them to drink water every day, take a bath and change clothes. This is all a matter.
When I was in the provincial capital, every time the old man took a bath, he would come to help. Now, the old lady was unable to do anything. She was the father who rushed over to take a bath. She brought it to the bathhouse in autumn, winter and spring, and took it to the bathroom in the summer. In the future, people are not short of money, so they have their strength to do it.
Take a bath in the county town and go to the bathhouse for one cent at a time. There are no limits on time. There are many people at night and weekends, so my mother takes the old lady to take a shower during the day.
Sometimes my cousin doesn’t care about it, and my mother will take Grandma Wang to wash with her.
Dad took the old man to the men's bathhouse to take a bath at night, and there were relatively fewer people there than those in the women's bathhouse.
On weekends, these children go to take a bath in groups, basically taking a shower every week, and sometimes once every two weeks.
The winter vacation was on the 23rd day of the twelfth lunar month before the New Year. In this era, there was no activity and I didn’t know how to go out for a trip. I just kept visiting relatives and helped my parents with my parents to work. Especially the two brothers, after leaving the relatives, they went home with their father to watch the slack farmer and helped build a house for his family. They could help him and would help him.
It is all for check-in as soon as possible, and it will not be so clear at this time. Of course, it is also for the sake of the tree.
Because the supplies are limited this year, the year is very sloppy. After the third year of junior high school, we organized young and middle-aged rural people to continue building houses.
Fortunately, the winter after the flood was not particularly cold, and all kinds of building materials could be used normally. If it was like the Northeast region, it would be a few dozen degrees below zero.
Of course, they will also depend on the situation. For example, after the sixth day of the lunar month, the temperature dropped sharply by minus 7 or 8 degrees Celsius, and the work was shut down during that period.
I could only eat and drink when I stayed at home. All the snacks that Ding Zhenlong’s family had reserved before the New Year were finished before the third year of junior high school.
In terms of utilitarianism, even Dingxiang has to bow down to the three boys in the second uncle's family.
No one wants to give snacks, fruits, dried fruits, candies, and they want to stick their heads on the plate when they eat. They not only eat quickly, but also grab them. Anyway, Ding Wei can't eat when she sees them eating. As long as her father doesn't ask for it, she and Dingxiang will not go there.
Every time Ding Cailian sees how they eat, she will strictly criticize them. It can be said that it has no deterrent effect at all. What should we do in the future?
It’s a blessing that the family eats all the miscellaneous grains. Who dares to eat fine grains? At the end of the rice, not only do you eat a lot, but you also eat fast. I really starve to death. This is not me, this is the uncle!
In terms of winks, the weakest fear in the family is the three boys in the second house. Ding Cailian can see the problem at a glance, but they themselves cannot see these problems and never face them.
Ding Cailian could only turn around and apologize to them, but what's the use of this? They are not convenient for education, and Ding Cailian couldn't control it. They could only let them experience social thugs in the future and understand the true feeling of living under someone else's roof.
If this is the case, it may be a good time to help them after a few years of reform and opening up.
After the fifteenth day of the first lunar month, all the children at home returned to school. Ding Jian continued to study in the third grade of junior high school in No. 2 Middle School. The other two children returned to the village to study in the village elementary school. Ding Cailian gave her third uncle and aunt some money and food, and let her two younger brothers have dinner at their house.
Wang Yuhuan has already experienced what they eat, but the old man has been in charge of it for so long, and he doesn't care about anything at home, and it doesn't matter. Besides, the people who pick lotus are both money and food, so she doesn't care about it?
I can only grit my teeth and endure it.
Ding Wei was very dissatisfied with Ding Cailian's making money for her third uncle and aunt, because the three of them didn't give a penny when they were at his house, so why did they pay when they arrived at the third uncle's house? So this person really looked at the food and saw that your family had money, so he took it for granted.
With reliance, you will become more and more unscrupulous. This is not a good start. When Ding Wei finds this problem, she immediately communicates with her parents.
"I don't care about that amount of money. I just said that she did something wrong. Even if she said a word here, she didn't say a word. She didn't know how much her brother ate? She was too arrogant to Xiangxiang and she was still three. The amount of food in our family is not enough for a month. They made it like this! Dad, it's not a big deal to continue like this. You can't just ignore them just because they are afraid that they will talk about us. The principles of being a human being and doing things. If your parents don't teach you, do you have to wait until they enter society and deal with others in the future and let others teach you? Will others tolerate them like our family?"
"In the past, two families didn't live together or eat together. They had these minor problems and had little to do with us. But now, they are with us. You don't like each day or multiple days. Can you hold it in? Anyway, I can't stand it anymore. When I see them eating, I get angry and want to slap the table and teach them how to behave. I don't think about others at all. I'm extremely selfish. If we don't discipline them in time, they will still be able to do so in the future? Even if we grow up, we may not remember how good our family is to them. Maybe we will rely on you and ask you to solve their food and clothing problems, solve their employment problems, and solve their wife problems. If you don't care, just stay with you. I will see what you do!"
Ding Wei said a lot of words, which scared her father and mother so much that she couldn't say a word for a long time.
Because they also realized that the problem that their daughter mentioned was very serious, so serious that they could not ignore it.
"Our family affairs are also a hot spot. If anyone says it, you can't stop it. We are jealous. In the future, when you go back to the village, someone will say behind our backs. Everything else is fine, but I'm afraid that my mother's work will be raised to the capital issue, which will be troublesome. Fortunately, Ding Cailian is also doing this. If a person is not good, his sister's work will have to be finished. So this is also a link that temporarily restrains them. But I think you have to pay attention to the issue of their character, or go back to the village leader to discuss it in advance, so they can know the virtues of these children in the future. There will be a process."
I have to say that Ding Wei was considerate very well, and the old father couldn't help but look at her with emotion.
"My daughter is still very good. This is too thoughtful. You are right. My father was not considerate before, so he will definitely be strictly disciplined in the future."
Ding Wei twitched: "I'm afraid that your strict discipline will have a counterproductive effect. They are now in a rebellious situation. You didn't see Sister Cailian talking to them, and you didn't raise your head. This situation means that life is too good and you don't need exercise, but it's impossible to throw them into the army to exercise. Otherwise, Dad, please ask someone to ask me, can you send me to the coal mine to exercise? I heard that the salary there is still high!"
"Coal mine? Do you think the coal mine in the next county town?"
Ding Wei nodded, "We don't have one in the county town, and there is one next door. It's not very far. You can get there in one or two hours by car. But it's not now. When he graduates from high school, you can ask someone to inquire in the past six months. The place is super tiring and can train people the best, but you have to find a regular coal mine. I dare not find that kind of black coal mine. I will also ask my colleagues about this to see if they know anyone. Let my brother go there to work as a temporary worker or something, temper his will, and let him clearly realize that in the future, he will be the eldest son of the family and have to take on the responsibility of taking care of his younger brother, instead of relying on us for everything!"
Dad couldn't help looking at her: "You said how your head grows? How do you know so much? Tell me, tell me what you think, make it clear, and let me know how to deal with them next."
"Simple, find a reliable person, give some money, take special care of my brother, let him work for ten hours, or twelve hours a day, so that he only wants to make money, not anything else, and he will suppress the money at that time, only give living expenses, and leave the rest to his sister for half a year to make him realize how difficult it is to make money. Let him come back during the Chinese New Year, and see if he has made any progress. If he has not made any progress, he will send it to him after the Chinese New Year, and he will have to go if he doesn't go. However, this is not absolute, so people must always keep an eye on his every move and don't have a counterproductive effect."
According to Ding Wei's theory, "Only when people know how difficult it is to make money, they will consider the feelings of others. If they cannot feel the pain, they will not think too much, and they are not even lazy to even ask questions. Besides, boys will suffer more hardships, as long as you don't feel sorry or soft-hearted at that time, I think this matter may turn into a good thing. After all, he is still a junior high school graduate. It is definitely easy to find temporary workers. If formal workers are able to buy them with money, don't go. Although coal miners have 50 or 60 kilograms of grain subsidies per month, they are too dangerous, especially working underground, which is not good for their health. We just send him to exercise, not to let him die."
"Yes, yes, yes, I want to say this too. My daughter is very considerate."
After hearing this, Zhao Qingqing echoed repeatedly, and then discussed with Ding Zhenlong. Ding Wei, who had made up her mind, sighed.
Chapter completed!