Chapter 1431 [1430] Qiao Zhi's Engagement 4100
Chapter 1431 [1430] Qiao Zhi, Engagement (4100)
Most importantly, she also found a temporary worker with a dormitory, which was amazing.
This is simply impossible at the moment. The chances of temporary workers being assigned to the dormitory are too low unless it is related.
Wait, it’s up to you, did Ding Caisang really find a hard relationship for himself for this job?
Cailian was so anxious that Caisang had already started packing up her things and planned to move to the dormitory. She grabbed her wrist.
"No, you have to explain to me what path you are going? How can you find this job and have a dormitory to share? Let me tell you, don't do stupid things and betray yourself. For such a job, it's not worth it. Caisang, have you listened to me?"
Ding Caisang was so annoyed that she turned her face and wanted to say something to her sister, but she saw the unconcealed concern in Ding Cailian's eyes. Her eyes flashed slightly and she quickly moved away.
But compared to just now, the attitude has improved a lot: "Okay, sister, don't worry about me. I won't betray myself. But I met someone who likes me. His family is in good condition and has a leg disabled. If you want to get along with me, I said I was going back to the village soon and didn't find a suitable job. Then he asked him to arrange this job for me."
"You run out every day, how do you know this person? How is his character? Is it reliable or not? If you don't agree to get along with someone, how could someone help you find a job? Caisang, you won't,"
Ding Caisang threw the clothes in his hand onto the bed, and sat there in anger, his eyes began to turn red and his voice choked.
"Sister, what other person do you think I can find a suitable partner when something happened to our family? The person I like must not look down on me. This person is not born with a disability, but an accident in the middle, which leads to a limp walking. He used to be a driver of the Grain Bureau, but now he is an accountant of the Grain Bureau, a formal worker. He is already twenty-six, three brothers and the eldest in the family. The marriage has never been settled. That night I ran out and met a gangster, and he saved me."
Ding Caisang's words were like a bomb, and he directly knocked Ding Cailian out of the way, "Then you looked like that night, but you were actually being someone."
Caisang's tears fell in an instant. She had always pretended to be calm and felt that she had not lost her body. It didn't matter, but in fact she was also scared.
Now that my sister mentioned this in front of her, she felt aggrieved: "Yes, I didn't tell me, it was someone else who told me like this."
"That night, Qiao Zhi drank with his friends, helped me drive the bad guys away, and sent me home. I didn't actually take them to the right address. Because I was afraid of something that happened, I didn't dare to come back directly. In fact, there was something a bit of anger. What I didn't expect was that he followed me to the riverside. He thought I was going to jump off the river, so he took off his clothes and stayed with me until dawn, and advised me in various ways. At that time, he thought he was quite stupid. How could he be so stupid? Where did he see that I couldn't think about it? I just wanted to relax."
Seeing her sister burst into tears and laughing, Ding Cailian's heart changed a little about this person named Qiao Zhi.
"So, that morning, he actually sent it back to you?"
Ding Caisang nodded, "I saw that others were good, so she promised him to send me back. At that time, I was full of Cai Wenbo. I never thought about him at all, and I didn't expect that we would meet again. He would agree to help me find a job so happily. Sister, in this situation in our family, I don't want to make trouble anymore. Just marry like this. Although people are not what I like, at least she is kind to me and can find a job for me. As long as I work for a year, I can transfer to a formal job for me. I don't have much education and can transfer to a formal job. I am already satisfied and will not drag you down. I think it's good, what do you think?"
Ding Cailian's eyes turned red suddenly, and she looked at her sister with distress: "You don't need to be wronged by yourself for this for us."
"Aggrieved? No, I don't feel wronged. I have a formal job, and the man is nice to me. Even my parents-in-law and his brother are very polite to me, without any intention of looking down on me. How could I feel wronged?"
"That's not OK, so you have to inquire about this person. If there is a problem with his character, some people are good at disguising. Don't rush to move to the dormitory first. I'll go to find my uncle and uncle. They have a wider connections to see if they can help find out about this family. If they are good, they shouldn't be 26 and are not married yet. This is eight years older than you. With so many gaps, I always feel that there is something wrong."
After hearing the words, Ding Caisang was silent for a moment, then looked up and said to Ding Cailian.
"His biggest problem is that after a car accident, he not only had leg problems, but also had his life. The root cause was not allowed to have children in the future. He had confessed to me that if he was with him, he would not have children in the future and might adopt them. If I could bear it, he would prepare the marriage bride price and wedding room immediately. If he was unwilling, he would not force it, and the temporary worker's job would not be taken back. It is only a gift to know me."
These words directly knocked Ding Cailian to death and fell on the bed, "So, have you promised him?"
Ding Caisang shook his head, "Not yet, I actually don't know what to do, but when I think of such a good person who wants to live alone and dies of old age, I feel very pitiful. I am a selfish person and have never considered others. Logically, I can turn my head after hearing this, but he just said that work can be reserved for me, and what else is it? It's a gift to know me. Why do you think this person is so stupid? I, a selfish person like me, can't help but turn back."
As he spoke, Ding Caisang started crying: "From childhood to adulthood, what I want will make me try my best to get. Things I don't want to do will always push you in a hindrance. My parents clearly knew it, but they turned a blind eye and didn't plan to care about me. If you hadn't been holding on to me and giving in to me, how could I develop the temperament today? It's all you. If you want to be more mean to me and be more ruthless to me, wouldn't I be so selfish?"
"Our dad is gone and dies at the hands of our mom. Sister, I am really sad. From then on, we are children without fathers and mothers. My aunt, second and third uncles said it well and gave money, but who cares about us? Only my uncle's family is still reliable. I don't understand why my life suddenly came to this point in a confused way? I chose and became the person I was disliked. I have given up and thought that I would definitely not meet someone who treats me sincerely in the second half of my life. But Qiao Zhi appeared, and his kindness made me feel guilty and made me feel embarrassed to accept it for no reason. I am very confused now, what should I do next."
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The two sisters couldn't take notice, so Ding Caisang pulled her and told her about the matter.
Ding Zhenlong and Zhao Qingqing were stunned after hearing this. Obviously, they didn't expect Ding Caisang to have such an opportunity.
After inquiring about the background of the Qiao family, the couple decided to help her carefully check it.
"Don't go to the textile factory to work. Give us a few days. Let's ask someone to find out about his family's situation. If it is true as he said, then this person can be entrusted for life. As for the child's affairs, it is a big problem. If you really decide, it will be a lifelong thing and you can't regret it. Since you want to raise it, go to the orphanage to choose. Don't adopt your two uncle's children. Raise them and raise them, and you may raise enemies."
After all, the couple had a certain life experience and began to use their experience to carefully analyze what might happen in the future for Ding Caisang.
When Ding Zhenlong returned to the factory, he asked someone to ask about the Qiao family. Zhao Qingqing was not idle either. Not only did he ask the old couple of the Zheng family, but he also asked Grandma Wang at the opposite door, and even Grandma Lei Lei where he went to inquire.
After more than a week, it finally came out. I didn't expect that there was such a good person. Qiao Zhi had a good character, a technical secondary school graduate, a driver's certificate, and after something happened, he also took the accounting certificate. He was a person with strong learning ability. The reason why he had not gotten married in recent years was indeed what he admitted was that he could not have children. He was open-minded about this matter and had no cover. He told the blind date the truth, and then he reached this age.
Ding Caisang's vision this time was much better than last time. When Ding Zhenlong and his wife told the two sisters what they found, Ding Caisang had already decided to marry this person.
It doesn’t matter to her whether she has children or not. It’s okay not to have children. At least she suffers less. It’s not difficult to solve the problem of throwing away so many children in this era.
Although it is a high probability to adopt a girl, isn’t the daughter himself raised by someone else’s home? Isn’t it done if you figure it out?
When the first snow fell this winter, Ding Zhenlong and his wife met with the Qiao family's parents.
Qiao Zhi herself is tall and strong, and she looks straightforward. Although her legs are a little lame and her speech is a bit stuttering, she has never heard Caisang mention it. It seems that she really doesn't take this seriously, but she can be sophisticated and smooth in her behavior. She is worthy of being a driver. If there are so many people who have seen each other, she will look smoother?
There should be such people in this world. Only such people can make a living in the workplace and be more reliable than those who sound honest and honest.
He was able to switch from a driver to an accountant, which shows how strong his learning ability was. I heard that someone asked him to be the coach of the driver's class, but he didn't agree. Occasionally, there was something wrong with the food bureau's car, and he even asked him to repair it. Such a versatile person is really hard to find even with a lantern.
Why did Ding Caisang encounter it?
Is the wonder of fate highlighted here?
Although Ding Caisang's parents are gone, the eldest uncle and aunt can sit over and discuss the marriage with their in-laws, so they are naturally here to make decisions.
Ding Zhenlong and his wife did not have too many requests for the bride price.
"Three turns and one sound, look at the bride price."
Because in this era, the three turns and one sound of a wife are standard, no matter what the brand is, at least they must have it, so their request is not excessive.
Zhao Qingqing also said: "Since my niece invites us to make decisions and be parents, then we will not be stingy. We will also prepare a dowry for the child. If you don't ask for anything else, I hope Qiao Zhi treats her well. The family reasons are not created by them. I hope that because of this, I will not think that the child is inferior. Her uncle and I will always be her back. I have four sons and two soldiers. In the future, we will be her parents' home. If she does something wrong, send her back and we will educate her, but please don't attack her, okay?"
As soon as these words were said, Cailian and Caisang's eyes turned red at the same time, and even Qiao Zhi was moved and quickly expressed it.
"Uncle, don't worry, I, Qiao Zhi, never hit a woman. Caisang is the one I chose myself. It's too late for me to be nice to her!"
The newlyweds are about to be married, and many people are saying this. Marriage is a decades-long practice. Who knows what will happen in the future?
However, the process that should be experienced has been investigated in detail, and I hope this person is really worth entrusting.
The marriage period of the two is scheduled to be in March of 1976. Because she has to prepare her dowry, she has to get married from her own family even if she gets married. So before that, the house at home must be cleaned up. This time is pretty good. When it is neither lukewarm nor hot, it is most suitable for getting married.
It was the first time the couple experienced this, and they were afraid that they would not do well. They not only inquire about the process in advance, but also specially made two sets of new clothes to support the child's storefront.
Although Zhao Qingqing is a rural woman, after more than half a year of urban immersion, her speech and work have become more and more decent. She sat on the table and spoke in a way that made the Qiao family, who worked in government agencies, have nothing to be criticized.
The meeting between the parents of both parties was considered engaged, and the work of picking mulberry was truly implemented.
After getting engaged, she moved into the group dormitory and embarked on a new journey.
After the matter of Caisang was settled, Cailian studied harder and laid the foundation for her future.
Including Ding Jian, who returned to school, began to study hard after experiencing this major change in life.
But his foundation is too poor and he needs to make up too much. In just a week, Ding Cailian will review the knowledge points of the first and second grades of junior high school with him.
She also hopes that her younger brother can get into a technical secondary school entrance examination. Only when he goes to a technical secondary school can he be assigned a job in the future. Only when they can all be assigned a job can they solve the fundamental problems of this family.
Reading is power, that's right. Although they are not as talented as the children of the uncle's family, she believes that no matter when it starts, it's not too late.
Ding Wei expressed her sincere blessings in the face of Caisang's transformation and new life experiences. After all, it was not easy for her to recognize her previous mistakes in time, which shows that her parents' affairs have brought her considerable blows and trauma.
However, Ding Wei feels that such a change may not be a real and permanent change. When she overcomes this hurdle, it is not impossible to restore her nature. After all, it is easy to change the country and nature are difficult to change. Her current compromise and depression may be for the sake of the fact that this marriage can be implemented faster?
She always believed that human hearts are the hardest to guess, and we should always be skeptical, rather than being controlled by the environment at will.
Chapter completed!