Chapter 36 Don't cry anymore.(2/2)
Liang Yixuan held the lily and followed Chen Ji all the way across the landscape avenue, climbed the embankment, and said with emotion: "This place is so close to the dance center, so I have only a few times."
Chen Ji nodded with a smile: "Nanhuai's life is fast, and everyone is striving to get ahead. It is really rare to slow down and walk around. I'm taking a break from my busy schedule when I participate in this variety show."
"So, are you participating in this variety show to relax?" Liang Yixuan asked in accordance with his words.
Chen Ji shook his head: "The elders at home are urging him to get married. I said I did try my best to contact and date girls. The old man didn't believe it. He said that I was busy with work every day, so he must be perfunctory. So I went on this variety show to show him."
Liang Yixuan was stunned and found it quite interesting: "Is it my grandfather at home?"
Chen Ji thought about the right way to answer: "It's a grandfather who raised me, not a grandfather."
Liang Yixuan stumbled slightly.
Although Chen Ji did not make it clear, this sentence alone was enough to make her understand. Chen Ji was probably the same as hers and did not have a very complete family.
Maybe even, his situation is a bit harder than her single-parent family.
When it comes to private matters, she didn't dare to ask further, nodded, and hurriedly changed the topic: "The sun was turned on today, the wind was not strong, and the weather was quite comfortable."
Chen Ji obviously saw her intention and looked at her with a smile: "Yixuan, do you think we look like you?"
Liang Yixuan thought for a while and nodded.
From the habit of loving rules to observing words and expressions among the crowd, to the style of following rules and taking into account others' comprehensive personality, she and Shen Ji are indeed similar.
"Do you think people who are similar are suitable as partners?"
Liang Yixuan was unconscious and was stunned by the question. She was silent for a moment before she told the truth: "I don't know, I'm not very experienced in this...."
Chen Ji nodded: "I think a simple personality similarity or opposite is not a fixed number. No matter what the situation is, it is possible to become a partner, but the similarity or opposite of personality causes are decisive, because that makes the energy in you."
"Energy?" Liang Yixuan heard this for the first time.
"Yes, different experiences from childhood to adulthood have allowed everyone to have their own energy. The closer the energy is, the more people can empathize with each other's situations and understand each other's joys, anger, sorrow and happiness. But because of this, they get along like a pool of calm water without fluctuations. The more opposite the energy is, the more intensely they will repel, argue, and conflict with each other when they meet, but in this process, they may create so-called sparks."
Liang Yixuan heard Chen Ji's intentions and pointed them out.
He said that two people with equally introverted personalities may not be unable to get together. For example, a person's restraint is because he was influenced by serious art since childhood, while another person's restraint is because he often moves and has too few friends around him. Then even if these two people have similar personalities, they may have different energy, and still have the chance to spark.
But her similar personalities as Shen Ji may be derived from the same thing, that is their incomplete family. And to this day, they still live in this energy.
So there was no trouble between them.
And there is a person's energy that is completely opposite to them.
Liang Yixuan frowned and swallowed with difficulty: "But the process of sparks is also a process of hurting each other. Wouldn't that be very painful?"
"What does not need to be run-in are friends, confidants, and what does need to be run-in is partners. This is a must-pass path."
Liang Yixuan turned her head curiously: "Will the road to running-in, will the pain of the process dilute their feelings for each other because of the pain of the process?"
"Of course there is this possibility. But I think the essence of love is in a sense a yearning. You yearn for being him and want to draw the energy you lack from him, so you will fall in love with him. As long as you do not dilute the desire for this energy, you will not dilute the desire for him."
As if a corner of her heart suddenly collapsed, Liang Yixuan suddenly understood in this unbalanced dizziness, why four years ago she was so easily attracted by a man she had never met before.
Not because of his beautiful skin.
It's not because of the halo around him.
It is because she longs for a soul like him, hot and free.
Chapter completed!