When people live in the world, they must interact with all kinds of people.

There are different ways to get along with different types of people.

If a person can maintain various interpersonal relationships without affecting his or her own time use, his or her life will become very smooth.

A harmonious family, a happy marriage, and a trust in friends, he will not encounter any emotional troubles except for work problems.

Maybe we are not such people, but we must have seen such people.

During a dinner, he appeared in your sight as a stranger.

He looks extremely ordinary and dresses very ordinary. He is not the richest or the most powerful.

But when you see him for the first time, you can't help but feel good about him.

Although you will not take the initiative to chat with him, you will not reject him in your heart. Even if he appears within your safe distance, you will not feel disgusted.

This stranger can be the same sex or the opposite sex.

Even if he sat there and said nothing, he had an indescribable special temperament that attracted you, making you unable to help but look at him more.

But the more you look at him, the more ordinary you will feel.

But you will find that such people have a common characteristic, harmony.

His clothes, his appearance, and his every move are very harmonious, so that you can't find any faults. You will think that a person should be like this, very natural and harmonious.

And this natural and harmonious temperament is often the most difficult state for humans to reach.

Because there is an instinctive desire to express one's nature, a person will instinctively pursue alternative and unconventional in order to achieve outstanding results among similar people.

However, while being innovative and cater to some people's aesthetics, they will definitely be rejected by other people.

The natural harmonious temperament will never be rejected by anyone.

If you don’t reject it, you will have a reason to continue your relationship.

The more you get along with others, the more comfortable you get along with, the friendship will deepen. This kind of friendship can be between the same sex or between the opposite sex.

If the other party happens to be the type you like, then you can become friends happily. If the other party is the type you are very repulsive, just make a few perfunctory words, and there is no need to make friends with each other.

So Lu Jianguo is such a person. Even if he does nothing, others will naturally like him and like to get along with him.

Not rejecting or disgusting, actually like it.

The more you know, the more you find that you can’t find anything offensive in this person, and your liking will deepen.

You know, human beings themselves are hostile guys.

When humans evaluate a person, they are to pick out the shortcomings of this person and desperately pick out the shortcomings of others.

Some people hate him when you see him once, because when you first look at him, you will pick out unbearable shortcomings from him, which means that this person has many shortcomings and is not worth dating.

But some friends suddenly turned against each other after years of dating, because after years of dating, you suddenly found that there were fatal shortcomings hidden deep in his personality, so you denied him.

So it is simple to deny a person, essentially finding the inescapable shortcomings in him.

Therefore, a smart person will not show off his strengths, but he will examine himself and smooth out any trivial shortcomings and flaws in himself.

He makes you unable to find a reason to reject him. The longer you get along, the more you can only discover his strengths. You will find that he is a treasure from head to toe, but you have never discovered it before.

You were surprised by knowing him, you praised him, and loved this friend enthusiastically.

I like it very simply, just like a bed sheet, a pair of socks, a scarf, and a tea cup, because like these objects, it will make you feel very, very comfortable when needed.

This is the highest level of getting along with people. If you can do it, you will be invincible, whether in the workplace or in life.

Just imagine how it feels like everyone wants to be close to you and that all interpersonal relationships focus on you.

This feeling is that the more ordinary you look, the greater you look in the eyes of others.

It's very simple to say, but it's actually even simpler to do.

It’s just that no one has ever thought about this issue, so few have done this purposefully.

We always pursue the people we really like in our hearts and think there is a gap. This gap is that you can't pick out what's wrong with her (him), but you see that you find that everything is shortcomings, and you even hate yourself.

But in fact, this gap is easily smoothed out.

Don’t be happy with things, don’t be sad with yourself.

If you can always make a sentence, any problem can be solved, and usually the biggest trouble must be the trouble caused between people.

Lu Jianguo was detained in the cell as a prisoner, and the identity of a prisoner must be sad.

However, there was never a look of sadness on his face, because he didn't realize it was a sad thing at all.

When he gave each of the three men who were guarding him a box of matches and saw the ecstatic look on their faces, he knew that he could easily control the minds of these people.

Due to the gains and losses of external things, you cannot control your emotions of joy and anger, and there is a significant gap in your level of being a human being.

Once emotions are easily controlled, they will become dominated.

Most ordinary people cannot see the height of being a human being, but in fact there must be a height gap between people.

If you can never see the gap between yourself and others and arrogantly think that the person is in a much lower situation than you, then you will always be in the dominant side.

Of course, it is also very skillful for people who can see this height gap clearly.

Lu Jianguo knew that even if he gave each of these three people a little favor, he could not use such things to talk about things. At the same time, he could not show his arrogant attitude with Lu Xiaolin's heroic demeanor.

Not only can he not be arrogant, but on the contrary, he must be very gentle. In his meekness, he must make people feel his principle, which is the hard side of a man.

His gentle appearance is to make these three people willing to take the initiative to contact him and communicate with him.

The principle and the hardness in the bones are to make these three people understand him a little bit of admiration in their hearts.

Because such admiration will vaguely raise his position in the center of his threesomes, and will not be bullied by a dog.

Even if he is a prisoner and the three of them are guardians, even in such an asymmetric relationship, they must try their best to maintain the most comfortable way to get along.

In this way, they will not break this situation and be able to live in harmony comfortably. There is no need to bully him or bully him because he is a prisoner.
Chapter completed!