In this family, the girl is called Ruirui and the boy is called Fengfeng.

Lin Xiaoling could hear that Ruirui thought that her parents only liked her younger brother and did not like her, and she was too partial.

I also feel that if I am not my sister but my sister, my parents will like her.

This situation occurs in many families. As long as there are two or more children in a family, it is difficult for parents to achieve equal treatment, and there will always be differences.

Parents may not care, but their children are very sensitive inside and they can sense that they are neglected.

Lin Xiaoling is old at home. Although she occasionally feels that her parents are partial, she is often in a state of being taken care of, and she thinks Ruirui is too sensitive.

Children also compete for favor at home. In order to get the love of their parents, they will use some small means, such as acting spoiled.

After hearing Ruirui’s complaint, Lin Xiaoling found it interesting, but did not pay much attention to it. After all, it was just a joke between children.

She waited until Ruirui's mother came back and wanted to get to know the family in depth.

In the following period, Lin Xiaoling discovered something she had never noticed before, that is, the attitude of the child's mother was different in treating the two children.

"You are a sister, so you should give in to your younger brother."

This sentence appears very frequently in the mouth of the child's mother. Ruirui and Fengfeng had a dispute over watching TV. The mother would say this. Fengfeng wanted to play chess, but Ruirui didn't want to play chess, but the mother still said this.

As long as the two children have a dispute, Ruirui always needs to compromise.

This mother doesn’t think there is anything wrong with you. You are the sister and it is natural to take care of your younger brother.

A pair of twins, just because they were given different identities at birth, determine their personalities and even their entire lives. Is this fair?

Lin Xiaoling thought about it carefully and felt that there was something unexplainable here.

Why did this family make this decision?

Because in traditional concepts, girls are sensible and can take care of people, boys are naughty and need to be cared for, or in other words, girls should be gentle and sensible and not lively and rebellious, otherwise they will not be good girls.

There may also be a thought of favoring boys over girls.

During the process of the child's growth, parents did not consider Ruirui's idea and deprived Ruirui of the right to choose with a high-sounding reason such as "you are sister".

If your younger brother wants to watch this show, don’t argue. If your younger brother wants to play this game, you have to play with him.

It can be seen that Ruirui had resisted, and her method of resisting was to attract the attention of her parents and want to be loved.

Lin Xiaoling was watching the normal life of this family. She used to think it was very ordinary and there was nothing worth interviewing, but now she really wanted to take pictures of Ruirui's childish resistance.

It’s not that she wants to criticize the idea of ​​favoring boys over girls or family education issues.

She just felt that Ruirui's resistance had touched her.

Ruirui disagrees with her sister's identity and feels sad that she doesn't like her parents. This is the sensitive and delicate thoughts of a little girl, and this is her little inner world.

Compared with the vast world outside, Ruirui's little thoughts are too trivial.

Adults may not care about a little girl's random messing around, that is, Lin Xiaoling is still young and has not grown up, so she will notice her heart from Ruirui's actions.

If she graduated from college, she would not be touched after she was 30 years old. Instead, she would stand by and watch Ruirui’s nonsense like other adults, and smile.

Lin Xiaoling didn't know what would happen to this family in the future.

As Ruirui and Fengfeng grew up, they may have forgotten these past events when they were young and became very good. It may have intensified Ruirui's resistance, and the relationship between the siblings was very bad, and even Ruirui had conflicts with the entire family.

Children’s childhood experiences may affect their lives.

After leaving this family, Lin Xiaoling took the bus and looked at the vehicles and pedestrians on the streets of Beijing. It was the peak period of getting off work, and the pedestrians on the road were rushing home.

Through this interview, she realized that no family is ordinary and has her own story behind what seems ordinary.

Whether you can dig out the behind-the-scenes story depends on whether you have patience and observation skills.

She also has a vague idea that she will pay more attention to women's inner world in the future. She wants to use the camera to show the emotions and lives of women in this era of great change.

Lin Xiaoling went to the film school to be a director, but she never thought about what to do after becoming a director.

For example, Jia Zhangke and the others also wanted to shoot movies, but they were still exploring what themes and styles they were shooting, or they had not found the way they were going to take.

Through this incident, Lin Xiaoling saw a path she wanted to take.

When she got home, she began to write a shooting plan, focusing on the twins Ruirui and Fengfeng. She was not going to guide her, just take pictures of the daily lives of the two children.

It's summer vacation now, and Ruirui and Fengfeng don't have to go to school, and they just happened to be able to cooperate with the shooting.

After writing the shooting plan, Lin Xiaoling showed it to Lin Zixuan first. She attached great importance to her brother's opinions.

"Don't tell your child's parents what to shoot, otherwise they won't be able to take the real effect. They will always hide it in front of the camera, and only the child may not be restricted." Lin Zixuan reminded, "In addition, try to find a way to cover the camera, just like there is no camera, which will appear more realistic."

"Will the program team for filming children fail to pass the story?" Lin Xiaoling said worriedly.

"Your idea is very good. You can find a lot of valuable topics from it, and it should be able to pass it." Lin Zixuan affirmed, "I just doubt if you were shooting this because I didn't take you to play when I was a child."

"I forgot where it is," Lin Xiaoling shook her head and said.

"That's good, I'm really worried that it will have an impact on your personality." Lin Zixuan joked.

Lin Xiaoling handed the shooting plan to the director of the Living Space Column Team and applied for shooting permission. She gave the story a name called Sister.

The director of the column team thought it was a nonsense at first, and we were not a children's program, so filming a child's inner world was nothing, but he was attracted by the story of the twins.

He felt that he could criticize the idea of ​​favoring boys over girls. Now the country advocates that boys and girls are the same, and that only one child is better.

We can also talk about family education, children's growth and social equity.

Everyone has different perspectives on the problem, and countless interpretations can be generated from a story.

In fact, Lin Xiaoling just wants to show a child’s inner little world. It will not be continued
Chapter completed!