Chapter 686 Lives up to the Tathagata
Women are always complex creatures and must not believe what they say.
Just like Xiao Jiang said just now that she would never see Wang Meng again in her next life, but after Yang Ying made an assumption, she immediately changed.
Of course, this also fully demonstrates that Xiao Jiang loves Wang Meng so deeply.
Feelings are never something defined by rationality. On the contrary, too much reason will miss many opportunities.
The two of them who were in silence didn't know what they were thinking, and that faint sadness permeated the space.
"If life is just like the first meeting..." Inexplicably, Yang Ying remembered the scene of her first meeting with Wang Meng.
She had Wang Tian bragging to her all day that her brother knew Wang Meng.
She always thought that the first meeting between the two should be at the premiere of "This Man from Earth".
At that time, she saw the energetic Wang Meng on the stage in a place that Wang Meng could not see.
From the mouth of her good sister Wang Tian, she wondered what kind of person Wang Meng was? That first meeting did make her eyes lit up.
The second time the two met was what Yang Ying thought Wang Meng met her for the first time, at Wang Meng’s house!
Wang Tian led her to Wang Meng's house. She was very shy at that time. When Wang Meng looked at her in surprise, she was still vivid in her mind. From then on, the two of them might have been close together.
But she didn't know that Wang Meng did not meet her for the first time in the sense that she was at home. But a female star that Wang Meng was obsessed with when she was in the last time and space!
"What's the matter with the autumn wind trauma?" Xiao Jiang subconsciously continued the next sentence when he heard what Yang Ying said.
Both of them recalled the first time Xiao Jiang and Wang Meng met at that welcome party. Since then, the two have been having a good relationship. After that, they have not spent much time together!
In fact, Xiao Jiang has always regretted that Wang Meng has been pursuing her for too short, and she is too unreserved, and she has been together for a short time!
I have never experienced many bloody scenes, life-and-death scenes, and even more so on a series of scenes such as family disagreement.
It’s so natural, so simple and direct together!
If you love someone, you will be together when you feel right. Maybe this is how young people love each other.
I don’t care whether my partner will have money or not in the future? Do I have the ability?
All that feels!
So Xiao Jiang is also glad that he was young at that time and did not need to add motives other than love, such as money, power, etc.!
What she loves is feeling and pursues purity. It is not easy to support each other until old age, and it is not easy to support each other until now!
When the two finished speaking this poem, they looked at each other.
In fact, the two of them have a messy thought and do not deny that they have sweet memories, but these memories interspersed with each other and the addition of time experience, their thoughts are very complicated.
I don’t know what I am thinking? Or: want to, figure out what I am thinking!?
In short: both the mouth and the mind!
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"Why is the great director so time? How is King Kong filming?" Huang Bo was a little curious after coming to the private room. He saw Wang Meng drinking alone, looking very decadent and confused.
"It went smoothly. I finished shooting a quarter. I will go to the army to shoot next!"
"So fast?" Huang Bo asked.
"It's not too fast. In fact, I have been preparing since March this year and special effects have been produced in April. On the surface, it was turned on in July, but like "Jurassic World", I have been preparing for it a long time ago." Wang Meng explained.
"Oh, this is the situation!" Huang Bo sighed. Seeing that Wang Meng was still the same, he seemed to be unfaithful to the movie. He asked, "What's wrong? Isn't it a waste if I'm alone here and drinking?
After hearing this, Wang Meng smiled depressedly!
"Go aside. I am a love saint in your eyes? What kind of confidante?"
I thought to myself, I felt so uncomfortable just a few apples, and I even found a confidante. I was looking for trouble if I had nothing to do! I really thought I was the kind of person who was ruthless in holding my pants, and even said that I was just a prodigal son and a hooligan?
"I'll ask you something?" Wang Meng asked.
"explain!"
Wang Meng lit a cigarette, as if thinking about how to say it. It was not that she did not trust Huang Bo, but that she really didn't know how to start.
"You said? Am I a good person? Well, in terms of emotions, I feel particularly greedy. I always don't want to let go of good things and always hope to hold them in my hands. I am already ashamed of many women!"
"Good person?" Huang Bo did not laugh, but instead thought a little.
"This, you have to look at the definition of a good person! Strictly speaking, there are many definitions of a good person, just like the definition of happiness! It is also like the definition of life!" Huang Bo said.
"What does it mean?" Wang Meng asked?
"It's very simple. You are beginning to be confused. You feel that you have several confidants who are not in line with social values. You have begun to deny yourself. You feel that you are not a good person." Huang Bo.
"Yes, that's it!" Wang Meng said.
"So! You have misunderstood the definition of a good person. A good person does not simply refer to emotions, but also includes many aspects such as public welfare, morality, thoughts, behaviors, contributions, values, etc."
"I know, but do you think I am? Is it a good person?" Wang Meng asked?
Huang Bo smiled and said, "Of course! In addition to the morality and values involved in emotions, you are still good in other aspects. At least you are a very public welfare person and has great value to society. You have no other bad behaviors. As a public figure, you have played a good lead role. This is also within the definition of a good person!"
"So..." Wang Meng asked?
"So, I said that it must be connected with the definition of happiness and the definition of life!" Huang Bo said.
"Tell me!" Wang Meng was interested!
"All your denials have reasons! The reason is that you feel ashamed of the women who are devoted to you?" Huang Bo asked?
"That's the case!"
"That's good to say. You are right to deny yourself, at least you have no moral loss to the bottom line, and you still know your own reflection? But... the definition of happiness and life I mentioned are positioned for your confidante." Huang Bo said.
Wang Meng didn't say anything, waiting for Huang Bo's explanation.
"You think so? Your confidante knows your situation, why didn't you leave you, and why didn't you abandon you?" Huang Bo asked?
"Why?" Wang Meng said.
"It's very simple. Because the value of happiness is different, your confidante is compared to leaving you and being by your side? They feel that even if you have a few confidantes around you, they are much happier than leaving you? So you have to think of this. To be honest, I'm so unhappy! You are so outstanding that I think it's natural. Do you know?" Huang Bo looked at Wang Meng with a little resentment.
"Uh!" Wang Meng was stunned!
"Women are not stupid. Don't define yourself too high. That way? You will live in endless entanglement. If they don't leave you, it means they agree with my definition of happiness just now. This is the path they chose, not the path you imposed.
You cannot only consider your own failures without considering their opinions. If you speak out, you are too macho. You always think that women should protect and love them, but! People are first of all individuals and thoughts, and then they are creatures living in groups.
If you live in a crowded world, you need to make choices? The definition of choices is your own pricing, not your pricing, do you understand?"
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Wang Meng felt a little enlightened in an instant!
"You mean, no matter how much I feel guilty, it will be useless. I can't give up a few and only one, right? Besides, I can't give up! So instead of feeling guilty, it's better to do my best to make them happier." Wang Meng asked.
"Correct!" Huang Bo snapped his fingers!
He also said: "Look, you are too promiscuous, just too greedy and can't give up. So why do you think about so many useless things? Why don't you think about how to make your women live happier? They are individual thoughts and creatures with their own ideas. If you don't leave you, choose this way that you are not imposed by you, but their choice. If someone really can't stand you and want to leave you, can you still stop and let go?" Huang Bo asked?
"Yes!" Wang Meng nodded violently.
Although he is greedy, there are really women who want to leave him and don’t want such a life. Wang Meng will choose to let go for the happiness of his woman.
Of course, the premise is that after all his methods are useless, cough cough!
"You can explain it clearly! Your misunderstanding is that you feel that all the bad things are caused by you! It is caused by your promiscuity! But... you ignore that your women also have the right to choose. We men often think so?
Huang Bo said again: "My explanation is not to evade responsibility, it is not a nonsense idea, but the greatest respect. Respect her choice. Whether to be together or not, whether to be separated or not is caused by the choice of two people."
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Wang Meng nodded unstoppably after hearing this, feeling a little like she was pushing away the clouds.
However, Wang Meng knew that this guy was a bit biased to comfort him!
This is a matter of choice and a moral definition!
Huang Bo may be right in his choice, but morally it is his own lack, his own infidelity to his feelings, which leads to such a situation. It is his own greed that leads to such a result.
But what?
Wang Meng still wants to thank Huang Bo, Morality? He has long lost his emotional morality, so he can barely accept it.
Besides, since my woman chose this method, it is really useless to feel guilty. It is better to make up for these women and give them everything they have. This is the best way!
The two of them said a lot since then, and Wang Meng smiled bitterly and explained the reason why she didn't go home in the middle of the night. Huang Bo said "I deserve it" a few times!
After that, Huang Bo also explained to him the definition of life.
In short, no matter what, it is life. Just experience your own life. You need to summarize the lives of all women.
If your life is okay, continue if you feel good. If you feel bad, find a way or even give up.
In short, it corrected his guilty mentality. It is not bad guilt, but don’t go into misunderstandings for this.
Huang Bo finally drank a little too much. Wang Meng asked him why he was so enlightened for himself. He said: "You are not a simple director now. You are still the hope and pride of many people, and even the pride of the Chinese film industry.
I don't want you to live in the guilt of love all day long. The greater significance of your existence is not your personal relationship, but your career, because your confidante is a few, and countless people who also expect you.
In ancient times, I have given up my family and taken care of everyone. I don’t want to put pressure or benchmarks on you, but you do have to carry a flag.
People are not perfect. Our attitude towards perfection is positive energy, but we cannot give up on ourselves because of imperfection. This is negative energy.
Choosing is also an attitude. I hope your choice is worthy of beauty and public!"
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After hearing this, Wang Meng was very grateful and thought of a poem: "How can I get both Dharma in the world and live up to the Tathagata and live up to you!"
Yes, you have to be open because he has other responsibilities!
That's - movie!
And so - director!
Chapter completed!