On the way home, Pan Ge showed a happiness that was visible to the naked eye.

Humming songs, jumping around, childish enough to step on the floor tiles.

It was also the first time for Han Lie to see her like this.

very cute.

Gradually, Han Lie's mood couldn't help but be infected by her, and he smiled from the bottom of his heart.

When they reached the downstairs of the community, Pan Ge suddenly stopped rushing up. He suddenly turned his body upside down, put his little hands behind his back, looked directly at Han Lie, and asked him a question.

"Do you think that I am not obedient enough today, that I have too many bad ideas, and that I can't wait to interfere in your life just after I have gained a little bit of status?"

Pan Ge rarely talked to Han Lie so seriously.

There is not much communication between the two that touches the depths of their souls. Most of the time, they are observing each other, and then overturning their original judgments and forming new perceptions during the confrontation...

Today was a good time, Han Lie suddenly wanted to chat with her.

"Won't."

Han Lie shook his head: "I am going to marry a woman after all, and it is you. There is nothing wrong with it. We are very compatible, right?"

Pan Ge laughed happily, and then complained: "You are in tune with everyone... Your rank is too high. My mother doesn't allow me to care too much about you and mess around with you..."

"But I received too much help and favor from Uncle Pan and Aunt Zhao, as well as your connivance."

Han Lie did not refute her, but gave her a positive response from a different angle: "Replace your sincerity with your sincerity, isn't it?"

"right!"

Pan Ge became happy again, and the slight anxiety and uneasiness in his heart quickly dissipated.

When a dog is not a dog, he is really warm and glows with the unique charm of a mature man from the inside out.

Pan Ge thought for a while, tilted his head and asked again: "But you are really complicated... Sometimes I really can't figure out whether you are particularly responsible or have no sense of responsibility at all. How do you view responsibility?"

Regarding this question, Han Lie pondered for a moment.

He had an answer, but he didn't know to what extent it was appropriate to explain it to Pan Ge.

After thinking for a while, he finally decided to tell the truth.

Whether she can truly understand it is her business, but her attitude is my problem.

So, in a low voice, he carefully talked about his thinking in this regard.

"When people live in this world, they always have to bear certain responsibilities, towards their children, their lovers, their parents, their subordinates, the society, and the nation...

When working as a social animal, it is enough to take good care of the family.

When I was a small business owner, I provided several jobs to support my family in Hukou, paid taxes according to regulations, and naturally made contributions to society.

Do something bigger, do some small charity within the scope of your ability, build a school and build a road for your hometown, and benefit your family. It will make you feel more at ease than worshiping any gods and Buddhas.

When you really reach a certain height, you have to start thinking about how to realize greater value in life.

"Zuo Zhuan: The Twenty-Fourth Year of Duke Xiang" says: "The Supreme Being has established virtues, followed by meritorious services, and the third has established words. Even if they are not abolished for a long time, this is called immortality."

Some things in Confucianism are very dogmatic, but its core philosophy has not only shaped the soul of the nation for thousands of years, but also points directly to the ultimate destination of individuals.

I have never thought about being a saint and living such a tiring life, but I also want to pursue self-realization.

Speaking on a small scale, I have to take good care of my family, respond to all those who have helped me, think highly of myself, and love me, and assume the most basic responsibilities and virtues of a human being.

Speaking more broadly, I have to learn to be a leader, lead my team and partners to do something great, take root deeply in a certain level of society, and then spread my influence and enjoy the respect I deserve...

…”

Pan Ge had stopped, listening to Han Lie's story in trance.

In the past, she was not interested in this kind of topic at all - what does the realization of value and unrealization have to do with me, a boring young lady with too much money to spend?

But now, because of Han Lie, she not only listened very carefully, but even started to think along with it.

The reason is very simple - her life will be completely embedded in Han Lie's life.

Then, his mission is also his own mission.

If you don’t have a target, there’s nothing to be afraid of, just follow him!

"You are already on the right path."

Xiao Shou Pan nodded seriously, indicating that he was thinking about it and that he agreed very much.

Um, so cute...

Han Lie smiled, happy and comfortable, and then continued speaking naturally.

"... Next time I move higher, I will do something for this country and this nation.

It sounds a bit false, but the sense of personal belonging and national identity are very strange things. We usually don’t think about it at all, and we even sneer when others mention it. But once it comes to the real critical moment, most Yanhuang people

The spontaneous actions of our children will show that we have been under their strong and profound influence.

Western values ​​don’t quite believe in this. They always put ‘me’ first, put the individual above everything else, and pursue absolute freedom...”

Logically speaking, Han Lie, as a loser, is the one who is most qualified to shout "I am the world".

However, as a smart person who truly understands philosophy, sociology, and the laws of the world, he knows very well what his roots are.

"do you know?

Without this nation and this land, no amount of success will make me happy.

If you think about it simply, this is as natural as 'rich people should return home'.

Thinking deeply, this is like the Jewish people's tireless pursuit of national restoration. A nation-state represents the home of the soul and true peace.

Didn't you expect that?

In fact, I am quite patriotic.

Patriotism should never be about loving the country because it is strong, but because of a fatalistic identity - I like who I am now, and everything about me is because of this land and the long-standing culture of this land.

Originated from.

I clearly know who I am, what I want now, and what I will pursue in the future.

So I can fully enjoy material things and satisfy all kinds of selfish desires without worrying about getting lost in the end.

So you don’t have to worry - I may not be a perfect husband who is particularly loyal and dedicated, but I will try my best to give you the greatest preference and shoulder the responsibilities that I should bear without losing my true heart."

Han Lie finally introduced the real theme, so Pan Ge listened more carefully.

"In ordinary marriages, interest is an unavoidable theme. It usually replaces feelings and becomes the bond between husband and wife to maintain their relationship.

But for me, profit has never been the focus. It's not mine. I don't want it. It's mine. I can spend most of it on you.

Correspondingly, I hope you can forgive and accept this imperfect me.

Of course, you can still declare sovereignty to anyone, just like you did to Chen Yanfei today.

And I will try my best to respect you and start our pre-marriage run-in..."

Han Lie's words carried a kind of rationality and clarity that is unique to human beings.

When Pan Ge listened to his confession, instead of feeling that Han Lie was greedy, selfish and shameless, she felt heartbroken by his magnanimity.

A real man is born to conquer the world.

And women are also part of the world, so what’s wrong with conquering some women by the way?

She has lived in a patriarchal family since she was a child. Her father Pan Shengwu is the pillar of the family, a business card to the outside world, and the protector of mother and daughter. She deeply understands that fierce horses can only be restrained but not tamed.

If you want him to be ambitious outside and conquer cities, but at the same time you want him to be obedient and obedient at home, isn't that schizophrenia?

Let alone men, even those powerful women, such as the iron lady Dong Mingzhu and Deng Wendi, who have not made a mess of their families and lives?

For some things, if you insist on having the best of both worlds, you are making things difficult for others and torturing yourself at the same time.

So it’s better to wake up and find a younger brother who can hold you firmly if you want exclusive love, and support the sky and wind and rain outside by yourself.

If you want to find an unparalleled hero that you can admire, then accept his uncontrollability and look at the good and the bad dialectically.

Pan Ge's family determines that she does not have the naivety of a little girl. In contrast, Chen Yanfei, who is more cautious in her behavior, has been educated to be sophisticated but not worldly. She is sober and has the persistence of a girl. She is completely

Another style.

Therefore, it is destined that Pan Ge is more suitable for the current Han Lie than the village beauty.

"I like your ideals, your understanding and pursuit of greatness."

Pan Ge squeezed out his response word by word, carefully considering each word and striving to express accurately without making mistakes. His expression was so serious.

"I am not a particularly dreamy, capable, or passionate person, but I am very adaptable. Now that I have decided on you, I will get used to and accept everything you have.

Well, at least that's the case for now.

If you always treat me badly and always hurt my heart, then getting married doesn't mean anything, so...well, anyway, you know!"

At the end of the story, she started to feel shy for no reason.

He stopped looking into Han Lie's eyes, turned his head away, and rubbed the ground with his toes.
To be continued...