Attending a cocktail party is actually a very interesting and very boring thing.

The essence of this thing is social interaction, and the essence of social interaction is value exchange, so the level of value will make a huge difference.

Do you think that cocktail reception is a paradise for high-value guests?

NO, they are complementary.

High-value guests will find it very boring, because they have to passively accept a lot of inefficient social interactions and waste too much energy on flattery, with very little actual gain. It can be said to be gold mining in shit.

Two words - annoying.

Therefore, regardless of whether they are Chinese or foreign, big shots must be reserved and aloof at cocktail parties. They come late and leave early. There are people outside the core circle guarding the door, and they leave immediately after doing business.

On the contrary, low-value guests will have a lot of fun. No matter who they talk to, they are all upwardly social. They can see things, make friends, build relationships, or find hunting targets. Success is the best, but even if they don't succeed, they can pass the time.

This kind of person is everywhere, never idle for a moment, seems to have a wide circle of friends, but in reality they are all superficial friends.

They never hesitate to make promises, but rarely put in actual efforts.

Fat Sheep Lao Huang is essentially such a drinking party gangster. This guy is extremely keen on participating in various drinking parties. His character is the kind of villain who wants to take advantage when he sees an advantage and feels he is at a loss if he can't.

If it weren't for his relative relationship with Mr. Huang, it would have been impossible for Lao Pan to bring Jun Guo to play with him.

The second type is the juniors who are brought in by their elders to broaden their horizons and make friends.

Their ages range from teenagers to early thirties, and their identities range from students, civil servants, to startup CEOs. They are a group of lucky people who grew up with a silver spoon in their mouths.

They are generally relatively immature, but the most enthusiastic. When chatting and making friends, listening to Mu Lao bragging, they are the most enthusiastic.

See new things, learn different knowledge, hear interesting gossip, and spark sparks of inspiration.

Therefore, newlyweds are often very keen to attend various wine banquets for a long time, constantly looking for opportunities that belong to them.

Unfortunately, real bosses rarely respond. On the contrary, drinking party gangsters like to hunt newcomers like this.

In this situation, true knowledge and poisonous bragging are mutually exclusive, and it is difficult for young people who lack common sense to distinguish between them, and they are too easily deceived.

Xiao Wang was deceived into investing in Dolphin, Bingo and three useless film and television companies. You can imagine what will happen to newcomers who are at a lower level and have no guardians to check them.

But compared to Wang Xiaofei, Xiao Wang is smarter and luckier.

Xiao Wang was all involved, and Xiao Wang only got involved with his first love and hundreds of millions of small coins.

Even without Da Se, Xiao Wang is not much better. He is too simple, too emotional, and too easy to be hunted by masters.

Well, the most common people in high-end cocktail parties are hunters, regardless of gender.

Han Lie observed and thought, and quickly sorted out the overall situation clearly.

Thanks again for [Situation Judgment], this is a magical skill.

The protagonist of today's cocktail party is theoretically Han Lie, but in the early stage, when the cocktail party has just begun, he is obviously not the focus.

There are four true focal points and centers.

The first one is the metal worker sister, she is the center of all entertainment-related people, the core of sex, wine, sex and wealth.

The second one is Pan Zi. He is surrounded by a circle of local wealthy people, mainly in real estate, shops, entities, and state-owned enterprises, forming a not high-end but very solid local circle.

They chatted about eating, drinking, and laughing loudly in a very down-to-earth manner, which should be regarded as the core of wine.

The third center is Liu Minghao. As a senior partner of the Red Circle Firm, he has gathered a group of people from all walks of life. It seems that his level is not high.

In fact, it is very energetic and engaging

Very good at doing things and making things happen

Being high-spirited and full of the aura of wild rivers and lakes is the core of Qi.

The fourth center is the real boss hired by Fat Sheep Lao Huang, the vice president of Shanghai Pudong Development Bank’s Magic City Branch.

The entire Modu branch has more than 110 business outlets and more than 2,500 employees.

The balance of deposits in local and foreign currencies exceeds 300 billion, and the balance of loans is 150 billion.

Vice President Huang is ranked second in the branch. He is 48 years old and in the prime of life. He still has huge room for improvement.

Fat Sheep Lao Huang was elated and proudly accompanied Governor Huang, surrounded by a group of people from the financial industry and the pan-financial industry. The topics were high-end and upscale, with a domestic focus and an international outlook, and they were currently discussing the European debt crisis.

Obviously, this is the core of wealth. Outside the core circle, there are today's vassals. Generally speaking, they can be divided into three major categories.

The first type is a cocktail party gangster who has no clear purpose and is qualified to attend the reception, but is not too important.

They adhere to the idea that if there are dates or no dates, it is a matter of hitting a pole. The utilitarianism is not so strong, but the harvest is the most.

The third type is not easy to describe accurately, but can be roughly classified as speculators and exhibits with strong purpose.

The models brought by Second Sister Jin are exhibits, and their purpose is naturally to cling to them.

A small number of young rich people who came for Han Lie's private placement can be regarded as speculators.

The Tang Dynasty and the Emperor's few unknown starlets and newcomers have both attributes. Let's see what happens.

It's hard to say for the remaining A-list celebrities. It felt like their stance could change at any time, so Han Lie didn't rush to make a conclusion.

The core, the vassals, the gangsters, the speculators, the exhibits. The reception is very simple, everyone has a clear position, and they play out similar stories one after another.

The cocktail party is not simple, because the position is not fixed forever, the person in the upper position may slip into the abyss, and the person who clings to it may also ride on the wind and rise up.

Find your position accurately and work hard to climb up. It sounds very simple, but in fact it is a university question.

And Han Lie suddenly realized that he was special. He was not qualified to be the core for the time being.

His net worth is only 20 to 30 million, his reputation is somewhat but limited, his social influence is about zero, and he seriously lacks the power to convince outsiders.

For example

If Wu and Liu don't understand

For financial needs, do people need to take care of you, Xiao Han?

The resources they need are completely beyond Han Lie's capabilities.

However, Han Lie is not anyone's vassal, and he does not need to be a speculator to climb up.

He cannot affect the circle of friends of Pan Zi, Lao Liu, and Second Sister Jin, but he can have a limited influence on Pan Zi, Lao Liu, and Second Sister Jin themselves.

As the scale of private equity expands, this influence will increase day by day until it firmly stands at the core.

400 million is nothing. Wu Qilong has earned more than 400 million this year.

But if one day, Pan Zi, Liu Minghao, Jin

The second sister, Mr. Huang, gave one-fifth of his net worth to Han Lie, and the stable return of 15% per year was enough for them to treat Han Lie as if he were a god.

I cannot bring benefits to more people, but I should work hard to bring more benefits to the most critical people.

In this way, you don't have to deal with those low-value clinging social interactions, but you can also indirectly extend your influence downwards and become the big brother of your big brother...

Han Lie thought as he sipped the remaining wine in the glass.

The pleasantries are over and it's time to go out.

The first person to come to Han Lie was still Pan Zi. Lao Dou and Lao Zhang were with him, and his father-in-law introduced three new friends to Han Lie.

A low-key tycoon, nicknamed the King of Buildings, owns more than 400 properties in Shanghai, Shenzhen, Suzhou and Hangzhou. His whole family has to go to work every three months to collect the rent. Because of the rent collection, he has been hit by taxis and has brought down several airlines.

All members have been promoted to platinum level.

The landlord doesn’t have much cash, so he will buy a house as soon as he has money.

Jiuhu is not Han Lie's target.

But the old man and Pan Zi have a very good personal relationship. They have been saying for a year, "Pan Yin is well-behaved and beautiful, you have to treat her well!"

Brother Lie is applying cold juice.

The second one is Wang Junhao, the third eldest son of the Wang family of Junyao Group.

The three Wang brothers are the true gods of private enterprises in Shanghai.

There are three A-share listed companies under the group, and the entire family's wealth is tens of billions.

Currently, the financial services industry is being laid out. There is an insurance company, which has its own asset management, industrial investment, and wealth management businesses, and is preparing to establish the first private bank in Nandu.

Its strength and status can be imagined.

Mr. Wang asked Han Lie with a smile: "Are you interested in working here? As the vice president of the group in charge of the wealth business line, the annual salary is two million plus standard dividends. My second brother's daughter is better than Lao Pan's daughter.

pretty!"

Damn it!

The people around him suddenly widened their eyes and were shocked by Mr. Wang’s shocking words.

Junyao's wealth management scale is not comparable to that of Zhongcheng. It should currently be more than 100 billion, divided into four large parts.

Not to mention the base salary of 2 million, the standard dividend can easily exceed 100 million.

Before Han Lie could respond, Pan Zi pushed Wang Junhao away and cursed with a smile: "Go away! Little Chi, are you poaching me? Why didn't you mention that your niece is 5 years older than Xiao Lie?"

"It's better to be older. If you are older, it will hurt Xiao Han. Think about it."

Han Lie had no choice but to politely refuse: "Mr. Wang, I'm afraid I won't have time to think about marriage before I'm 30."
To be continued...