Chapter 121: Men's and Women's Viewpoints on Mate Selection
Li Yuhao sat on the sofa with his legs raised and chatted with them about the standards for choosing a spouse. His strange saying of "judging family conditions" made Tara very speechless. South Korea is not a family planning country. It is very common for a family to have two children. Some are even as high as three or five. If it is in the era of their parents, if everyone is not full, then what family conditions are they? Just look at.
But now it’s different. Everyone’s lives are richer, so after marriage, the matters involved become more. Marriage becomes a combination of two families, the woman’s family, the man’s family. The woman cannot say that she will ignore her family at all after marriage, and the man cannot say that she will go out completely after marriage. That is also impossible. There are too many involvement in marriage and two families.
So Li Yuhao said that instead of picking people, it is better to choose a family first. Only by understanding his family situation can he be less tired. South Korea is not just a relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. It is possible that there are sister-in-law, brother, sister-in-law, etc., and there are so many things for a whole family.
Xiaomin listened to Li Yuhao telling Li Shengji's question, and she asked: "But oppa, what are you talking about Li Shengji's problem? What's wrong with his family?"
Unexpectedly, Xiaomin's inquiry caused Li Yuhao to roll his eyes: "If his mother learned about this, she also suggested that she mortgage the real estate to the bank to repay my compensation first, and then repay it to the bank in installments by their family? So, all these things show that his family and he are not very generous. If Yoona really comes to the end with Li Shengji, it would be difficult for Yoona to be a wife."
"How can you explain what others are doing?"
"Men look at men, just like you women look at women. You can see at least eight/nine."
Li Yuhao used this sentence to block their mouths, which really made them unable to find a reason to refute. Women are just like that when they see women, they can all see what a woman is for with a man. Or what is the surface of this woman, but what is inside, anyway, women only have the word "clear" to see women.
Li Yuhao was the only man present, so they asked curiously: "Oppa, what you mean is men looking at men. So what about men looking at women? Beautiful and have a good figure? Is it enough to just do these two things? You don't need to go see cultural level or anything else?"
"Well... it's almost the same. Most men first look at women's appearance and figure. As for education, etc., it does not seem so important for men. Of course, some are icing on the cake, and it's not bad."
"There are so many beautiful people outside and so many good figures. Do you men all like it?"
Facing this question, Li Yuhao touched his nose awkwardly, and then said, "Like it is a pleasing thing. If you say so in general, I can't answer it. The world outside is always very tempting, both for men and for women. I know you would say that after you choose a man, you will be kind to him alone. Why can't men be nice to them alone? This probably starts from ancient times, ancient families...
"The problem is that it is no longer an ancient dynasty. Are you talking a little bit? "Bao Lan just took the time and said halfway, and suddenly she stopped when she found that her tone of speaking seemed to make people misunderstand it. In fact, she didn't mean to target Li Yuhao, she just wanted to talk about this topic.
Baolan, who came to an abrupt end, made Li Yuhao laugh: "Hehe... Yes, Baolan is right. It's no longer an ancient dynasty. However, the heart of men is not so easy to change. Of course, it doesn't mean that all men are so...so... it's just that anyway."
Li Yuhao himself couldn't say the last sentence "Maybe in their eyes the behavior is just like that, but for Li Yuhao, those emotions were all given by him, at least in his heart that it was not.
Perhaps it was a bit difficult to explain the topic. After all, Li Yuhao was standing on the man's position, and they were standing on the woman's position. The angles of both sides were different. After saying that, Li Yuhao got up and walked towards the kitchen, took a few bottles of beer and put it on the table. He obviously didn't want to talk about the three or five women's problems. At this time, the room became strangely quiet.
Everyone reached out to grab the beer and started drinking silently, all their eyes on the child in Jiyeon's hand.
The child was no longer making noise, and he slept comfortably in Jiyeon's arms. Li Juli got up and took the sleeping child and walked upstairs. The remaining five people also lowered their voices at this moment, fearing that they would wake up the sleeping child.
Baolan said to Li Yuhao with embarrassment at this time: "I'm sorry, I don't want to say anything about you, it's just..."
"It's okay. Since I did, I don't care about others' words."
In fact, which man in Li Yuhao's position does not have three wives and four concubines? Everyone knows that, but I just don't say it. If Baolan's words were used on men from ordinary families, she would be absolutely right. Now it's a new era, how could such a thing happen?
Li Yuhao smiled and took a few sips, then turned to look at Baolan: "By the way, are you talking about you having a good marriage?"
"It's nothing, and how can a good marriage be met immediately after meeting it? It's just that we are a good person, so don't wait for the man to act first. It's good to take the initiative as appropriate."
"You are at your age? If you don't look at your appearance, you're thirty. Every time you see it, you feel that you're at least a few years younger than me, and look like Jiyeon. Alas, the problem of childlike appearance is sometimes an advantage, and sometimes a disadvantage. Last time I watched "Hello, Hello" at home, there was a mother with a childlike appearance similar to you. At the age of 25, she only looks like a high school student, and she takes her children to the education. She is also treated with strange eyes by everyone. The most important thing is that she is not even easy to find a job because of her appearance problems. Occasionally, she is misunderstood to become a brother and sister when she goes out with her husband. This childlike appearance has caused a lot of trouble to her life."
Chapter completed!