Chapter 492 As long as you are not afraid of embarrassment, then you can make trouble with me(1/2)
Sometimes people are very strange. There are some things that cannot be discussed with relatives and friends, but they can communicate with strangers in a simple and profound manner, and they can talk about many private things.
This is the case for Li Shuixiu now. After Jiang Feng accurately calculated her marital status and dispelled her worries about divorce, she opened up her heart and talked to Jiang Feng about her marriage and told her about her journey when she married her Japanese husband.
Everything was said.
During the meal, Li Shuixiu said all the words that she had kept in her heart for many years, and she felt much better all over.
Jiang Feng and the others had been acting as listeners. After Li Shuixiu finished speaking, he said: "So, Sister Li, you don't need to continue to be patient. You were also the apple of your parents' eyes when you were in your parents' home. But now you are married to Japan and you are living a life as a nanny."
If you can’t live a life as good as this, why bother?”
Li Shuixiu sighed: "Yes, I am so stupid. I am not a good young lady, so I have to marry here and suffer. I am really out of my mind!"
Jiang Feng said: "Sister Li, you are still young and you still have a long way to go in life. What you have experienced in the past few years should be a lesson to yourself. You can still start over after getting divorced and returning to China."
Li Shuixiu nodded and said: "Thank you Master Jiang for your guidance. Originally, I was still unable to make up my mind about divorce. I was worried about this and that, and completely lost the determination and determination I had back then. Now after your guidance, I have finally thought about it.
I will ask him for a divorce when I turn around, and then take my children back to China to start my new life."
Jiang Feng reminded: "Sister Li, your husband probably won't agree easily. He may even suspect you of having an affair during marriage and threaten you with your child. You have to be mentally prepared for this."
At this point, I have to lament that Japan is really a strange country. Women’s family status and social status are not high, and they have no place to use in the workplace. After marriage, most of the time, they can only choose to be a housewife.
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But at the same time, Japan’s various policies are very good for women, such as financial power. In Japan, women are in charge of the financial power of the family. Even after a Japanese man gets married, his salary will be directly transferred to his wife’s account. This is simply ridiculous in China.
It's an incredible thing.
Also, the rate of Japanese women having infidelity after marriage ranks first in the world, but at the same time, Japan’s divorce rate is astonishingly low. This has to be said to be a miracle.
The most fundamental reason why this kind of thing happens is that most Japanese men cannot afford to divorce. This is not an exaggeration, they really cannot afford to divorce.
Because most Japanese women are full-time housewives, they enjoy many legal benefits and privileges, including post-divorce treatment.
Japan's "Marriage Law" stipulates that if the husband works outside the home and pays full social insurance premiums, and his wife works as a housewife at home, she can also share 50% of the husband's pension during the marriage in the future. In this way, even if the woman does not go out to work
I also have financial security for the rest of my life.
There is also the case of cheating by a man. If negotiation fails, the parties concerned can apply to the Family Tribunal for handling.
In addition to demanding the division of common property, divorce compensation, pensions, and alimony, the cheated party can also file for financial compensation from the cheating party and the mistress.
The amount of compensation is determined based on factors such as the number of years of marriage, the length of the affair, whether the mistress is pregnant, and the mental harm suffered by the cheated party.
When divorcing, if the wife is a full-time housewife, she can still receive half of her husband's pension after the age of 65, so she does not have to worry about financial problems at all.
Even if the woman cheats, the man still has to pay alimony to his wife until the wife remarries. Especially if the custody rights are taken away by the wife, the alimony paid each month will account for half of the monthly income, which means that the cost of divorce is
of luxury goods.
Therefore, Japanese men really "can't live without".
Li Shuixiu frowned when she heard this and said: "I'm not afraid of accusing me of cheating during marriage. After all, I'm upright and I'm not afraid of being distorted. His dirty water can't touch me. And even if I cheated, according to Japan's marriage law, I can't
Enjoy preferential treatment.
But if he threatens me with his child, I really don’t know what to do!”
"Sister Li, regarding the issue of children, couples are actually playing psychological warfare. Whoever shows that they care will suffer."
Jiang Feng said: "He will threaten you with the child. He is sure that you care too much about the child. If you don't want to be threatened by him, then you have to show that you care less about the child than he does. You only need to do this...and then...
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Li Shuixiu nodded repeatedly after hearing this: "I understand. If he dares to threaten me with his child, I will do what you taught me, Master Jiang."
Jiang Feng hummed and said, "Sister Li, let's exchange contact information. We are expected to return to China the day after tomorrow. If you need help during this period, please call me.
If everything goes well, if you want to find a partner after returning to China, you can also give me a call, and I will definitely find a man for you who can treat you well."
Li Shuixiu said gratefully: "Thank you so much. If I hadn't met you by fate today, I don't know how long I would have hesitated before making the decision to divorce. And when the time came to fight for the children, I would have paid a heavy price for it."
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Jiang Feng smiled and said: "Sister Li, you are very polite. We are all Chinese compatriots and we should help each other. Then I will drink tea instead of wine and wish you all the best, Sister Li."
"Well, all the best, cheers!"
"cheers!"
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At the same time, Mr. Mikami was also having dinner with Yamamoto Shisan and his parents.
Sure enough, just as Master Jiang said, Yamamoto Shisan's parents were extremely enthusiastic when they met Teacher Mikami. After getting to know each other, they talked about A culture without any scruples, and even talked about Mikami.
Check out the teacher’s acting skills in the short film.
As a top A-girl, Mikami-sensei is naturally not inferior to anyone in this aspect. Since the Yamamoto family has nothing to be embarrassed about and is seriously discussing A-culture and shooting experiences, she naturally has nothing to be embarrassed about.
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So, when I met my parents for dinner for the first time, we spent most of the time discussing the shooting of short films. Yamamoto's parents even gave examples of short films that Mr. Mikami had shot before. Obviously, they had watched Mr. Mikami's works.
Such a scene is considered normal in Japan, but if it were in China, even those rated actresses would definitely not be able to handle it, and they would definitely be embarrassed.
After the meal, Mikami-sensei had successfully integrated into the Yamamoto family. Yamamoto's parents had a very good impression of her and said frankly that his son, Yamamoto Shisan, would be lucky if he could marry Mikami-sensei back.
To be honest, in terms of enthusiasm, when Teacher Mikami went back to meet his parents with her Chinese boyfriend, before her identity as Girl A was exposed, the treatment she enjoyed was no worse than it is now.
But after the parents of the Chinese boyfriend knew her identity, the difference in attitude was really big. Now there is no burden at all, and they can freely exchange movie experiences with his parents. In addition, the financial conditions of the Yamamoto family are relatively
Her ex-Chinese boyfriend was even better. This was simply the marriage she had dreamed of.
And all of this was brought to her by Master Jiang.
Of course, she also had credit for introducing Master Jiang, a master matchmaker, to her ex-boyfriend Ge Jun.
When the marriage here is truly finalized, I will thank Master Jiang again.
As for Ge Jun, she asked Master Jiang to thank him on his behalf. After all, she shouldn't have too much contact with him. She didn't care, but it might have an impact on Ge Jun.
It was already around nine o'clock in the evening when I left Yamamoto's house.
Yamamoto Shisan drove Mr. Mikami back to her residence.
After getting off the car, Teacher Mikami asked meaningfully: "Yamamoto-kun, we were pretty evenly matched in the poetry competition at noon. I wonder if you are still interested in having poetry exchanges now?"
Yamamoto Shisan recalled the scene of poetry competition at noon and immediately saluted: "Teacher Mikami, I am very interested in poetry competition. I hope this discussion can be more comprehensive and in-depth."
Teacher Mikami said with a smile: "This depends on Yamamoto-kun's efforts!"
Yamamoto Shisan said excitedly: "I will definitely not disappoint Mr. Mikami."
Having said this, the two of them looked at each other and smiled, then went upstairs in tacit agreement.
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After parting ways with Jiang Feng and others, Li Shuixiu went to her parents-in-law's house to pick up her children. Although her parents-in-law did not help with the children, they would occasionally pick them up and play with them. This was why she had time to hang out and relax this afternoon.
After taking the child back and giving her a bath to put her to sleep, Li Shuixiu also took a bath and then played on her mobile phone while waiting for her husband to come back.
Tonight, she was preparing for a showdown with her husband.
They waited until early in the morning before her husband, Saburo Nakata, came back smelling of alcohol.
Now that she is planning to divorce, Li Shuixiu will naturally not make a fool of herself by going to the door to greet her husband and handing him slippers and a briefcase, but will pretend she didn't see him come back.
Seeing this, Saburo Nakata frowned and wanted to curse.
But Li Shuixiu spoke before he cursed, "Nakata, let's talk!"
Feeling that his wife's tone was not right, Saburo Nakata swallowed the curse words on his lips, took a pair of slippers and put them on himself, and asked as he walked in: "What do you want to talk about?"
Li Shuixiu put her mobile phone on the table, folded her hands on her chest, looked at him and said: "Zhongtian, our marriage is in name only. I already knew about your cheating. I have tried to give you a chance during this time.
, but your performance disappoints me so much, let’s get a divorce!”
Saburo Nakata was not surprised that his wife knew about his cheating. After all, he didn't cheat on her occasionally, but blatantly went out to have sex. As his wife, he couldn't hide it no matter what.
Even the fact that he came back late at night every day could be regarded as creating conditions for his wife to cheat on her. He believed that not only he cheated on her, but his wife also cheated on her.
Anyway, this is a normal thing in Japan. For Chinese men, it is a great shame for a wife to cheat on her, but for many Japanese men, it is a sign that their wife is attractive.
And Saburo Nakata is obviously a supporter of this concept.
Everyone was doing their own thing, and no one owed anyone anything. He didn't expect that his wife would accuse him of cheating and ask for divorce. Nakata Saburo shook his head and said, "I don't agree!"
His answer was as expected by Li Shuixiu. She said calmly: "Zhongtian, I ignored the strong opposition of my parents and chose to marry you without hesitation. But have you ever cared about what kind of life I have lived in the past few years?
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In addition to serving you as an uncle, I also have endless housework to do every day. After the child is born, I do everything by myself. Do you know that my life is worse than that of a nanny? "
Saburo Nakata frowned and said: "Shui Xiu, we Japanese women will stay at home to care for our husbands and raise children after marriage. You know this. Isn't doing housework a very enjoyable thing for you women? How can I listen to what you say?
You mean, you feel like you’re having a hard time?”
Li Shuixiu said: "Perhaps for many of you Japanese women, doing housework is a very enjoyable thing, because they regard it as a lifelong career and were trained in housework-related skills by their parents when they were in their parents' homes.
But for me, work is what I like. This kind of never-finished housework is not enjoyment for me, but torture.
There’s also the widowed parenting style, which is really a trap, and I’ve really had enough of it over the years.”
To be continued...