Teaching daughter-in-law, there is a difference between legitimate and illegitimate

Lu was a little aggrieved, and Song Ci's words undoubtedly denied her character.

"I don't want to look at you with a bad intention. I'm just reminding you in advance, because many times, what a person does is often done impulsively. I'm afraid that you will be overwhelmed by your head and do something wrong." Song Ci sighed: "So it doesn't matter if you hate me, it doesn't matter. After all, I'm just your mother-in-law. What I want to tell you is that whenever you want to do something, please think about whether your children are worth it."

Lu pursed her lips.

"You go back and think about what I said carefully. Lu, both are the main wife. I know that the concubine is so annoying. What I said now is not standing in the main wife's position? Treating children with illegitimate children, do you think this reputation is worth it?"

"Mother, I can't be generous." Lu said with a flat mouth.

"Then treat it with a normal heart. I said, I don't expect you to be good to them, just be your responsibility as your legitimate mother. Lu, let alone the concubine's daughter, that is a dowry. And how will the concubine's son be successful in the future? Just like when he becomes an official in the future, he can only be the first wife to be granted the title of the imperial concubine. Why? Because you are the legitimate mother."

This was the case in ancient times. Honors first came to the legitimate mother, and biological mothers had to be sided, all because of the saying "There is a difference between legitimate and illegitimate mothers."

Lu: “…”

The little brat was only a few months old, and she didn't even think that was that far away.

But if that were the case, I guess Bai would be extremely unfair, right?

Thinking of this, Lu's heart became a little lighter.

Seeing that her face had improved a lot, Song Ci said, "I still have another thing, I don't want to say it, but for Zhou'er and others, I will say something more."

"My mother, please tell me."

"It's a foregone conclusion that Bai's entry is coming, so don't think about carrying a few more concubines to share her favor."

Lu's face turned red. Could her mother-in-law still see through her thoughts? She really thought about it.

"In order to seize the food of a bird, you can grab a few more birds and take it away, and you don't feel like it's a mess? The messy backyard is like a mess. It's not only the impact of your mood, but also affects your children." Song Ci talked to the child again and said, "Parents are the children's husbands. Do you think they have seen a messy back house since childhood, which will be good for their growth? Can they be happy? Lu, a simple and clean backyard is always more comfortable than the messy ones, and you can't deny it."

"The old man and I will die sooner or later. Once we two old bones die, the third brothers and others will be divided into families. From now on, you three families live alone in one mansion. If you can't manage it well, it's your ability to be the mistress."

Lu was so scared that he spoke: "Mother, you will live a hundred years old."

It was so scary that if my elder brother and sister-in-law heard Song Ci curse herself for the third wife's destruction, she would not blame her.

"I will be an old fairy who lives for a hundred years, so I won't take it." Song Ci said disdainfully: "I'll say this here, so I won't say more. You have your own ideas. Go back and think about my words. If I were you, I will only do two things from now on. First, sit firmly as a wife and save more private money. The second and most important thing is that raising your children well will be your strongest way out. Don't believe it? Look at me, you are your role model!"

What kind of young couples are no longer reliable when they are together in old age. Many aristocratic families did not promote this, otherwise how could so many men take concubines come from?

So, make more money to raise your children, like yourself, you are very rich, very noble, and more fragrant than chicken legs.
Chapter completed!