1391, fireworks world (25) three in one(2/3)
Lin Yutong asked: "What other medicine did you give me?"
"I didn't dare to give him medicine." Cheng Kaixiu was cautious: "I gave him half a glass of red wine. I was drowsy, but I can sleep at least."
"Have you gone to the hospital for a check-up?" the old lady asked quickly.
"We checked and found nothing wrong, so we are anxious." Cheng Kaixiu said with a bitter face: "I don't know what's going on with this child. He has always been very well-behaved and has never caused anyone to worry about him. This year has been really..."
Several people refrained from saying, "It's not all your fault."
Meiping said: "I have heard of people who have exam phobia. They usually study very well, but they feel dizzy when they take the exam. They are really dizzy! The closer to the exam, the more they can't sleep."
Cheng Kaixiu stopped what he was doing, this sounded a bit reliable.
But when Lin Yutong listened, he felt that this was not just test phobia. In fact, this child had some symptoms of depression.
Because of the child's health, the old couple couldn't care less about the conflict. After the first day of the new year and the second day of the new year, Fourth Master and Lin Yutong took Yinqi, his wife and the child to Mr. Cheng's door.
.came to seek medical treatment.
Because of their good relationship, Mr. Cheng had other opportunities because of those two medicinal plants, and now he is regarded as a special consultant of the provincial health care team. The fourth master came to seek medical treatment for his niece.
Without saying a word, Mr. Cheng led the others to the study. There was a pulse checker on the table. Lin Yutong took Lijun's hand and put it on it. Mr. Cheng closed his eyes and took the pulse. It took about five minutes before he stopped.
Handed.
Mr. Cheng looked at the adults and said nothing in a hurry. Lin Yutong gave the car key to Lijun: "You go down first and wait in the car. Your parents and I will come down in a while."
After sending the child away, Mr. Cheng said: "The child is suffering from depression."
Depression is what Chinese medicine calls it, but it is actually depression.
Mr. Cheng pointed to the position of the heart and brain: "It is not recommended for children to take medicine when they are young. This kind of heart disease needs heart medicine... But it doesn't mean that it doesn't matter if you don't need medicine for the disease..." As he said, he picked up the medicine from the bookshelf at the back.
Turning out foreign magazines, "Our country currently does not have statistics on this, but abroad, the number of people committing suicide due to depression is constantly growing."
Cheng Kaixiu's face turned pale: her child really committed suicide and almost drowned.
It's been a year, and I thought this matter was over, but who knew that such a root was laid. She kept her mouth shut, but she was actually sick.
What Mr. Cheng means: "Pay close attention to the child and don't be careless. Talk to the child often. She actually has mild autism. If the parents intervene and the situation still does not improve, you can come back with the child and we will find a solution.
It depends on whether to take medicine or other means of intervention and treatment."
Yin Qi responded quickly, one after another, but after coming out, her legs were a little weak when going down the steps, and she couldn't get down without holding on to the handrails on the side.
After getting in the car, he still had to pretend that nothing had happened and comfort the child: "Isn't it just that I can't sleep at night because I'm afraid of the exam?" He immediately made a decision: "We won't go to any key points anymore. Next semester, we will transfer to another school and go to our factory."
The attached middle school.”
Although the attached middle school is not a key provincial or municipal key school, it is also a key school in the district. The key is that you can go home at night and pay attention to your children's condition at any time. There is less pressure to study here, and you don't have to always think about doing well in the exam and learning from your specialty.
Moving to a parallel class may or may not help the child's fear of exams.
It makes sense to think so.
The child didn't say anything and went to play on the second floor as usual after he came back.
The old couple seemed to be in a hurry. When they saw that the children had all gone up, they pointed to the living room and asked everyone to come and sit down.
A circle of sofas can accommodate a whole family of adults.
The old man first asked Yin Qi to tell him about the child's situation, but Yin Qi didn't dare to hide it and said whatever he had to say.
After finishing speaking, the old lady cried: "I just said, you can't do this. The child is so old, you can't hide it at all. Why don't you tell the child properly, no matter what happens, break it up and crush it
, explain it clearly to the child. Although it is difficult to take over for a while, it will pass as time goes by." There were some things that the old lady did not say. Situations like this also happened in the factory, and she had seen it. It was nothing more than this.
The child has learned bad things and is misbehaving outside. However, no matter how much mischief is done, the child must have a place to vent. After the mischief is over, the matter will be revealed. I am afraid of this, so I don’t say anything and hide it in my heart.
Can you not get sick?
This is such an old child, and she is still a girl. "In a few years, when the child goes to college or graduates from college, it will be time for the child to think about getting married. I'm afraid the impact of your messy things on the child will not be that small.
After all, your dad and I have a few more years of experience than you..."
The old lady talked about something she had seen when she was still young, "I was still young at that time, and there was a girl two years older than me in the house next door to my house. This girl... her mother used to hang curtains.
The prostitute later became a good person, married her father and had several children, and finally got her. But because her mother was from a bad background, her father would beat her mother up when he thought of it, and no one else would care, he would just say
The woman must have relapsed into her old habit of hooking up with men. Later, when we were older and it was time to talk about marriage, the girl told a young man that the conditions there were not good, and she
As luck would have it, on the day of the wedding, the groom was trampled into the penis by a crazy horse and was trampled to pieces. His life was saved, but it was obvious that he would be useless in this life. Everyone said goodbye
After getting married, even the groom's official family said that there was no need to get married. But she didn't! She wanted to stick to it till the end of her life and never break off the engagement. After getting married, the two of them lived like this. But think about it, a young man
, without that thing, people's hearts have become bad. They beat their wives all day long, leaving whip marks all over their bodies, and they also used pokers to burn their bodies. But even like that, she refused to divorce. In the end,
Her body was so rotten that when she was about to die, she said that she would be clean for the rest of her life, no one would scold her like they scolded her mother, and she would live a cleaner life than her mother..."
After saying this, Yin Qi and Cheng Kaixiu broke out in cold sweat.
What is this? This is a heart disease.
Every child's situation is different, and the couple obviously underestimated the impact of this incident on both children.
The old man also said: "What are your plans for this matter? Are you going to continue to hide it from your children?"
Cheng Kaixiu's hands were clenching the corners of her clothes so tightly that she didn't know what to say.
Yin Qi was speechless for a long time. When the old man wanted to press him again, Yin Qi said: "Xiuxiu and I... plan to remarry!"
Not to mention the others who were surprised, Cheng Cheng was also extremely surprised when the show started. Tears fell from her eyes immediately, and she got up and went directly to the bathroom, fearing that she might lose her composure.
This remarriage means forgiveness and understanding, and it means that the home is still the same home that the child is familiar with. He wants to completely turn over the past events.
The old lady's face changed. She pointed at her son and wanted to scold him. The old man grabbed her hand and pulled her back. "Okay, okay, let's make dinner. The children are hungry. I'll take a break with your mother."
Go, call us when the meal is ready."
The old lady was upset when she saw her eldest daughter-in-law, and she was unwilling to remarry. But the old man said: "He is already running for a man in his forties, why doesn't he understand? He thinks he can get through it, then
You can get through it. No one should say anything."
In fact, as soon as the Civil Affairs Bureau went to work, Yin Qi and Cheng Kai Xiuzhen went to remarry.
After remarrying, the two made another decision, and then discussed it carefully with Lijun. Yin Qi took her daughter and said, "Your mother and I plan to give you a younger brother or younger sister. You see, everyone
It’s a long line of brothers and sisters. You are alone and alone. Your mother and I want another one. We promise that I will still love you the most.”
After saying that, the couple stared at the child carefully.
Lijun almost couldn't believe it: "Are you going to have another child?" Aren't you already divorced? No matter how tightly the divorce certificate was hidden, I dug it out and read it. Aren't you just putting on a show in front of me? You can't put on a show when giving birth to a child.
...Is this really a reconciliation, is everything over?
Yin Qi touched her daughter's head: "It was your mother and I who were at fault during this period. We were both too impulsive. Although parents are adults, adults can also make mistakes. Now we know that we were wrong and we have reflected on it.
I definitely won’t be able to do that in the future. In a few days, let’s go look at commercial housing and buy a big house. We’ll reserve one room for our grandparents, one room for you, and another room for my brother or sister, okay?”
Okay! "I have no objection, but isn't this family planning?"
"Your mother and I don't have public offices, and we are not afraid of being restrained by anyone." Yin Qi communicated with her daughter as if she were an adult. "Go to the staff hospital to get a certificate to prove that your mother's body is not suitable for abortion. After she is born, she will have someone plug her in."
It only costs 10,000 to 20,000 yuan to register an account, it’s not as complicated as you think.”
The family planning policy is strict, but there are still households with more than one child. Up to now, the household registration aspect is still relatively confusing. It is also possible for one person to get several household registrations. It is just to apply for a household registration for the children who have more than one child. It is unimaginable.
So difficult. Of course, the premise is that you have money and can find a way to unblock it.
The two really seemed to have used this method to prove that they were reconciled as before, and they really started to prepare for pregnancy.
After the first lunar month, good news came: Cheng Kaixiu was pregnant.
It is inconvenient for older mothers to live so high up and downstairs. Yin Qi spent 180,000 yuan to buy a 140-square-meter house with three bedrooms and two living rooms. It was a well-decorated model house. It was bought with a mortgage.
Then he asked someone to change it again, and it was 140 square meters. The average area was not that excessive. The area was really not too small. The living room was also very big. After that, he asked someone to separate a 78-meter square in the living room.
The area of square meters can be used as a study. It can also be regarded as a room reserved for the elders. It is okay to live there if they want.
With this method, after the child was transferred to another school, the couple observed the child closely at home and found that it should have improved. At the very least, the child must have fallen asleep at night.
Moreover, these two people no longer force their children to study. They can put them in school and get any test results. On the weekends, they even found a music teacher for their children and asked her to learn drums. I think that thing is there
When she's in a bad mood, she can vent her emotions by kicking and banging for a while. If these things don't fill up her time on weekends, Yin Qi will take her children to the store to help sell clothes. If she stays at home, Cheng Kaixiu will also take her.
, arranging the baby room, etc., or doing prenatal check-ups are all done on Saturdays. Generally, hospitals are still open on Saturdays, so they ask her to accompany them to prenatal check-ups.
Anyway, it didn't leave her any time to think.
In this way, the child fell asleep and his grades did not fall, but improved.
But the granddaughter got better, and the old lady seemed to be depressed. She felt that the old man was going to cheat on her, and her eldest son was living a miserable life, but everyone said she was wrong. Seeing how good her granddaughter was, she couldn't say anything about her eldest son. So,
He seemed depressed and unhappy.
Karma discovered this first and secretly told Lin Yutong in the evening.
Lin Yutong secretly observed her for two more days, and did not dare to say that the old lady was suffering from short-term depression. This short-term bad mood may develop into a mental illness.
What to do?
The building next to the original food factory has now been built. Originally, an office building and a hotel were built on that site.
Now, the hotel can start to be renovated. During the renovation, Fourth Master made some changes, including a catering department and karaoke in the hotel. Now, Fourth Master has built an indoor fitness center.
To be continued...