1206, old sun shade (18) three in one(3/3)
But when she sat down on the kang, Chang Qiuyun handed over a bowl of poached eggs, "Eat it! After eating it, you can sleep soundly."
He told her to sleep with the old lady that night, and Chang Qiuyun went to the wing to sleep by himself.
After all, my grandma is dear to me, so I might be willing to tell her some things.
Lying on the bed, Lin Xiaoxing finally screamed: "Milk!"
The old lady was stunned for a moment, then she agreed, "Go to sleep! It's getting late."
"I want a divorce." Lin Xiaoxing turned over and suddenly said this. Before the old lady could speak, she said again: "I can't do anything well. Su Jin doesn't fucking like me."
"It's weird that they like you." The old lady said bluntly, "If Ohara and O...? find a girl like you, I won't like them either."
"I know you don't like me either." Lin Xiaoxing sniffed and said.
"Whether I like you or not, you are also my granddaughter." The old lady said: "Don't blame others for not liking you first. You have to first see how many things you have done to please people. No matter who says something about you, you should treat it as such."
Hearing nothing. Could it be that your parents and your mother said you were not good for you, but could they harm you? Now you must be suffering. This person may not be able to enjoy happiness in his life, but he will definitely endure hardship. I have lived for such a long time, and I have not yet
I have heard that no one needs to endure hardship from birth to the end of his life. Now it is not too late to taste the taste of hardship. When you are young, you have to endure some hardship, which is not called hardship. I am afraid that it will go smoothly when you are old.
You have to endure hardship only when you come, that is the real hardship."
"Then I have to learn to make her like my hard work?" She didn't want to do this.
"It's not for anyone to like you." The old lady said, "You learn to cook, learn to wash clothes, and learn to live your life like other people. It's not for others to like you. You have to learn it for yourself. Once you learn it, it doesn't matter if she likes you.
, it doesn’t matter if I don’t like you, what does it have to do with you. When that time comes, I really feel that I still can’t go on, even if the worst case scenario is divorce. You also know that it is not your fault, and whoever you divorce can still do it.
To live your life, you have always relied on your uncle since elementary school. When you were older, your parents came back, and you began to rely on your parents again. When you got married, you said you no longer relied on your parents.
But you don’t have to rely on your son-in-law for everything. What about in the future? When you have children and the children grow up, you will have to rely on the children again... You say you are a young man of the new era, but in your heart? When encountering trouble, you will first
Think about looking for this or that. You can't bear a little thing on your shoulders. You have to think that you can't rely on anyone for the rest of your life. If you have children in the future, they will have to rely on you to grow up. Your parents will also grow old one day. They
Maybe there will be a day when I can rely on you. It doesn't matter if you are married to your uncle's family. If someone really turns their back on you and refuses to recognize you, that would be a supercilious attitude. In their situation, maybe they will have to rely on you in the future.
More often than not, all I have to ask is, if they really want you, can you be relied on?"
Lin Xiaoxing turned her face and opened her mouth to say something, but in the end she said nothing.
In the past, my uncle and aunt always said: It's okay Xiaoxing, I have my uncle and aunt here.
Later, my mother said: It's okay, you can do whatever you like, you have a mother.
Before getting married, Su Jin also said: From now on, you will have me, and you don’t have to worry about anything.
Now that her uncle can't go back, they are busy with their cousin's affairs. Her father is not here and her mother is isolated. Su Jin left her in the dormitory to accompany her mother. She really didn't know where to go, so she came here
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But this grandma, whom I was not very close to, said: Don’t rely on anyone, you can’t rely on anyone but yourself.
No one who loved her would say that. But for the first time, she felt that those who loved her didn't necessarily mean they didn't love her.
I don't know if she was tired, but she slept very deeply that night.
When Chang Qiuyun got up to make breakfast, Lin Xiaoxing hadn't gotten up yet. The old lady told Chang Qiuyun, "As soon as she gets up, ask her to go back."
This was because Chang Qiuyun would find Lin Xiaoxing an eyesore.
But Chang Qiuyun couldn't bear the old lady's cautious attitude. The old lady was said to be her mother-in-law, but she was only eight years old when she entered the Lin family. She was more kind to him than her own mother. She didn't give birth to her.
She took good care of herself as a daughter-in-law. Later she became a daughter-in-law, and the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law never blushed. She should have reached the age where she could do whatever she wanted, but now for the sake of this child, she carefully looked at her face.
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She said: "I told you before, you have to look forward in life. With such a child, no one can really pretend that it has never happened. You have to accept it, so why not be awkward. Leave me alone, you can do whatever you want."
After saying that, he went out and said, "The car carrying goat milk for Niu Niu is coming soon. I'll ask you to send a message to her on the way."
So Lin Yutong took the milk and listened to what was brought to her and found out: Lin Xiaoxing ran back to the Lin family to stay last night.
She didn't know why she ran away, she was confused.
When Su Jin came out to buy breakfast in the cafeteria, Lin Yutong asked, "Did you know that Xiaoxing went back to live with the Lin family?"
ah?
I do not know!
"Then let me tell you, Xiaoxing is at the Lin family." After saying this, she went back to make breakfast. She can be particular about it, but her child cannot be particular about it. If you are pregnant, you still need to pay attention to what you eat.
After finishing their breakfast, the Su family mother and son quickly took their things and went to the Lin family.
The old lady asked Lin Xiaoxing to go to the kitchen and stay while she stayed to entertain the in-laws.
The girl ran back to her parents' house in the middle of the night. Aunt Su felt a little embarrassed when she saw the old lady: "...Young man, after a few words, you ran out..."
The old lady didn't say this, she just smiled and asked for tea: "Yeah, she's not sensible. She came back when she heard you were sick, which makes her even more ignorant." After saying that, without waiting for the other party to speak, she asked again.
, "This hospital at the division headquarters is very good. Do you want to go and check it out?"
There is something wrong with her own child, and there may be more wrong things. But as an elder, she can teach her no matter what. But what she despises most is this kind of person who pretends to be sick and manipulates his child.
Seriously! If Xiaoxing is not good, let alone scold her as a mother-in-law, even if she gets angry and hits her a few times, she will not say anything to others. Since she is an elder and a direct mother-in-law, it doesn't matter how she educates her children.
But on the other hand, as a mother-in-law, you are right about everything? You said that you were pretending to be sick and did not ask the two children to lie down together. Is this appropriate? It is appropriate for the elders to sleep in the bed, but you said that you called the two children to sleep together.
What does it mean that your son sleeps on the bed with you and asks your daughter-in-law to sleep on the floor?
This kind of show of force is a bit stupid. It is not easy for a daughter-in-law to integrate into a family, and then he obviously excludes her. Even if he is angry, it is not appropriate to do this.
Aunt Su was also a little embarrassed, but before she could complain, the old lady said again: "...I heard that you came because you had a stomachache because you were worried about the child. You don't know that in the past, this child was raised
It's okay. I just slept in a nest on the ground, and my body was very cold..." So you said you came because of this incident, and you even took medicine for the child to take. You said you were concerned about it, but you still told the child to sleep
On the ground, you say you care about your daughter-in-law, I have to believe this! You said you asked your daughter-in-law to sleep with you on the bed and your son to sleep on the floor, why can't you do this? Then when you cared about your children before, you had a stomachache like this
Is it true... or not?
As soon as these words came out, Aunt Su's face turned red.
The old lady spoke and stopped talking. Then she jumped over and said, "I heard that I secretly sold all the camp beds that were given to me as dowries at home, so that I can help you." Then she looked at Su Jin and said, "Your wife
There is no place to stay, and you don’t even want to send her back to her parents’ home at night…”
Everything belongs to my family. Because my mother-in-law pretended to be ill, she sold her dowry to replenish her health. The big bed at home is still a dowry for my children. You mother and son sleep comfortably, why don't you think of finding a place for her to sleep?
Woolen cloth.
Su Jin felt like her face was burning and she wanted to find a crack in the ground to crawl in.
Aunt Su said in her heart: What they are saying is that when the two children get married and settle down, 80% of the things are prepared by the mother-in-law. Your family wants to occupy the capable father-in-law. If you want to marry so many girls, you can't tolerate this.
There's nothing wrong with the girl. In other words, if my girl is pretty, how can your child be worthy of her?
She pushed the person back slowly. But before leaving, the old lady called Xiaoxing alone, with a stern expression: "I speak for you, not that you are right. I protect you because you are me.
Granddaughter. But living a life relying on the support of your mother's family will not last long. Think about it carefully."
This time Lin Xiaoxing didn't hold back and sent her mother-in-law to the train with Su Jin.
When I came back, I saw Fan Yunqing waiting at the door: "Mom," are you going to be released now?
Fan Yunqing explained in a low voice: "...It's a good attitude to admit your mistakes, and you have to decentralize the front line." Then he looked at Su Jin, then frowned and said to Xiaoxing: "As soon as I came, I heard what the people in your building said, your mother-in-law is here
Now. Where are you now? Are you being stubborn again? That is your mother-in-law. Just listen to what she says, and take care of you when she is sick. This is the duty of a junior. Are you being stubborn again...
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Chapter completed!