1145, long years (162) three in one(2/3)
No one cried during the funeral, and we were not allowed to laugh.
Yes! No one cried!
Qingfeng cried hard in the hospital, and Qingshou cried twice at the entrance of the village. The daughter-in-law didn't cry, the eldest nieces were not there, and the younger ones said they couldn't cry. Li Xianer occasionally howled, but she was tossing and turning.
They all say that if you die, Jin Mancheng, you will be a coward even if you die. If you die, all your uncles and aunts will come to bully me, and no one in the family will help me to speak up.
Occasionally, there are relatives mourning. The female guest comes to cry, but when the female guest cries, the filial daughter of the mourning host's family has to cry with her. The woman cries so hard that the host's house is completely silent. It is quiet and peaceful.
Qingxue followed the two sisters-in-law. Yang Meili was pregnant. She did not kneel down, but moved a stool to sit on the side. Now the five filial daughters who were kneeling and sitting were watching the guests crying with their eyes open. They were full of people.
Curiosity and admiration.
How are these tears able to be released freely?
When they were looked at like this, and they didn’t say anything about crying with them, nor did they come to persuade them with a sad cry, how could they continue to cry? They looked at each other, and it was quite embarrassing.
Huahua acted stiffly and kept her face straight. Yang Meili was forced to come here by Lao Yang, and she didn't think that the funeral had much to do with her. Ye Zi was her nephew's daughter-in-law, she was from other provinces, and she just came back for the New Year.
The first trip was in the county town. As I said a long time ago, I don’t understand anything, so don’t point your fingers at me. Then came Qingjuan and Qingxue. Qingjuan was doing well, but he was acting like a serious actor. I’m sorry.
He couldn't come. Qingxue knelt behind him, looking at his nose and heart, looking like he wasn't disturbed by anything outside.
For example, Yingzi and Yao Siyun didn't go forward at all. They excused themselves as busy with other agendas and refused to go. Ma Xiaoting was frightened and sick, and she didn't leave the front door of her house since she came back. She stayed at home all the time. Later, it was Wu Da
He and Wu Shuang's wife settled the children and came again. The scene was not so ugly.
The people who helped said: Qing Ping and Qing Ning have taken up all the spiritual energy of the Jin family.
But the two girls, who have taken up all their spiritual energy, still won't cry.
Aren't we going to bury someone the next day? The helper on the side said: "Cry, even if you cry, you are a filial son. Just crying is not counted!"
The problem is that we don’t even have tears right now!
Qingjuan followed Qingning, and kept poking at her second sister: "...My brother-in-law and the others are trying to show off their filial piety... This is not good. The grandparents in Liancheng's family are still alive...
…”
As he spoke, he kept looking behind him.
The people on the side started yelling: "Juanzi, I know your son-in-law is good-looking, but I can't look at him at this time..."
Everyone laughed and made Qingjuan blush.
People nearby also said that this girl from the Jin family knows how to find a partner, and each of her uncles is more handsome than the last.
Someone else said Qingxue: "...look like a few brothers-in-law..."
Qingxue lowered her head and did not dare to answer. These people became more and more enthusiastic as they talked.
Qingyue followed at the end, and now she raised her face with a proud smile: "My boyfriend is prettier than my brothers-in-law!"
The kid with a bigger fart still has a boyfriend!
The people around him laughed even more happily.
Some people want to laugh but are embarrassed, so they say something like: "What about a funeral? Be restrained."
Some people on the other side disagreed: "He has so much money in the city that he doesn't stay? I'm so scared, who can cry?"
Even if he is a bad person, the children at home cannot cry. No one from the village came to help and shed two tears. In the final analysis, there is no love.
Lin Yutong and Fourth Master came here by hand. The white cloth was three feet long and did not need to be wrapped around the head. It was the same as tied to the arms. The yard here in Jinmancheng was originally next to the cemetery. The funeral was very close.
A few people who were close to Jin Mancheng said: "This road is too close. We have to go around for several miles..."
Detour?
Will you carry this coffin?
The young men who helped carry the coffin were not happy at first, "Why are you so fussy? Then you made my uncle from the Jin family faint, and he can't remember the way home."
Except for the four invited suona players who made some noise, the remaining sounds were those who carried the coffin and shouted.
As for the filial sons, Qingfeng and Qingshou really shed tears, but they were both grown men who became fathers and could not cry loudly. The faces of the remaining filial daughters were smoother than the other ones.
After sending the person to Lingdi, Fourth Master and Lin Yutong didn't even enter the old man's house. They got in the car and went to the airport to return to the capital.
Qingning and Qingyuan still have to stay, at least for the first seven days. Qingning can go back to the county town and come back to burn paper for the first seven days. Qingyuan has to stay in the town for seven days, and in the evening he has to "beat the deceased". This is a nephew
Go, my son-in-law doesn't have to go.
Yan Yan and Xu Qiang were finally relieved.
Marrying a girl here feels good in everything. It’s just this custom. Most people really can’t stand this torture. If the son-in-law doesn’t come, people in the village will gossip and feel that the girl is not valued in the husband’s family. If the son-in-law comes, this tedious process
Ordinary people really can't stand the etiquette. If there is a special situation, my dear, this is the source of family conflicts. Think about it, the Yue family alone has ten elders on their heads. Now one has gone, and there are
Nine. In addition, there are Qingping and Qingning's uncle's family. The niece and nephew's son-in-law are not much different from the niece when they go to the uncle's house for the funeral. If we count these, there are more than twenty. In addition to our own family's
Elders, such as Yan Yan, have grandfather, parents, uncles and aunts. There are also a long list of uncles, aunts and uncles from the maternal family. Although it is not so complicated, it is just a funeral... and you have to participate. After all, who can not die?
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How many years can people live in the future?
There will be twenty or thirty funerals waiting for me in the rest of my life.
Qingping's sentimental energy came back: the most important thing in a person's life, apart from life, seems to be death.
They always say that funerals happen one after another, "When we grow up, they get old. They welcomed us into the world, and we have to send them away." Then he looked at the child playing at the same time, "When he grows up, it will be another time.
Another reincarnation."
If you think about it carefully, what do people want in life?
Just as he was talking, Yingzi came in. When Qingping saw her mother's dress, her sentimentality disappeared. She immediately exploded: "Why have you changed your clothes again? I told you, I bought them for you. I have to wear them."
If you don’t wear it, put on the old one when you come back. I don’t know what you saved? Who did you save it for? Put it in the cabinet...and then what? Look at my uncle, what did he take with him in the end? He took nothing with him.
Don’t leave!”
So, when you are alive, you should eat when you need to eat, and drink when you need to drink. Don’t be hard on yourself. If you don’t make the mistake of saving three melons and two dates, save again and again. The money you spend on yourself is considered earned. The leftovers
When it comes down, push your legs, what will fall down?
Everyone in the Jin family was buried. Li Xianer cursed the people in the Meng family for two days, and then heard that they didn't even bury anyone. Some people carried the bodies to the police station, and some people were smart and shouldn't stand out.
Rafer, on the pretext of not asking about entering the village, he stopped everyone and waited outside the village.
Only then did Li Xianer react: "Yes! How do we calculate the compensation?"
But when she came to her senses, no one paid attention to her. Huahua and Qingfeng packed their things and prepared to go back to the city. Qingshou extorted a sum of money from the man Yang Meili found, and I heard that he went south with no one.
I didn’t say it. This time the collection was actually very embarrassing.
Li Xianer was suddenly the only one left in the family.
Even though Li Xianer was fussing, there was a difference between having a man at home and not having a man at home. She was not afraid when Jin Mancheng was there. But when Jin Mancheng was not there, even if he was buried not far away, she was afraid in her heart. She was afraid of being alone.
Don't dare to stay at home.
Those who should have returned to the city have already returned to the city. Everyone is busy with their own affairs.
Only Li Xianer is left.
Without Jin Mancheng, the relationship with the other brothers of the Jin family would instantly be different. Sometimes, people still care about their friendship with Jin Mancheng. Now, people are dying, and when they come to her sister-in-law,
What else?
Alone and alone, this kind of grievance and pity cannot be resolved.
And when someone talked about various supernatural events, she became even more frightened.
So I called Qingfeng and said that I wanted to babysit the couple. Qingfeng didn't care, but Huahua refused! You don't care after the birth, my father and mother will take care of the child. Now you can take it if you want it.
Forget about what happened before, don’t you think about it, isn’t this trying to steal the hearts of my parents? Raising a cat or dog can create feelings, let alone raising a child? How can you show your face if you open your mouth and ask for it?
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She grabbed the phone directly without speaking into the phone, but asked the person on the other end to listen. She pointed at Sang and Huai and said to Qingfeng: "...I'm not afraid to tell you that she is dead, so I can put mourning on her.
But as long as she is alive and wants me to live with her, you should give up as soon as possible. If she doesn’t die, I won’t see her! What I say is true!”
Then he hung up the phone directly.
Li Xian'er's heart felt as if something had clenched it, and she fell straight onto the kang.
When I woke up again, I found that I was still on the kang. I turned on my phone and looked at the date. Oh my God! Two days had passed. My whole body was limp and I had no energy at all.
She was afraid that if this was really some kind of disease, no one in the house would know about it until she died.
I feel so cruel in my heart that even if I pay this compensation, I won’t miss a cent of you.
Then I paid 50,000 yuan in compensation, and the matter was settled. Although so many people died in the accident, did people like Jin Mancheng have no fault in themselves? Agricultural vehicles cannot pull people at all, so you have to sit in it. This itself
He is responsible. It is not easy to get a quick verdict of 50,000 yuan. Those who are dissatisfied will not be buried and will appeal.
Lin Yutong was still afraid that Li Xian'er would make trouble, so he asked Yao Siyun to help keep an eye on it. As a result, another three or four months passed, which was not long after the 100-day anniversary of Jin Mancheng's death. Qian Gao could stagger like a roly-poly.
Occasionally, when we sat down, the family gathered around the children to watch the fun. Yao Siyun called and said, "Li Xian'er didn't make any fuss, but... she hired a man into the house. Have you told you about this?"
No!
To be continued...