1112, long years (129) three in one(3/3)
A treat with good wine and good food.
Jin Mancheng said: "...I'm not bragging, you've seen how our family is living these days...the best days...his second uncle's shop alone can now be sold for one million yuan..."
Li Xian'er whispered again: "The two children from the second child's family will all go to the capital in the future. Who do you think can take advantage of a shop in such a good location?" She laughed as she said it, "We can't make mistakes in our future plans...
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Qing'an helped serve the dishes and listened for a while. Then he went to the kitchen and said to his mother: "...I just went to the capital. How can our shop be left open? Whether I rent it or sell it, others are in charge of it."
Are you here? I'm out of my mind, I think it will be easier for them..."
Yingzi patted him: "Don't say anything! She doesn't really think so, she just wants to say something nice to coax her daughter into the house."
Given their courage, she wouldn't dare to do this extravagant thought.
Even if he knew this, it still made Qing'an disgusted.
"Isn't it bad to coax people like this?" he asked.
Yingzi really felt that her son's innocence made people worry: "Do you think my father and uncle are stupid and don't know how to grow eyes? They have a clear mind. As for what they think and plan, only they know."
Everyone knows that the money from the uncle's family will not be transferred to their own home, so they don't know?
In fact, Uncle Xiao told his brother sincerely: "If it's the second brother of the Jin family, then I don't think it's a problem. The couple is kind... Even the third brother's family is good... They're not people who just talk and talk.
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Dad Xiao smiled bitterly: "We can't just look at others, we have to look at ourselves. There are many people with good conditions, can our family be matched with others?" He sighed, "At the dinner table, not to mention taking the initiative to help serve the food... Nowadays,
Not married, not coming in, this is all easy to say, there is nothing wrong with being more reserved. But look at the way our children eat... That child from the Jin family is always eye-catching when he picks up food for her, and it is really embarrassing...
But this is for our children. I just don’t like it, and I can’t find fault with it. Looking at Huahua, my mother is used to eating alone. In our own family, we don’t care. The child eats more and less
After taking a bite, no one said anything, and everyone was used to it. But when it came to other people's homes, who would see such irresponsible behavior? Therefore, I was thinking about it in my heart. I couldn't just look at other people's shortcomings, but our own children's.
We have to look at the shortcomings... wait two days, when we get to their house, we'll look inside and out, and we'll talk about it then..."
Over there, Li Xian'er asked Yingzi: "Where is the key over there at Tong?"
Yingzi and Yingzi were neighbors in the village yard. Yingzi kept holding the key and went back to tidy it up when he had time. At this moment, Li Xianer asked for the key, and Yingzi became alert: "...What do you want to do?"
Li Xian'er blushed: "...We only have one courtyard, so I'm afraid that others will pick problems."
Yes! If there are two sons in the family, there must be at least two houses. Otherwise, what's the point of having two sons crowded together? Now when talking about a daughter-in-law, the woman has to ask whether the house is for the eldest son or the younger son.
. Should we separate out the big ones or the small ones?
The division means that you have to buy a homestead and build a house by yourself, which means the burden will be heavy.
Usually, if this is the case, the woman will have something to say. Either she disagrees, or she agrees with additional conditions. For example, if you give her an extra 10,000 yuan as a bride price, we will give the money to our daughter to build a house for our two children in the future.
It can be used in the house.
Li Xian'er was acting evil and wanted to use the yard owned by Fourth Master and Tong Tong in the town.
Of course Yingzi didn't agree.
If in the future you clear out your yard and Qingfeng doesn’t have a house, Huahua calls her father over. Her father points to the fourth child’s house and says, “We agreed back then, we agreed to this.”
The entire courtyard is for my daughter to live in..."
What to do then?
Laosi and Tong are both decent people, and they would never get into a dispute over the same yard.
But why should this be cheaper for you?
That doesn’t make sense!
Yingzi said to Li Xian'er: "That's almost it. Did you forget who helped repay the usurious loan? Where is the IOU..."
Li Xianer immediately stopped talking, ignored Yingzi, turned her face and left.
Ying Zixin said, if it were another sister-in-law, she wouldn't be able to interfere in this business. But Tong is my sister, and you are plotting against my sister and you want to take advantage of me. Do you think I'm stupid, or do you think I'm easy to bully? Tong wants to save face, I
But there is no need to save face. If Tong doesn’t want to say anything, I will naturally stand in front of him and say it. I really don’t care if I offend others or offend people like you.
Just show off your face to me. If you can, you will never talk to me.
Li Xianer felt that it was true to say that "people are poor but have short ambitions"! She really didn't dare to do anything to Yingzi. Now that she wants to marry her daughter-in-law, Yingzi will be used in many places.
When he was about to go back from the county town, he went to Yingzi again: "...I won't be polite to my family... Huahua doesn't have a dowry... We have more to prepare here. This quilt is usually a dowry from the natal family.
, I don’t have a dowry, so I have to prepare it myself. I mean eight quilts, four uncles, one for each family. I will go to my natal family for the remaining four beds..."
Want an extra bedding?
This would be too much to ask for in rural areas.
Life was difficult back then, it was not easy to marry a wife, and there were no such rigid arrangements for tasks.
But having said that, each family has paid a lot for Qingfeng’s marriage. The fourth child and Tong spent more than 10,000 yuan because the eldest couple took them away. The third child also arranged a place to live, which was good.
Thousands. On my side, I have to pay for food and drink, and I have lost a thousand. A quilt costs more than a hundred yuan, and no one really cares.
When getting married in rural areas, it is important to sew quilts at home instead of buying them.
But it actually doesn’t cost much.
Yingzi should simply accept it. If you have accomplished this step, why not be more generous? At least you can earn a good reputation.
After Qinghui sent the person away, Qingping said, "Why don't we make my aunt and my third aunt together at our house."
Yingzi had the same plan and called Tong and Siyun, "Don't even prepare it. I'll just leave it at home and do it myself."
Yao Siyun called the third child: "Go buy cotton and send it to the second sister. If you want to make it, make it thicker..."
There are heaters in the city, but if the quilt is thick, it will not work to cover the hot ones in winter. But in the countryside, thickness is important! There are quilts with three pounds of cotton, there are four pounds of cotton, there are eight pounds of cotton, there are ten pounds of cotton.
Yao Siyun bought fifty kilograms directly, "Three quilts and three mattresses, they are definitely the thickest."
The purpose is to ask relatives and neighbors to see if these brothers are like Li Xian'er said, who don't care about anything.
She now runs a traditional Chinese medicine clinic, and people from the same village also like to come there. They often say that the parents are richer than the western ones. Some people imitate Li Xianer like her, "Your elder sister-in-law said outside... It costs tens of thousands to marry a daughter-in-law.
One person is willing to lend a hand..."
This was before going to Gansu Province.
This time she spent the money just to slap Li Xianer in the face.
The third child felt that Yao Siyun was becoming more and more lively.
After the Xiao family experienced luxury, when they arrived at Jin Mancheng's house, to be honest, they felt a little disappointed.
The only thing that is better than my own home is that when you turn on the faucet, the water flows out. And if you compare it carefully, it may not be any better than your own home.
After all, my home has a large 24-inch color TV, but what about this one? Oops! 12-inch black and white!
By the way! There is also an old bicycle, and there is nothing big in it.
Uncle Xiao is a smart person. When he got here, he chatted with people in the alley, all over the place. Then he found out the news. What are the rules of marriage here, how are the betrothal gifts required?
Cleared.
So, when we sat down to talk about the marriage, they said: "...20,000 yuan is just for the masses, let's follow this. Don't say we won't give a dowry, we will give it. The bed, wardrobe, etc. in the new house,
We have provided a complete set of sofas and TVs. There are also beddings, and we have provided... four beds..." There are eiderdown quilts sold in the mall, so let's buy them. After all, it will cost more than 10,000.
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In fact, before, we planned to have a smaller betrothal gift and not give a dowry. Later, the Xiao family uncle muttered to his brother: "In the future, they will not accuse us of asking for a small betrothal gift, but they will only blame our children for not having a dowry. I have to ask for 20,000 yuan.
Even if we spend our own money on a dowry for our child, we still need the 20,000 yuan, even if we secretly give it to Huahua and ask her to keep it. If the child has no money, it will be inconvenient for him to do anything. Even if he is bullied, he will not be able to leave even if he wants to...
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Dad Xiao was right! That’s the truth.
Marrying a daughter in your own family must be the same as your rules here.
We brought a bride price of 20,000 yuan and bought a TV as a dowry.
Chapter completed!