Long years (81)

Qing Ning felt that Qing Ping's mouth was extremely tight.

She doesn’t talk about her own affairs, and she doesn’t talk about other people’s affairs. She doesn’t talk much about anything except trivial matters that don’t hinder her.

Not only don’t you tell yourself, but you don’t tell others either.

The mouth is extremely tight.

She is becoming less and less talkative, but she is very serious when listening. Even when people get along with her, she is willing to talk to her without knowing it. She seems to know how to tell her that it is okay, and she never talks nonsense.

After they left, Qingning told her mother this.

Her mother said: "That is a quality and a skill."

Really not everyone can do this.

Lin Yutong told the children about various people, "For example, your uncle and your aunt, do you dare to let them know what's going on at home? No way! After listening to this, the world was full of people without publicity for three minutes after leaving the house.

Everyone knows that it's not him anymore. They are sincere and will blame whoever eats the food. For example, with the Sydney incident. Did they help? They helped the couple a lot. But when I asked for it, I didn't ask them.

I came back empty-handed. Either things were done, or I gave money and things. Of course, you don't like this, thinking that they are just coming to beg for food. Let's not talk about this first, just say that Xueli gave them face

Well, what's the result? When have I come back and not told the villagers about the Xueli family? What kind of man often eats at his first wife's place? His mother-in-law is here, and people from his hometown are here, but they only stay at his first wife's place. You said, she went there

In such a short period of time, did she witness these things with her own eyes? Could it be what Xue Li said? Seeing it with her own eyes is a fluke. Why would Xue Li talk about these troublesome things to a fellow member of the same clan who just hit the 18th pole? She still dislikes those in her hometown.

Doesn’t she have a bad reputation? Then how much of what she said is true and how false is it? Others help you, but you spread rumors to others. If you know a family well and have a good relationship with a family, you will be more willing to talk to outsiders.

The rights and wrongs of other people are just a matter of adding jealousy and are not really true. It is because they are on good terms with them and are "ours" with them. Three points of truth has become eight points of truth. So you see, who can deal with them?

For a long time? We have no choice. If they were friends, they would have fallen out with each other a long time ago. I was good with Fenglan's brother, and said that Fenglan's brother had someone outside... Then the two of them fell out, your aunt said

Fenglan's brother blocked him in the street and asked him to repay the debt he owed to others. Look! It's embarrassing or not. They were just like the same person since they wore crotchless pants, but now they are falling out. So.

Ah, when making friends, you must know exactly who she is. If she tells you about this and that of another friend, you look at them as if they are good friends, turn around and she tells you about her friends.

Secrets and rights and wrongs seem to feel closer to you. Then you should stay away, thinking that if she turns her back, she will tell another person about your rights and wrongs. This is because she knows that what she is doing is wrong, but she still does it. She feels unhappy.

Be convinced and challenge all kinds of things."

Qingning and Qingyuan sat on the edge and listened. Qingyuan even poured water for his mother and told her to moisten her throat.

Lin Yutong drank, put down the cup and then said: "But there is another kind of person who is also very scary. What kind of person? He talks fast but doesn't talk about things, speaks his mind straight, and is biased. You have an impression of him. It's the person in the alley.

Han Cai'er lives here, your Aunt Cai'er, do you know?"

Qingning nodded: "I used to pull impatiens flowers at her house."

Yes! That's her.

"This person is very good. She is very enthusiastic when anyone has something to do. When the fields are too busy, she is willing to help. When someone needs help, she never hesitates. This is a good person. There is no one in the alley.

No one would say that she is a good person. But she is such a person. Let me learn from you. One time when I went back, I wanted to tell your aunt something private, which was about the shop in the county town. It was rare for me to go back when we two sisters talked.

I must have something private to say. But where are you sitting and ask if you have anything to say? What can I say? It's not a big deal. Then they say, "You can say it."

If you tell me, I’ll just sit here. It doesn’t matter, I won’t listen, and I won’t tell others if I hear it. Then I’ll tell them or not tell them. I don’t want to tell them. Is there something wrong with telling others about my income? Don’t tell them.

Well, you see, I have offended someone. She still doesn’t think it’s her fault, she just feels that you don’t treat her as one of your own. Then I can’t talk about serious things, so I start gossiping, in order not to make her feel

I was perfunctory with her, and I was specifically talking about the Lin family's affairs. It was normal for the sisters to talk about some things about their parents' families. I was perfunctory. In the end, she listened to half of it and left. But wait until I tell your aunt what I want to say.

Now that the story has been told, when I went out and was about to come back, I ran into you Honeysuckle Mama, and they asked, Tong, your dad had an amputation. I said how did you know that? My sister said it. They said no, it was Cai'er.

She said what you just said."

Qingning was dumbfounded, "If there was a secret, she would have leaked everything."

"That's right!" Lin Yutong said. "She is close to Ding Aimin, the couple next door to us, but someone stole her bicycle and sold it, saying it was stolen by a thief, so she believed it. Everyone in the alley knew the truth.

But I just didn’t dare to tell her. I was afraid! I was afraid that she would ask Ding Aimin and tell me that so-and-so told me that you sold my bicycle. The person who told her the secret might offend others because of his good intentions.

.As time goes by, she was the last to know about anything happening in the village. No one dared to tell her."

"The two examples I mentioned are both extreme. But there is no shortage of people with similar attributes in the world. Some people are just more obscure and harder for others to discover. So you must be careful when making friends. You can't have people like that around you.

The kind of person who can stab you in the back at any time. Whether she does it intentionally or not!"

The two were taught.

Qing Ning also thought thoughtfully, "When you tell me, I really feel that there are people like this among my classmates. They love to tell me secrets and other people's secrets..." Maybe she will tell her the secret after she knows it.

Let others listen.

Lin Yutong said: "What is a secret? What God knows and the earth knows, I know and you don't know, is the secret."

The fourth master shook the newspaper in his hand and thought to himself: It seems that she knows a lot of secrets that I don't know. She can hide things in her heart.

People who think they are hiding very well will show their tails without realizing it. They are a little complacent because of the children's praise.

What is a person who hides his or her secrets?

Even though I know you have secrets, I can still make you think that I haven't discovered them at all.

Be proud! Demo! Let’s see how long you can be proud.

A proud person is sought after by his children. This one says: Mom, buy me a game console during the Chinese New Year.

OK! No problem at all.

The one said: Mom, I will also wear jeans this year. I think my third uncle looks good in them...

Okay! This is all trivial.

Then I really took the time to go shopping with my children. I bought a bunch of useful and useless things and came back, Mom for the Chinese New Year! Just be happy!

On New Year's Eve in 1993, we had lunch at twelve o'clock. The family drove back to the mayor and, as usual, invited the old lady home to celebrate the New Year.

The fourth master took Qingyuan and several other brothers to the ancestral graves of the Jin family to bring the ancestors' shrines back home.

A girl like Qing Ning would not be taken care of.

So sometimes in rural areas, it is really short of breath to have no son, and it manifests itself at any time. These rules and other rules are constantly reminding me that I can't live without a son.

If you don’t have a son, you won’t have a pot to cover. If you don’t have a son, no one will burn paper during the Qingming Festival. If you don’t have a son, no one will care about you during the New Year. If you don’t have a son, no one will care about you. If you don’t have a son...

Anyway, without a son, he is a dwarf.

There are five brothers in the Jin family, two sons of the elder, one elder, the fifth, and two step-sons, so there are eight nephews behind them.

People who met him would laugh: "Oh! Lao Jin's family is great, they have many descendants."

But some people secretly murmur in their hearts that half of them are ‘bastards’.

There is never a shortage of people who whisper behind your back.

Every time Qingning comes back and encounters this, she feels uncomfortable, "Why are people's hearts like this?"

When Rendong came in and heard this sentence, he laughed: "When your father and mother grow old, will you take care of them or will Qingyuan and his wife take care of them?"

Qingning smiled and said nothing. She couldn't explain to this person. Of course I'm the one who takes care of my parents. I don't feel at ease when others take care of me. I couldn't bear to talk back to an adult, so I just smiled and asked, "Here comes Mom.

Is everything ready?" It's about things like New Year's goods.

This interruption was an interruption.

Lonicera asked Lin Yutong: "My Yan'er fried sesame leaves this year is pretty good, can I bring you some?"

Lin Yutong pointed to the bag on the table: "My sister has prepared it for us."

Ma Ye is a kind of oily fruit, which is crispy and crispy. Children love to eat it.

Yingzi laughed: "You keep it, the kid won't be able to fry much. Just making noodles is a tiring job. I've prepared all these. Sweet and salty ones are packed separately."

Qingyuan is also holding a plate, which is sweet. The fried noodles are fried, and sugar is put in them when kneading them. When they come out, they are wrapped in honey and then covered with a layer of syrup. Let them dry for a while and then pack them up.

, children love to eat it very much.

Although Yingzi said he had it at home, he still brought it.

When I brought it, I was very enthusiastic and asked Qingning and Qingyuan to try it.

Yingzi took it directly and said, "I've eaten a lot, so I'll put it in it. Also, get a bag to avoid getting oily on your clothes."

Then after Honeysuckle left, Yingzi said to the two children: "Eat my own food, I won't bring that one to you. Her family put saccharin in it. It's not good to eat too much."

In fact, the main thing is that I dislike being dirty.

These things are all made by Yan'er. This child is willing to do any job in the family. He serves his younger brother, eats, drinks and poops, and then cooks.

Even thinking about it makes me feel like I can’t eat it.

People have good intentions and can't refuse it, but if they do, they can't give it to their children.

Qingning likes to eat her aunt's cooking, "Give me more salty food, aunt!"

Her aunt said: "I'm just pretending. I'll cook it for you after I finish eating. If it doesn't work, I'll give it to you again on the fifteenth day of the first lunar month. It won't taste good if you leave it for a long time."

"Listen to her..." Lin Yutong told Yingzi, "She is just greedy. Whatever she eats at this time of year, it is the most fragrant. These things are meant to be eaten sweet during the Chinese New Year. Who eats these things in normal times?"

Yingzi laughed: "It's no trouble. The restaurant is filled with oil every day. It's just a matter of convenience. If you want to eat, just call and ask your second uncle to deliver it..."

He also talked about going to Lao Wu’s house for dinner tomorrow, the first day of the Lunar New Year.

"Zhao Aihua has said it several times, but he is afraid that we won't go." Yingzi sighed, "Actually, in the past two years, I have seen that he is a nice person. He helps anyone with anything. If Xiaowan hadn't been helped by others, she wouldn't have been able to take care of her at all.

Come."

Anyway, compared to Ma Xiaoting's "independence", everyone prefers this gregarious person.

After a while, Li Xian'er came and asked the two of them, "Do you want to bring anything with you to Lao Wu's house?"

Yingzi was surprised: "Look at how talented you are! The fifth child is young, but no matter how young the fifth child is, he is still the elder of the child. You ask the child to hold something, no matter what it is, it is considered."

What's wrong with the older one? The older one doesn't pick up anything when he goes to the younger one's house?

Well, last year when you went to the fourth uncle’s house, you took everything you were supposed to take, and no one came to ask for your opinion. At that time, you understood the truth, and you knew how to ask your children to pay New Year greetings to the fourth uncle and fourth aunt. But when the fifth brother came to see you, this principle became clear again.
To be continued...