Chapter 538 Who is the responsibility
When Chu Tianshu saw the situation, he knew that he couldn't explain it to Grandpa Leng Feng. He was afraid that the old man would get angry and cause an accident, so he didn't dare to tell the old man the truth. He could only say, Grandpa Leng, can you tell the contact information of Leng Feng and his parents?
I, we have something urgent and need to find him.
Grandpa Leng Feng is naturally wary of strangers and refuses to talk about life or death.
Liming was unwilling to give in and continued to explain loudly to Grandpa Leng Feng.
Chu Tianshu stood up and glanced around, and saw a wall calendar next to the telephone in the center of the living room, with several large numbers written on it. He thought that the old man had no relatives or friends in Linjiang, and his eyesight was not very good.
The set of numbers should be the phone numbers left by his family, and they were specially written on the calendar for the purpose of contacting the elderly.
Chu Tianshu pretended to look around, blocking the old man's view, and recorded these sets of numbers on his mobile phone.
Liming's voice became louder and louder, but Leng Feng's grandfather tilted his ears and stared, asking what you were talking about. He didn't know if he really didn't hear clearly or if he was deliberately trying to fool Liming.
Seeing the dawn fire rising, Chu Tianshu grabbed him and said, "Uncle, forget it, let's go back first. Let's discuss it together and see what the next step should be."
Li Ming had no choice but to follow Chu Tianshu out.
On the way back, Li Ming was overshadowed, and she kept thinking to herself again and again, how could Mengmeng get involved with a kid like Leng Feng?
In order to comfort Liming and get a feel for the situation, Chu Tianshu kept talking to Liming and finally got some understanding of the background of Li Meng's running away from home.
Li Meng ran away from home after a quarrel with Liming, but the cause still lies with his mother Zhu He!
According to Liming, Mengmeng had shown signs of abnormality a month ago. He had been on a business trip. Zhu He went to school to find out about the situation from Teacher Lin.
But that Teacher Lin was so irritating and hateful! These were the exact words Zhu He told Liming later.
Chu Tianshu could imagine what Teacher Lin's attitude would be like when he met Zhu Hehui.
Sure enough, Li Ming described the conversation process as he knew it with strong emotions.
When Zhu He came to the school that day, Teacher Lin's attitude was naturally not good at first. She satirized Zhu He in front of other teachers in the teaching and research department: "Li Meng's mother, even though you are a professor, you are really a layman when it comes to educating children.
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Zhu He originally had opinions about the school. He believed that the school and the teachers had a great responsibility for Li Meng's transformation from a good boy who loved to study to what he is now. When he heard Teacher Lin's tone that was not negative and even gloating about misfortune, he immediately got angry.
He said: "Teacher Lin, I have been a teacher for almost 20 years. Why am I no longer an amateur? Are you trying to shirk responsibility by saying this?"
"What responsibility do I have?" Teacher Lin's attitude became even worse. She said, "Professor Zhu, don't think that just because you can teach college students, you can teach middle school students well. Let me tell you, if you were not afraid of hurting your face, Li Meng would have
Can’t you stay in the top class?”
Li Meng's class is a key class in this middle school. The head teacher, Teacher Lin, is Linjiang City's teaching model and an outstanding class teacher in the province. He thinks very highly of himself. Li Meng's grades continue to lag behind in the class, which affects the entire class.
The grade ranking of the class showed that she had long since not wanted Li Meng to stay in this class.
When Li Meng learned about this situation, she developed a rebellious mentality. She simply went against Teacher Lin and went to the worst borrowing class in the school every day. After going back and forth, she got acquainted with Leng Feng.
The class Leng Feng is in is a borrowing class, and most of them are children with poor grades.
Considering Zhu Yongzhi's special status, the principal of the school has always refused to let Li Meng change classes, and only asked Teacher Lin to catch up on Li Meng's studies in the short term.
Teacher Lin was very dissatisfied with this and even had a dispute with the school leaders over this.
She was probably also angry in her heart, so she took this opportunity to vent her dissatisfaction on Zhu He.
Teacher Lin did not expect that Zhu He was better than her in how to be a teacher, and he was also more sincere than her.
Zhu He seized on this sentence and started a serious discussion with him. The two of them became quarrelsome and the situation was so extreme that the discussion finally reached the principal.
But this time, the principal did not criticize Teacher Lin, but scolded Zhu He rudely: "Parents, you can't just care about your own career and turn a blind eye to your children. You have a certain social status and career."
It is relatively successful, but you need to learn to care for your children, learn to communicate, and learn to make friends with your children."
"Stop talking about these big principles!" Zhu He started to lose his composure. She thought that the principal and the head teacher were shirking responsibility and excusing the school. This was wrong. When students have problems, the school must first review its own education, and the school should take responsibility
If you push it all away, what kind of school is this?
Zhu He said: "I hope you can explain. Apart from instilling merit-based theory in your children, what else have you done?"
Teacher Lin rushed to say: "Children nowadays have to rely on their grades!"
Zhu He said: "But my Mengmeng's grades were very good. When she took the unified entrance examination for high school, she was among the top ten in the city. It was you who took the initiative to bring her to your school!"
Not to be outdone, Teacher Lin said: "I have to ask you parents, do you, as parents, know about her drinking, skipping classes, and having puppy love? Have you ever cared about her?"
"But she became like this in school!" Zhu He was angry. She didn't want to shirk her responsibility as a parent, but she wanted to take advantage of Li Meng's changes to alert the school and not to worry about her child's performance slipping.
She was beaten to death with a stick. She was very dissatisfied with the education method that judged quality based on grades, and was even more annoyed that Teacher Lin wanted to change Li Meng's class.
Zhu He argued with the school for more than an hour, but in the end there was no result.
The next day, Li Meng started to skip school. She thought that her mother made a big noise in school, which made her lose face in front of her classmates. Teacher Lin said that it was acceptable for her to drink and skip classes, but she couldn't accept it when she said that she fell in love early.
This made her feel insulted.
Okay! If you say I skip school, then I will skip school for you to see!
Okay! If you say I am in love early, then I will show it to you!
This was what Li Meng was thinking at that time.
Liming was very busy in those days, and she happened to have a big order to be made. She flew around every day to accompany customers to inspect and negotiate. After finishing the order, she went back to ask about Li Meng's study situation, and then she learned that her grades had declined.
He said that he often skipped classes with his classmates to go online or go shopping.
Liming was anxious now. He wanted to talk to Li Meng during breakfast today. However, he lacked the patience and method to communicate with Li Meng. Instead, he was robbed by Li Meng and was overwhelmed. In the end, Li Meng could only
Being able to show off his father's authority and reprimanded Li Meng severely, and said, if you continue like this, don't come back to this home.
He was very angry and said very extreme things. It was probably those extreme words that made Li Meng completely lose confidence in this family and finally made the move to run away from home.
After Chu Tianshu listened to Li Ming's narration, he felt a lot of emotions in his heart.
Whose fault is this?
Schools? teachers? parents? children? It seems that they are all wrong and none are wrong.
Under the existing education system, the whole society is revolving around the baton of the college entrance examination. The quality of schools, the quality of teachers, the honor and disgrace of parents, and the quality of children almost all require scores.
, rankings and enrollment rates, and all the pressure is finally passed on to the underage children. Their immature shoulders are overwhelmed, and what follows is adolescent rebellion, similar to the tragedy of Mengmeng running away from home, which is popular across the country.
It is performed almost every day in various places.
Chu Tianshu thought that if one day he could be in charge of a political party, he would first find ways to liberate the local children from the shackles of scores and create a space for them to learn freely.
Alas! Thinking of this, Chu Tianshu smiled silently again, feeling that his idea seemed too naive.
Today, as the industrialization of education intensifies, the college entrance examination is still the only fair arena for children from ordinary families. The so-called quality education, the so-called independent enrollment, the so-called recommendation, these measures to reform the education system may end up being just a formality, or
Hiding dirt and evil has not brought good news to the children of ordinary people.
Returning to Zhu Yongzhi's home, when Zhu He heard that Li Meng had run away with a boy who was studying in the class, his legs softened and he almost fell to the ground. Fortunately, Ning Xin was beside her and helped her to the sofa.
Leng Feng, bad boy, run away... these words were like a stirrer stirring in Zhu He's heart, almost crushing her heart.
It's so terrible that her daughter actually ran away from home with a bad boy!
Mengmeng, Mengmeng, come home, mother loves you! For a long time, she called out affectionately in her heart. At this moment, she truly understood what a mother's responsibility is.
A black cloud rose up and covered the house heavily, and Zhu He felt like he was suffocating.
Mrs. Zhu cast her hopeful eyes on Li Ming and waited impatiently for him to speak.
However, Liming didn't know what to say. He looked at Zhu He on the sofa, then at Zhu Yongzhi who was sitting upright, and said nothing.
Mrs. Zhu couldn't accept Li Ming's attitude. She said excitedly: "Where is my granddaughter? You kicked her out. You have to get her back for me!"
Li Ming's face changed, her body couldn't stop shaking, and she almost couldn't control it.
Mrs. Zhu asked again: "Where is my granddaughter? What did you do to her?"
Faced with the condescending attitude of her old mother-in-law, Liming, who was about to get angry, was suddenly speechless. She let out a long sigh, stood up and walked into the study. She took out her mobile phone and kept calling, asking familiar people if they had seen Li Meng.
Mrs. Zhu was so angry that she was shaking all over, and Zhu Yongzhi, who had been silent, spoke.
"Zhu He, Liming!" Zhu Yongzhi stood up suddenly and said angrily: "Look, you two, do you look like parents? The responsibility for Mengmeng to reach this point is all yours!"
Chapter completed!