What Jia Zhang said here made the three elders and Xu Damao angry to death, and their feelings were both helpful and wrong.

Each of them had to take 10 yuan as a gift. This kind of thing had happened to him in the courtyard house. There were some poor children in the courtyard house. They married three uncles who were in charge. It would be very helpful to learn more about the betrothal gifts.

It is a normal thing to help the married family.

But generally speaking, even if you take a little more, it is only 3 yuan and 5 yuan at most, which is considered to express your feelings. Otherwise, why would you call me the steward?

The steward should be able to keep a bowl of water and be able to help the people in the courtyard. Only Hui'er and the neighbors will accept you as the steward. Otherwise, who would end up with multiple stewards for no reason?

Woolen cloth?

In fact, even if Jia and Zhang are not mentioned, the three uncles will probably not get less than 5 yuan this time. This is basically the practice of courtyard houses. As long as it is suitable for young children and those in need,

When three people in charge are married, if the eldest brother is still in office, the amount of 3 to 5 yuan will never be less. The minimum is 3 to 5 yuan. This is already quite high for a person to pay as a gift.

The elder likes to express himself. Basically, he will give 5 yuan each time if it is more, and 3 yuan if it is less. It depends on the family situation.

The second uncle and the third uncle generally depend on how much the first uncle gives. If the first uncle gives 5 yuan, then the second uncle and the third uncle basically give three yuan and two yuan.

If the first uncle gives three yuan, then the second uncle and the third uncle basically give one yuan and everything is done. There is no hard and fast rule about the amount of money given as a gift, it just depends on the situation.

It was never said that when it comes to weddings, people just say that the people who come to the wedding must give a certain amount of money as gifts. This kind of thing has never happened in the entire courtyard, or even in this street. I can't afford to embarrass this person.

This kind of gift money is basically agreed by convention. Even if the relationship is good, if you give more, it will not be too much, so basically no one will have any requirements on the money in the water. You have a banquet for them.

Everyone comes to have a good time, which is an act of bringing the neighbors closer together.

Basically, there is a convention on how much money people can pay.

Not too much, not too little. It depends on whether the relationship between your two families is good. If the relationship is good, give more. If the relationship is good, give less. But you will take the overall situation into consideration and won’t give too little.

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But Mrs. Jia and Zhang are indeed a bit ungrateful. Giving more money and giving less money is just a sign of affection. Even if you don’t give it to others and don’t come to the banquet, it’s still your duty, so you forcefully ask others to follow the gift.

No matter how much money you have, this is indeed a bit unkind and does not respect martial ethics.

The first uncle was also a little unhappy and said: "There is no such custom for this kind of thing. How much does it cost to have a banquet with gifts?"

Basically, there is an agreed-upon convention, not just for your family. Our courtyard, our street, and even our district basically have certain rules.

Even when Huairu married into your family, there were already agreed upon rules on how much the banquet and gifts would cost.

You should know this kind of thing in your heart. This is a critical time for Jia and Zhang, and it is also a relatively important thing for Banggeng. After all, marriage is a major event in life.

As a grandma, please don't make any excuses for me at the last minute. We finally got this thing done, and now we are in this situation where we are just waiting to hold a banquet and announce that the two children are adults. You

This thing is a temporary thing, what do you want us to do?

Is it really because of you? We will inform everyone who wants to have a banquet. The money in the water must be doubled. There is no reason for this. We have already planned the whole thing. Do you have to

Now that things have happened like this, do you think Bangge’s marriage is going too smoothly?

Mrs. Jia Zhang said a little reluctantly: "Didn't I already agree with you just now?

I am not doing this for myself, I am doing it for my grandson."

Xu Damao was a little annoyed at the side, and he came back unceremoniously and said: "Banggan is getting married to the couple. At least the work of temporary workers is definitely no problem. Zhu Zhu and I will be responsible for the arrangements, not to mention the regular workers.

Be sure to make arrangements for them.

Because regular jobs are indeed very rare now, but at least temporary jobs are absolutely no problem. If the couple is willing to work hard, it is not impossible to get regular jobs in a few years.

The key depends on whether the two of them are willing to work hard. As long as they get approval from the factory, it is not impossible for temporary workers to become regular workers.

So at least the couple must have no problem living their lives. Don't you think that raising the money for this gift is for the sake of the couple?

Haha, this time the young couple got married, which was quite troublesome. It not only alarmed our factory but also alarmed the street office. If this thing goes on smoothly, then everything else will be easy to talk about, but if it doesn't go well,

If so, it's hard to say what the outcome will be.

As a grandma, you need to think about it carefully. There are some things that cannot be solved by you or Pan. For example, how much money should we pay with the gift? Why should you say how much it is? I won’t talk about this kind of thing. In your heart

I understand what you are thinking. Why do you want to increase the gift money? You should know for yourself. Do you want to get more money so that you can have money for retirement in the future?

Don't use this kid's name to benefit yourself.

At this time, in this case, Mr. Jia Zhang, just wait for me to make arrangements. Don't do anything for me here. Otherwise, the person who comes next time will not be me, but the security department in our factory.

The people over there.

After Xu Damao resumed his position, he began to speak like a leader. At least he would have no problem getting the Jia Zhang family.

Therefore, Xu Damao's serious speech really has a bit of leadership style. Although there is some intention of using the tiger's skin as a banner, there is absolutely no problem in trying to deal with the Jia and Zhang family.

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These two sentences also directly frightened Jia and Zhang. If they really wanted to protect someone coming over there, they would not be able to deal with it with just a few words.
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