"Brother, I have seen more joys and sorrows among young men and women than anyone else!

"I'll tell you some of the most thrilling things I've seen with my own eyes..."

Chen Baicao really wanted to hear it. After all, she was a woman and her curiosity was very strong, but the time was not right.

She's going to host a big event!

So he stopped him and said, "Stop it! If you have too many stories, I'll ask that Wenren Yixin to interview you later..."

"I guess some people like to hear it; let's get down to business now. Where did we end up talking?"

"Okay! Brother, listen to me! I'm still on the media."

Chen Baicao said: "There is a purpose for men to marry and women to marry to cooperate.

"The most fundamental purpose is for the two of them to form a forever family and enjoy eternal happiness.

“If it’s just a momentary impulse and we go our separate ways after it’s done, it defeats the purpose.

“If a man and a woman often divorce after they get married, then where can a permanent family be organized and where can happiness be enjoyed?

"Obviously it's not okay to gather and leave together too casually.

"So, I came up with a way to communicate with the media.

"Matching means planning, and concubine means deliberation.

"You don't understand the meaning of these two words, and you don't understand the two words combined, so you have to start from the beginning.

"Both men and women really want to get married.

"Inquiry or saw that there is a marryable person in a certain family somewhere.

"Of course you have to fight against your own gender in addition to the three servers.

"Then ask your relatives, friends or neighbors, always young, virtuous and reliable people, to come out and be a matchmaker.

“That is to say, we must first discuss whether these two people are worthy of each other.

“What is your age, what is your appearance, what is your temperament, what are your talents, and what is your daily behavior?

"And anything else that needs to be determined first.

"Everything has been considered, and then we go to the other side to say that this action is a pass, a pass through the media.

"Then, on the other hand, the same goes for hiring a matchmaker.

“I also went to meet the other party’s matchmaker after understanding the other party’s basic situation in advance.

“The matchmakers from the two families met formally to exchange information and see if they were a match.

“To achieve a successful marriage, you must meet the basic requirements in order to be successful.

“Actually, it’s not about success, it’s about meeting the basic requirements, otherwise there would be no need to continue talking.

"After the matchmakers from both families have discussed and decided, and everyone agrees, then we can set a date for the wedding ceremony.

"Everything is accomplished by two matchmakers running back and forth, so it's called a matchmaker.

"There are several advantages to following this method, and I won't bother to explain them to you one by one.

"It's better for you to tell your children and grandchildren.

"The first benefit is that it can avoid the stimulation of sexual desire between men and women..."

It has to be said that the traditional way of concluding marriages in China can be called a high-rise, far-sighted and towering building.

Because it has solved many problems in a forward-looking manner, it has contributed greatly to the stability of the family and even the stability of the country.

Even in later generations that advocate free marriage, truly upright people still uphold the essence of it.

Only extremely selfish people would regard this as a personal pursuit goal.

Even as a means to satisfy one's own personal interests.

Such behavior actually means there is no real love.

Because true love is for your lover, you would rather sacrifice yourself.

It is conceivable that an extremely selfish person could sacrifice himself for the sake of his lover.

In this pursuit, pushed to the extreme, the people closest to you become your own worst enemy.

Therefore, the marriage regulations implemented by Chen Baicao are consistent with the traditional marriage content of the Chinese nation.

Everything is as big as the country, as small as the family, and the overall interests are put first.

Only when the country and family can exist safely can individual happiness be guaranteed.

Although Chen Baicao is very clear about these deeper and more comprehensive principles.

But when it comes to the old city lord Lamech, we can only start with the specific content.

Otherwise, he would be even more confused as Monk Zhang Er.

Therefore, after mentioning the first benefit, Chen Baicao also gave a detailed explanation.

“If a man and a woman discuss things directly among themselves, there may be many disadvantages.

"Although the parties involved in both parties have the intention to choose carefully, the problem is that they are both young.

“When a man and a woman meet in a state of passion, their prudent choices are often no match for the lustful impulse.

"It's not uncommon for the two of them to be so eager for success that they have no time to think carefully. They even fight on the spot.

"Now that there is a matchmaker talking in the middle, the matchmaker is also a relative, a friend, and a middle-aged, virtuous and reliable person in the neighborhood.

"Then when it comes to whether a man and a woman are compatible, of course, we should be careful and cautious so as not to make mistakes. This is the first benefit.

"Of course, if the person who acts as a matchmaker makes a poor choice and she doesn't have the ability to be a matchmaker, problems will still arise.

"Also, the matchmaker is generally good, but when it comes to that business, she may occasionally be unreliable.

“It also turns a good marriage into a problematic marriage, with harmonious couples quarreling all day long and turning into enemies.

"But such exceptions can be solved by strengthening the professional quality of matchmakers.

"They can also improve in practice and improve their professional level at the expense of one or two couples having some problems.

"At the same time, I have also prepared a big move to improve the overall performance of these future matchmakers.

"This big move is, what, I plan to open a matchmaker training class!

"In short, once you have a starting point, you can gradually improve. Do you understand this, Brother Lamech?"

"I understand! But I don't quite understand...can I join your matchmaker class?"

Old Lamech was particularly interested in anything hosted by this old girl.

"Matchmaker training class! Of course! You are my first student."

Since Chen Baicao was going to hold classes, he naturally opened the door to students.

"Very good!"

Old Lamech was so happy that he was a student for the first time in his life.

Chen Baicao went on to talk about it as an exercise before the start of class.

"The second benefit of using media is that it can avoid treacherous and sneaky behavior.

"The men and women cooperate on their own. If both of them are sincere, then that's fine.
Chapter completed!