Junwen waved his hand: "If you don't drink the wine you give me, you will drink other wines. If you don't drink it, you will get drunk. If you are drunk, you have to say what you should say. Even if you don't say it today, you will say it sooner or later... The first time I went to her house with her, her relatives were there. I ate my half-year salary that day, and it started to fight like today. Why? When Wanping's mother came to the door to invite someone, she first invited the fifth family, and then the third and fourth family..."

So, it’s not bad for anyone! Wanping himself said that every year when you go back to your uncle’s house on the second day of the Lunar New Year, you have to eat quickly. Otherwise, you will have to fight before you finish your meal.

The old lady was in the hospital, and it was better to have one shot: "After a quarrel, I had a pot lid on my head!" Then she asked, "What did you say? Will you change this day?"

Because my elder sister said, "Mom, I really look down on that family..."

"How can there be a thing in this world that is full of all corners?" The old lady said, "It's better to make a fuss, let's make it clear. Tell Junwen's wife not to get too involved with those relatives. It's better to just tear it apart and save trouble in the future... Anyway, the trouble is unpleasant now, and it's better to make excuses... If she can't understand the interests here, it means that the girl is not clear-headed, forget it. If she can understand the truth and knows it's for them to live a good life in the future, then forget it... If Junwen is happy, just call it a knot. If she has it in her belly, what should she do if she doesn't knot? It's delayed her daughter for the rest of her life."

Therefore, the wedding day is set on the 28th day of the 12th lunar month. In the provincial capital, there is an old friend who is old because of the old relationship between the elder sister and the couple, so they have to say to everyone: My son is married.

So, I have to go back to the provincial capital this year to live.

Yin Wei said on the way: "From now on, you must not find a family member behind you."

I felt that Ning Hai’s conditions were really an advantage in terms of the other direction.

It was the 26th day of the twelfth lunar month, Ning Hai called and said, "...I went to a village today and bought a ham in that village. It was said that it had been eight years. The ham made in the store last year is now taken out of the cellar and I tasted it. It tastes very good. The ham that has been up and down for ten years will taste better... Otherwise, I will send it to you..."

Why: "..." How do I tell my parents?

Ning Hai's eyes darkened for a moment and said, "I'll send it to you, and you said you asked your classmates to take it."

That's not what it means.

But she still said, "Okay! Call me when you are here."

It must be around 10 o'clock on the morning of the 27th. Why did her cell phone ring? She was in the bedroom and quickly picked up. Ning Hai's voice came: "I'm here at the Textile Factory now, your house is not far from here."

The background sound is very noisy, it is the sound of the No. 9 bus.

"You can take two more stops and get off at Century Building." As he said, he took his clothes, "I'll wait for you at the station sign."

Lin Yutong was asking the Fourth Master to try the fried meatballs, but when he saw Yin He put on a down jacket outside his home clothes and ran out, he hurriedly reminded him: "You pull up the chain of clothes!"

The wind blows to my chest, I don’t know how cold it is!

Why did he respond: "I will be back in a while."

When he ran over, he happened to see Ning Hai getting out of the car with a white bag. When he saw his eyes lit up, he smiled. Then he walked over and said, "Blame me, I should have notified you long ago. You're anxious. You ran out without changing your clothes?"

Why did he take what he had in his hand? "So heavy!"

Can a pig's thigh not sink?

Ning Hai didn't say much, just said, "Go back quickly, it's so cold outside." As he said that, he was about to turn around, "Then I'll leave, I can catch the bus when I go back..."

Looking at Ning Hai's back turning around, his nose suddenly became sore, and tears flowed down for some reason. On the twelfth lunar month, he got up in the middle of the night and had to carry four or five miles to get on the bus, then take the bus to the county town, then take the bus to the county town bus station, then take the bus to the provincial town, get out of the provincial town station, and carry this thing to squeeze the bus. It took more than an hour on the road. When was there fewer people on the bus? It was not crowded? He was about to leave without even breathing, because he was afraid that this was at the entrance of his community and asked an acquaintance to see it.

At this moment, her hand was faster than her brain, and she grabbed Ning Hai and stuffed the thing to him: "Please carry it, follow me, my parents are all at home today."

Ning Hai: "..." He was suddenly at a loss. He was not mentally prepared to meet his parents now.

He thought that when he graduated from college, bought a house, renovated it, and passed the civil service exam, and ensured a stable job, and then he had a little face to come to the door. Now he wants nothing, but he comes to the door with a pig's leg?

Is this arguable?

He quickly said, "From now, I'm not prepared today..."

Why did Yin take him away: "I have always thought about finding an opportunity to say to my parents... But I don't know what to say? I don't think what's wrong with you... It's me... It's me that I'm embarrassed to speak... I didn't even say Yinwei... I just don't know what to say... Anyway, I'm going to say it, let's just say it today..."

Seeing her rare cost of consequences, Ning Hai insisted on her for a while and felt a little bitter for a moment.

If her conditions are good in all aspects, why would she hesitate so? Her hesitation is actually to buy more time for herself so that she can be confident to speak when she stands in front of others.

The two of them stood at the gate, one holding the other.

There is a small vegetable field in the yard. The old man and the old lady planted it when they were there. Later, the old couple was in Xize, and the nanny helped plant the vegetable garden. The vegetables on the ground were also covered with plastic film to keep it warm. This year, for Junwen's wedding, the old couple came back for the New Year. Now the sun came out, and the old man called the Fourth Master and came out to build a tall plastic shed for the yard. Otherwise, they could only plant the green spinach that grew close to the ground.

OK! As long as the old man is willing to move, it proves that he is in good health.

The Fourth Master is playing with his children, so you can do whatever you want.

The old man is old and has no ability to do things. He began to direct the Fourth Master: "You have to hold up the wooden stake, but you can't make that bamboo pole. It's just a fool..."

The Fourth Master didn't make any arguments. It's okay, you can do whatever you say. He threw the bamboo pole and turned his face to see the eldest daughter pulling a young man standing outside at a loss.

When the young man looked, the Fourth Master felt aware of his senses. He simply stopped doing it, but pointed at Ning Hai, whose hands and feet were stiff: "Come on! Come on! Come on and help me! Just as the cause and effect are not there, I will send a labor force. Come in quickly, take off my coat and help me!"

Ning Hai: What does "..." mean?

I didn't say that I didn't ask to enter the door, and I was so indifferent.

Why did he push the door open and run in and hug her dad and refuse to let go: "Dad-Dad-I'm scared to death..."

Her father said, "Start up and start! Move your grandpa to the chair, and the stone bench is cold..."

Why did he burst into tears and laughed and shouted to Ning Hai: "Come in!"

Ning Hai felt that he had almost gone in with his hands and feet. When he went in, he bowed to the old man and the fourth master and said hello: "Hello grandpa, hello uncle..."

The old man looked at the granddaughter and nodded clearly: "Okay, okay! This young man is so handsome. At that time, he liked this kind of worker recruiting workers. There was no problem with swinging a sledgehammer..."

The Fourth Master's expression was quite gentle: "Follow me, come in."

When he entered, Lin Yutong was in the kitchen. Why whispered behind him: "Mom, I brought someone home, he brought Kehao ham..."

Lin Yutong turned her face with a 'um' sound. When she saw Ning Hai standing there with restraint, she understood, so she smiled: "Have you eaten breakfast? If you haven't eaten, just put some meatballs first..."

"It's okay!" Ning Hai had an illusion, as if it was not the first time he entered this house. "I'm not hungry, I'll go and help my uncle..."

Then we will explain it according to the reason. "My dad asked to help build a greenhouse."

"Then drink some water too!" Lin Yutong said, "Why go with me? Drink some hot water, and then go out if you feel warm..."

Ning Hai looked at Yinhe when he came out and whispered: "Uncle and aunt must know."

The two of them looked nothing unexpected.

Why isn't you sure: "Probably." Did Yang Kun's mother say it?

The two of them can only think of this.

But since I know that I still treat this, my attitude is enthusiastic and familiar, I obviously have no rejection.

For some reason, Ning Hai's eyes turned red. Why did the water he handed over, regardless of whether it was hot or not, and he poured it into one mouthful. Then he lowered his head like a concealer, took off his down jacket, and went out in a sweater: "I'll go and help."

Why did I put down the cup, go to the kitchen, and hugged my mother's waist from behind: "Mom...I just feel that being with her is very at ease..."

Lin Yutong didn't move and said 'yes'.

He continued, "Actually, I'm very scared. I'm afraid to find someone... the same as my father before..." As she said that, she quickly explained, "It's not that my father is not good... I'm tired of living like that! Mom, you have been very tired after you followed my father in those years!"

Lin Yutong knew that this was because of Wu's original body, he loved his wife and children very much, but from the reason, this child was insecure when he was young.

"Later, my father really changed. I didn't dare to believe it..." Her face was pressed against my mother's back, which was a fragrance, not a medicine, which was really good, "But I think after my father changed, I slept more soundly at night. No matter what I did when I went out, I was not afraid... So, I wanted to find someone like my father. He didn't have to be able to speak much, he didn't have to be rich and powerful, but he just wanted to make me feel at ease... Mom, Ning Hai is such a person... He bent down to do a job that others look down on, and he found a way to make money... That is,

Even if our family has no money, he can rely on himself and live a good life. I can't see too far, I can only see near. People have a long life, and everything can be encountered... Those who have good jobs have become laid off... But those who are laid off have lived a good life based on their own abilities... Mom, you also say that life is actually people! When people are good, life will be smooth. People know how to make progress, and they always go uphill in those days..." As she said that, she smiled embarrassedly, "I don't know what I want to say..."

Lin Yutong sighed and laughed: "Mom knows... don't be afraid, your dad and I don't blame you." After that, he urged her, "Go! Give your grandpa a pot of hot tea and hand someone something for you..."

Why did he look at her mother's face carefully? Seeing that he was not unhappy, he really started to laugh. As he smiled, tears came down again: "I'm not only afraid that you and my dad will be angry, but also afraid... I'm afraid that you think I'm not going to be strong..."

What is competing for success? What is not competing for success?

Is it necessary for children to study hard and then become famous and get married to achieve how much success they can earn?

No! Everyone lives according to their own wishes and lives well, this is the achievement!

Lin Yutong said: "A strong woman is a successful person. Is it not a successful person who is a family-run housewife? Even if a person lives mediocre and ordinary, every grain of rice he eats is earned by himself. According to his own abilities, he lives the life he wants. This is to strive for success and success."

You should know that many people in this world cannot live the life they want to live, even those life they want to live is just mediocre and ordinary.

She said, "It is a good thing for you to be careful, but you should not be too serious. You should take care of other people's opinions, but don't live because of others' opinions. Both your father and I are not like that, do you understand?"

Understand!

I also try my best to do it.

It is different to have a young man at home working, especially Ning Hai who is used to working. With all his strength, the old man pointed out that he could do whatever he could, and occasionally gave some constructive suggestions, such as leaving a small window for which to ventilate. It also has to take off the plastic on the shed when it is hot, otherwise everything inside will be suffocated to death.

The Fourth Master was helping him hand over pliers, tweezers, wires, or something below, or he would hold a ladder.

Why did I hear my father chatting and asking: "Now the mountains are still scattered?"

"Yes!" Ning Hai replied while doing it, "Recently, I have gone to two towns, and most of the villages are scattered in the mountains. The situation is different from the situation near the provincial capital. This is a village, one by one. There is flat land there, and houses are built everywhere. No crops can be planted in the mountains, and the land that is opened is irregular. There are only two-point land, and it cannot be watered. Nowadays, there are not many people going out to work, even if there are, it is also our generation. Many people don't go to school before they graduate from junior high school, and then go out to work. It is like the older generation, and few people go out to go out."

"You are all collecting mountain products when you go to such places?" The Fourth Master handed him the nail and asked.

"Not all." Ning Hai paused and sighed, "I originally thought that I could give them some deposit and ask them to catch breeding pigs and feed them first, and then I will have the goods in my hands next year. But who knows that even this is the case, not many people dare to try it. Each household has two pigs, and there are only two people. Those who feed three must have a wedding ceremony next year. Either the son gets married or the daughter gets married, or if there is a grandson to be born, the pigs will not be sold."

"What are you going to do?" The Fourth Master asked again.

"In fact, the local government has to come. Some people are willing to do this business." Ning Hai said: "It is easy to build a bacon or ham factory for mountain pigs in a county. Driven by interests, people are naturally willing to raise them..." But this is not something I can do.

When the Fourth Master saw that he had made a reservation, he moved out of the way. He then patted his shoulder: "Don't always think about these questions you have seen and thought about. If you have time, write down all the things you have done. Now, look at your thoughts in two years. If you look back at your thoughts, can you still insist on your opinion that your opinion is correct... or there are supplements, or there are corrections, or the times change, many things cannot keep up with the progress of the times. If you pass this from beginning to end, you may get something different from it."

Ning Hai was holding a hammer in his hand, but a trace of contemplation flashed in his eyes, and then he immediately said: "Yes! I have recorded it all."

The Fourth Master nodded with satisfaction: This kid is not slow.

"Come here to rest and have a tea!" He said, and then sat opposite the old man.

The old man looked at Ning Hai with a smile and said to the fourth master: "I accepted several apprentices in the workshop back then, but none of them satisfied me..." Then he told Ning Hai how he worked in the workshop back then, how he competed, and how he evaluated model workers. He was so excited.
Chapter completed!