Years (147)

Qingning admires her aunt a little. She is as big as household appliances and small as ropes that are tied up with debris.

She said, "Tell my sister to prepare slowly."

"She is ready?" Yingzi was worried. "She can make up for it if she can. If you don't think about it for her, she will always be lost."

It's okay, too.

In the past few years in Beijing, she thanked her when she took care of her family.

She always feels that her sister is very reliable and doesn’t have to worry about anything if she has her at home.

As a result, my aunt called this "lost and lost". Then what did I call it when I live my life in the future?

When I went back to ask her mother, her mother said, my daughter would never understand her mood at this time.

Qingping took the small notebook and prepared to interview her mother seriously: "What are you feeling now?"

"What's your mood?" She was so upset! She snorted softly, "It's just the mood to knock you out!"

Qingping's pen was ready, and then he said this to herself. Once she put the notebook together, is there any way to speak?

Xu Qiang is looking at his mother-in-law's mood and is more obedient. He does housework when he comes back, buys vegetables and fruits, but he looks like he can work at home and outside. Then Yingzi's attitude towards Xu Qiang is different. He doesn't ask Xu Qiang to do this or that, but there are always dishes that Xu Qiang likes to cook.

Qingping thought, who is the one who is close to you?

When there was no one, her mother photographed her: "I'm not good to others, can they treat you well?"

Whether he is good to me has nothing to do with whether you are good to him or not?

Who said it doesn't matter?

This is the most childish!

Yingzi told her two daughters at home about her reasoning, and even called Qingning down and told her to listen.

She gave an example, saying that whoever is not good to his son-in-law, and then what happened later. She also said that whoever is good to his son-in-law, and what the son-in-law did later. "I know, you young people nowadays think about the same as on TV. He must love you and die, and you will not be able to live without you... Child! Remember! Anyone whoever is separated can live. If you ask others to live without you, then you will not be able to live like that. Life is not like that. Similarly, I am even more afraid that you will not live without you, and that is to suffer yourself."

Yingzi sighed, "This is why everyone is willing to raise a son but not a daughter. You have to marry your daughter to someone else's family. Whether it is good or bad, you can't see it at all. When young people are in love, two people are as good as one person? But after this force, you still have to do it, and he is still him. You look at other families, why do you say you are unwilling to marry your daughter to someone who is unaware of the truth? I am afraid that it will be inconvenient to not understand the situation. On the other side, there are indeed some benefits that no one in the family of acquaintances do not have, that is, love. The couple is really a bit stumbling. Whoever wants to say that they are separated can't open their mouths easily. Where can they live? Life is not all achieved by life."

Qingping and Qingning looked at each other, and they didn't agree with this theory very much.

Qingping said, "You always compare with us at that time. There is really no comparison. Not to mention the era, just talk about the limitations of the region. Most of the girls who stay in the city have financial ability. No one is born to rely on anyone. When he makes money, I also make money. When he goes out to socialize, men and women are equal. Unlike you and my father, you are in charge of your family, and everything outside the family is my father. Now... can you go to the tax bureau to pay taxes? Can you go to the health bureau to apply for a health license? Look! You can't! You always think that there is a place where men go, and the man says something there. Then, according to you, how can I be my aunt?"

Yingzi angrily photographed her daughter: "Am I talking about this? What I'm talking about is that you can't just point to love and love..."

But what's going on without these love?

This time Qingping did not refute her. He roughly understood what she wanted to express, and just nodded and said, "I understand, I understand!"

Yingzi then got back to the point, "You just talk about Han Caier, your aunt Caier..."

It means a woman who lives in an alley and divorces her husband Qiu Cheng who works in a supply and marketing cooperative.

Both of them knew this person, and Qingping also had a lot of dealings.

Therefore, Yingzi said: "......A while ago, Qiu Cheng's father died..."

Qingping immediately realized who he was talking about, and exclaimed: "That old man looks good..."

Yingzi nodded, "I was so sick that I was sent to the hospital and asked me to pull me back. No one could wake me up when I pulled me back, and I didn't even open my eyes. The Qiu family is so big that I have hundreds of filial sons and virtuous grandchildren, and I can't kneel down from the house to the yard. Who told me that this old man didn't open his eyes? Over the years, the old man often took care of the two children of your Aunt Cai'er family..."

When he gave birth to two sons, the eldest was awarded Qiu Cheng. The child could not live without his mother, so he lived with his mother more often, and the younger one only recognized his mother. Later, he lived alone as his grandfather, just to take care of his two grandchildren.

"... The old man came to that place, and everyone in the village advised Cai'er to go and see the old man, for the last glance. Then Han Cai'er went, marrying this old man over the years is not a thing, and Han Cai'er said it was smooth, and there was nothing. The old man helped her take care of her two sons, and he was grateful to her. He called her dad, but she couldn't cry. The old man didn't open his eyes when he shouted, but Cai'er screamed, struggled to open his eyes, crying, and was anxious to speak... Cai'er helped her up again

He asked the old man to spit, and he served him again. What did the old man say? He said that the Qiu family owe Caier, and said that they did something wrong when they were parents, which led to the divorce of the couple. He also said that they were worried about the two grandchildren, and said that they cried all over the yard. Finally, they left a message, not the one who married Qiu Cheng, and that she would not be allowed to go to the ancestral grave in the future... In fact, the one who married later went back to Qiu Cheng's brother's house, and she was not allowed to step in the old house. Until she died, the old man only recognized Caier as his daughter-in-law..."

These two sisters cannot understand the logic of being recognized and being perfect for the rest of their lives.

What’s wrong if you don’t ask others to come in? What’s wrong if you don’t ask for mourning?

The two of them live outside, and they will be over after a good life. If they don’t ask me to come back, I won’t come back, right?

OK! Maybe all she wants to say is that the two sisters understand that they are married and should do their duty as a wife. Being good to others will not be treated unfairly sooner or later. When the man is really unreliable, his family will not look at him.

Use the power of moral clans and so on to restrain him.

Qingping wanted to refute again, but Qingning pressed and whispered: "You have to start arguing again if you refute again."

It seems that it is the real mother and the mother.

I can't think about it when I'm missing. I can't get better after seeing it for two days.

Yingzi, who is married to her daughter, wishes she could instill all the life experiences and lessons she had summed up in the past half of her life into her daughter.

But Qingping, did you have phobia before marriage? It must be a bit. But in her life experience over there, she told her that what she longed for was short-lived. The more she became, the more she became, the more nervous she became.

Qingning said to Qingping in private: "That's not necessarily true. Really! Look at my parents, I've been living for half my life. It's so irritating when they're alone."

Then I talk about my parents' affairs, such as in the park, one sitting on the lawn, one pillowing on the other's legs, and what about being a father at home, carrying him as a mother at home and playing up and down the stairs. Not to mention that the two of them are turning off the lights and dancing at home.

"Look!" Qingning said after giving an example: "How can you live your life, and your experience is not complete."

OK! Qingping accepted this statement and supported her mother's nagging and tried not to refute it.

But she could bear anything, but she could only refute the evaluation she gave after the house was renovated and cleaned.

Why?

Yingzi said: "This house is well decorated, but that's right... Are you where people live?"

ah?

What does it mean?!

Yingzi felt that there was no place to sit in when she came in, and she felt that it was wrong to sit anywhere.

As soon as the person sat in, he felt that this was inconsistent.

The key is: "Someone has to clean it. For such a big house, just cleaning the room, you don't think about doing anything after doing this alone. Look, the shoes we changed into in the entrance hall were not put in, and I suddenly felt very messy. The bag was not placed in the right place, and it felt something was wrong."

This requires people who have good living habits to live in, or have to hire a nanny at home and clean up at any time.

Xu Qiang quickly said, "Don't worry, my aunt will definitely be invited at home."

Yingzi glared at Qingping, "Then you don't go to work now, and you have to serve you alone at home?"

Doesn’t my not going to work mean I’m not working?

When Xu Qiang was away, she said Qingping again: "Xu Qiang's father hasn't used a nanny yet. Do you think you use a nanny first? Originally, it would be okay to hire a nanny first for his father. But in his father's situation... an old bachelor hires a nanny, and people are talking about it."

Without that much talk, she said, "If I don't hire a nanny, I will find an hourly worker and come here regularly to clean up."

This is OK!

I don’t want my daughter to do housework. My mother-in-law smiled when she saw her son-in-law.

I stayed for more than a month. In September, the orchard at home was really busy, so she went home.

The restaurants have been closed for so long before.

When someone went back, the call came three days later. The wedding date was set, and it was scheduled for the 28th day of the twelfth lunar month.

Then Qingping felt that getting married was really tiring.

Wedding photos, this needs to be taken.

Looking for studios everywhere, asking for the price, and when I came back, I said to Qingning: "If I were really a college student who had just graduated, this marriage would not be enough. It would be too expensive!"

Qingping is not a person who values ​​these people very much. He has photographed more than 2,000 per set and proves that he has had such a thing, so forget it.

It's like taking photos outdoors or taking photos in scenic spots.

Qingping shook his head, I couldn't stand the toss.

The wedding dress is made by Xu Qiang, not the top-notch one, but it is definitely of a better grade.

I wore it once when I took wedding photos and put it away properly, "Wear it at the wedding..."

As soon as I finished speaking, I seemed to realize that something was wrong, "Can I wear a wedding dress on the 28th day of the twelfth lunar month?"

Definitely not!

That day in my hometown, try wearing a wedding dress?

Lin Yutong laughed when she heard this, thinking about what wedding to send Qingping to? She simply gave her a Chinese dress to take the lead.

The big red dress is embroidered with gold thread, and the head and face are a complete set of gold jewelry.

Real gold is indeed different, take it out and shook your eyes.

Qingping didn't realize it was real gold at first, so he thought it was good-looking, "It's much better than a wedding dress."

I was very happy to take it away. I went back and changed it to Xu Qiang to show it. But I put it on my body and my head, and I felt it was wrong. The weight was wrong!

Xu Qiang frightened one, took off the hairpin from her head and thought, "It's real gold."

Then this is worth the money.

Qingping quickly called Lin Yutong. Without waiting for her to say it, Lin Yutong said, "You can just keep it for you. Just hold it with peace of mind."

It’s not that I have to say it indirectly, the key is that this child knows what he is.
To be continued...